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Women today are not giving us any cues that they want to be asked out, and without some indication or encouragement that he might be well received, a man is not going to risk the rejection—which men are far more sensitive to than women evidently realize.
The days of men asking women out are gone! Women don't even take the time to do little unspoken things, that interest a man. Something basic to our culture is being lost. No wonder so many women are so unhappy.
In fact, many men have come to think women don't even like men, because of the way women react to their initial overtures, yet, the women wonder why men aren't asking them out, they're either not saying yes, or they're not sending the signals
One of the rarest qualities to find in a young woman today—at least towards eligible men—was kindness. So many men are simply starving for kindness from a woman but so often find sarcasm and cynicism instead. One man commented to me on a climate nowadays of a prevailing hostility among women towards men. It is easy for a man to feel that some women are actually looking to find fault, ready to pounce on him at the slightest ill-chosen word or misspoken comment. In women this can manifest in self-righteousness, or a kind of assumed moral superiority over men—often unconscious on their part. Men complain that they often feel around women that they cannot win, or say or do anything right. Such women drive men away.
Perhaps women today may have good reasons for these attitudes, but they are very wounding to a man, especially to an interested man who is serious, sincere, and sensitive. Such a man will not ask such a woman out.
He simply doesn't want to be around it. I understand that in today's world it can be imprudent and even downright dangerous for a woman to be too kind too soon to a man she doesn't know well, and even then there still is chance of betrayal. The Sexual Revolution has ruined it for everyone as far as trust goes, but sarcasm and cynicism towards men have become epidemic in our society, and it has become so ingrained, so second-nature, that most women are not even conscious that they're being that way—but the men are. And they go the other way.
In terms of the risk factor, traditionally it has always been up to the woman to control how far things went and how fast, and, if she liked him, still keep the man captivated. In the confusion of the day that that was perhaps one more thing that was lost, or at least severely damaged. What has been lost,is an ancient womanly wisdom that women in previous ages had always intuitively known, on how to "handle" (not manipulate) a man—that is, how to anticipate him and keep him happy.
A modern woman might interpret this sort of thing as "game playing" but it is not. It is a deadly serious business that holds civilization together. Quails and pelicans have their mating rituals and dances and so do humans.
We all know that women have a need, especially in marriage, to be reassured that they are loved and cherished—they want to hear it. And a man who thinks that his love ought to be self-evident is thought to be rather obtuse in these matters. He should tell her he loves her often, as well as show it on every possible occasion. Yet, a man has a corresponding need for reassurance from the woman he loves, which society tends to ridicule, especially since the rise of feminism. His need is to be admired.
It is the way men are made.
A man needs to feel that he is a hero in the eyes of the woman he loves. It may sound corny, and most men may not admit it, but real life is corny, and it is true. It is from such admiration that a man derives his strength. The quest for this admiration, either in the eyes of a specific woman, or hoping to catch the eye of a woman, supplies him with inspiration and motivation to serve and accomplish in his world.
There are women, thanks perhaps to the effects of feminism, who act as though there were some sort of anathema against showing a man admiration, as if to say, "I'm not going to feed his stupid ego!" But, perhaps if his ego were fed once in a while he wouldn't be in the state of starvation that so diminishes a man as to prod him into the very ways that women find so intolerable. The result is a seemingly endless cycle of resentment and mutual punishment.
Many women appear to have unwittingly made it a point of pride to take an unhealthy (if unconscious) pleasure in denying men what they most need by reacting to them with sarcasm, cynicism, laughs at the expense of men, and a general attitude derived from the world. Many of these cynical attitudes towards men become self-fulfilling prophecies so discouraging to a man that he may start to live down to the belittlement, just as he would live up to praise were it offered. Male ego only becomes a problem when it is undernourished. Properly fed, it spends less time rebelling and trying to feed itself in unattractive and self-defeating ways. Properly fed, it causes a man to strive to be the best that he can be for the woman he loves and the society he serves. Some women may take offense at what I'm saying here, as though I were placing the whole onus of the problem on women.
I am not.
