I don't see you pushing buttons at all. I see no attempts to fix the underlying issue, but sheer avoidance of it like if we don't talk about it, it will somehow go away. I see you attempting to deflect conversation that EDUCATES others concerning triggers. If we understand how they work, we can avoid buying into illusions and communicate effectively by UNDERSTANDING THE WORDS THEY USE TO MANIPULATE US. If we explore that ourselves within our safe boundaries, we can free ourselves of any underlying triggers. We regain our free will by choosing to act or not as opposed to blind kneejerk reaction.

And by the way, this is a controlled, monitored environment. We all know that. This information was available to all and we knew that the very second we posted thus consenting for what we say to be used or not. I see your attacks on AO as both petty and misguided. She revealed herself, did NOT use the data for nefarious means, gave full disclosure and opened an interesting line of debate. She wants to face the issue head on while you wish us all to just let it go. The first path is courageous and empowering, the second stinks of cowardice and fear.