It is important not to confuse the generalities of politics and rhetoric with the tender particularities of where we most essentially live. The question at hand is why women aren't getting asked out more often. This is not an unimportant issue. It is important to remember that contemporary society is under a profound malaise, with everything good, pure, and holy coming under attack.
One of the chief things under attack is the family, the home. And if family is under attack then it stands to reason that everything that leads up to family—namely how men and women find each other—is also under attack.
I have noticed that most women do not have the foggiest idea how men feel, or what men feel, and most men feel too vulnerable to tell them. Some women are so embittered as to no longer care. They may be beyond my reach. In any case, the fact remains that I know men who have actually given up on women—who have, after so many rebuffs, come to the conclusion that women simply don't like men.
Men are far more vulnerable to women than women can even imagine. Men are sensitive to things in women that women are not even aware of. The slightest bit of sarcasm from a women in whom he's interested can cause him to call off the whole pursuit. A woman who thinks this weak on the man's part simply doesn't know how men are built and what men are feeling these days. We live in a culture that sinfully exploits women, but many women have retaliated by vengefully diminishing men with their tongues and attitudes. There is much healing needed on both sides.
While not seeking a slavish dependence, a man needs to be needed by the woman he loves, yet the constant message sent (ad nasuem) by the modern woman is "I'm strong and independent! I don't need a man!" Of course, this is a hollow and defensive cry and betrays her bitter disappointment in men—otherwise she wouldn't need to announce it so much—but men hear it at face value and retreat.
A man may admire a woman for her strong independent qualities, but let her start telling him of them often enough and what he hears is "Well, she doesn't need me then!" and his eye begins to wander in search of someone who does. A man may respect a women for her independence, but he will cherish and love her for appreciating and needing (and in so doing bringing out) his manliness.
If a woman were to ask my advice on how to get a man interested in her, I would tell her to pay attention to him. Listen to him. The world in which a man lives is very cold and competitive, and when a woman creates a safe place where a man may open himself up, it is usually irresistible to him. But this requires reverence.
Should she show the slightest hint of ridicule over what he says, or take him lightly he will turn to stone. Listen to what is important to him, his hopes and dreams. Most men when they talk like this are rather admirable and if she admires him she should not hide it. She need not make a show of it—which he would see through—it must be real. If it is authentic it is not "game playing", but honesty. If she were interested in him in the first place that implies some admiration, doesn't it? It would be game playing not to admire him.
The old saying that men are only interested in "one thing" namely sex, is cynical and false. Men who become that way do so because they have given up on love and the hope that a woman would really receive him if he did open up to her.
What does a man look for in a woman? In a word, a home. To a little child, a woman (usually its mother) is a place. This is not to say a thing. It is to say a home. And only a person can be a home. This is what a man looks for in the woman who would be his wife. This is not to say that it is her job to raise him—certainly not—but the shelter she provides for him emotionally, where he may be himself, generally makes him better, stronger, more of a man, and inspires him to provide for her and shelter her physically. Indeed, to the point of laying down his life.
If a woman gives a man what he really needs—genuine interest, understanding, and acceptance of him as he really is, he will ask her out, and keep coming back for more. |
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Good post. 
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bravo!
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I'm sorry.
I love you.
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u will never find a girl |
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Fonzi Bad-Boy don't need to speak.
Just a raised eyebrow, and a nod towards the exit door, and he's sorted!
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Your right. Programing is in place and it's to destroy family.
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The entire society is under Merry Christmas social turbulence designed to atomize everyone. Psychic prison. Aldous Huxley's "concentration camp for entire societies" which is maintained by pharmacology enhanced by brainwashing. The Final Revolution. |
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Fonzi Bad-Boy don't need to speak.
Just a raised eyebrow, and a nod towards the exit door, and he's sorted!
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 864862
As afterthought, apart from the mind control & KGB brainwashing taking place in our country, the United States, replies such as this reinforce my conjecture.
Partially culminating into my renouncing pursuits in fields of study and becoming a private researcher relishing my solitude and attempting to enjoy the residual freedoms that remain as the aristocratic, occult elite begin to bring about their long awaited, final world empire.
I am twiddling my thumbs and biding my time. The knowledge I have sought, I have attained. |
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The entire society is under Merry Christmas social turbulence designed to atomize everyone. Psychic prison. Aldous Huxley's "concentration camp for entire societies" which is maintained by pharmacology enhanced by brainwashing. The Final Revolution. Quoting: agathon 858694
I've read this three times but I don't understand it. Is it just me? Maybe I'm tired, lol.
If at first you don't succeed, perhaps failure is more your style. |
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The entire society is under Merry Christmas social turbulence designed to atomize everyone. Psychic prison. Aldous Huxley's "concentration camp for entire societies" which is maintained by pharmacology enhanced by brainwashing. The Final Revolution. Quoting: agathon 858694
In a sentence, The Ascendancy of the Scientist Dictatorship. |
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The entire society is under Merry Christmas social turbulence designed to atomize everyone. Psychic prison. Aldous Huxley's "concentration camp for entire societies" which is maintained by pharmacology enhanced by brainwashing. The Final Revolution.
In a sentence, The Ascendancy of the Scientist Dictatorship. Quoting: Confounded Intellectual. 856860
Pardon me, the intended word above is "Scientific." |
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The entire society is under Merry Christmas social turbulence designed to atomize everyone. Psychic prison. Aldous Huxley's "concentration camp for entire societies" which is maintained by pharmacology enhanced by brainwashing. The Final Revolution.
I've read this three times but I don't understand it. Is it just me? Maybe I'm tired, lol. Quoting: *Jentle*
Not completely, but i can see hints of.. Break everyone apart so that they are only reliant on themselves and become "free entities" in a world where groups of people are needed to survive.
Dr., 1. To alter and make impure, as with the intention to deceive
Quibble, 1. To evade the truth or importance of an issue by raising trivial distinctions and objections.
Dr. Quibble
To alter and make impure the evasion of truth or importance of an issue with the intention to deceptively raise trivial distinctions and objections.
Not everything in this world is serious... some of it is a joke.
"Cursed with being wickedly british"
"Narcissist" - I wear it like a medal.
It is infact the sane that are weak with closed minds, only those outside the norm can see the truth. |
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The entire society is under Merry Christmas social turbulence designed to atomize everyone. Psychic prison. Aldous Huxley's "concentration camp for entire societies" which is maintained by pharmacology enhanced by brainwashing. The Final Revolution.
I've read this three times but I don't understand it. Is it just me? Maybe I'm tired, lol. Quoting: *Jentle*
I think this may be the pontificating ponce, Vedic-Medic!
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Excellent, interesting and informative.
- The more you learn, the less you realize you know.
- If You Talk to God, You're Spiritual. If He Talks Back, You're Nuts.
- You can’t argue with reason against a position that isn’t based on reason.
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Hear hear!!! EXCELLENT post!!
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Henry is that you?
[link to www.henrymakow.com]
No?
Ahh...you must live in one of the 'liberated' western worlds.
These days you must leave the US, Canada, UK, etc. to find traditional women i.e. not in competition with men, but in partnership. Where they take pride in being a feminine woman, not a man in a woman's body. Where they put caring for a husband and raising a family before a career. Not to say they can't work, just where they place their priorities.
But careful if/when you bring them back home, lest they become 'westernized'.
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Henry is that you?
[ link to www.henrymakow.com]
No?
Ahh...you must live in one of the 'liberated' western worlds.
These days you must leave the US, Canada, UK, etc. to find traditional women i.e. not in competition with men, but in partnership. Where they take pride in being a feminine woman, not a man in a woman's body. Where they put caring for a husband and raising a family before a career. Not to say they can't work, just where they place their priorities.
But careful if/when you bring them back home, lest they become 'westernized'.
Most certainly not.
I have examined the gentleman's material. It is fitting with my conjecture. I'm an American and live in Texas. Although, unlike my fellow countrymen, not cut from the same cloth.
I'm growing wearing having to say, "I'M AN AMERICAN." Because I have reverted to a previous "traditional, biblical, and old fashioned" state of being while retaining my intellect.
More akin to Epistemological Autocracy than "Westernization."
Malthusian principles and Hegelian dialectic in play. |
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tl;dr
go read the Ladder Theory, OP
I think EAT is a pretty cool guy, eh predicts earthquakes and doesn't afraid of anything |
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I feel like I am a special, unique and rare young woman... If I wasn't so shy I would show the world who I am.
Cool post, OP. Some of us, maybe just a few, know these things to be true. We are out there.
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tl;dr
go read the Ladder Theory, OP Quoting: Phallusy
Is this "Ladder Theory" worthy of note? |
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I feel like I am a special, unique and rare young woman... If I wasn't so shy I would show the world who I am.
Cool post, OP. Some of us, maybe just a few, know these things to be true. We are out there.
Have you departed entirely from womanhood and subsequent natural affection and tender embraces motherhood entails or have you discerned the latent deception consciously targeting women of the United States and not succumbed to its rancid manipulative machinations as have most women?
It is well known to me, in this 21st century of flagrant deceit, both overt & covert brainwashing, coupled with on going chicanery, there is a dwindling remnant I wish to appeal to, provided I am seeking championship with a women.
I have postponed that aspect of my being for some time now. |
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I'd much rather seclude myself.
Amusing the games children play. |
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tl;dr
go read the Ladder Theory, OP
Is this "Ladder Theory" worthy of note? Quoting: Confounded Intellectual. 856860
www.laddertheory.com/
I think EAT is a pretty cool guy, eh predicts earthquakes and doesn't afraid of anything |
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Have you departed entirely from womanhood and subsequent natural affection and tender embraces motherhood entails or have you discerned the latent deception consciously targeting women of the United States and not succumbed to its rancid manipulative machinations as have most women?
It is well known to me, in this 21st century of flagrant deceit, both overt & covert brainwashing, coupled with on going chicanery, there is a dwindling remnant I wish to appeal to, provided I am seeking championship with a women.
I have postponed that aspect of my being for some time now. Quoting: Confounded Intellectual. 856860
If you'd like that to change, you'll have to stop talking talking like that Sir Galahad.
And what is "championship with a women"?
I know, you meant "companionship with woman"? |
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Y'know, I had a really distinctly disturbing dream last year, on the 20th, inauguration day, coincidentally.
I remember seeing thousands of women thrown naked into plastic cages and reprogrammed via loudspeakers and hypnotic TV monitors in order to make them mentally unfit to bear children.
It was pretty horrific. I woke up with a start, and was very relieved to see it hadn't happened.
Still, the thought of the ruling class reprogramming the female gender en mass has stuck with me. Could they really do such a thing? Is it conceivable that they would try?
Anyways, great post. This is certainly something that should be talked about more. Women, take note. Also be aware of shadow government mind-control attempts.
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Have you departed entirely from womanhood and subsequent natural affection and tender embraces motherhood entails or have you discerned the latent deception consciously targeting women of the United States and not succumbed to its rancid manipulative machinations as have most women?
It is well known to me, in this 21st century of flagrant deceit, both overt & covert brainwashing, coupled with on going chicanery, there is a dwindling remnant I wish to appeal to, provided I am seeking championship with a women.
I have postponed that aspect of my being for some time now.
If you'd like that to change, you'll have to stop talking talking like that Sir Galahad.
And what is "championship with a women"?
I know, you meant "companionship with woman"? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 836255
Bowing to the wagging tails of the likes/dislikes of others demonstrates an unwavering will to yield, TO ANYTHING.
In reference to my typographical error, posting as an anonymous user has its limitations. |
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I relate very well to this. Thank you.
I'm a good looking guy with a very stable decent-paying career (something women my age actually prefer in men). I know how to attract women, but I simply don't try anymore. It's just tiresome. The game has completely changed. They give absolutely no indication they are interested even when they are. The man does all the work.
I'd rather stay single and be a good dad to my daughter. Because of her non-nurturing, overly independent feminist of a mother, my 8-year-old daughter hates being a girl. Nice going there, mom. |
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Fuck women, usless degraded gslutty pieces of shit that they have become. Look how far you have fallen. |
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