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Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?

 
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They don't have it, and don't even know what it is.

The walking wounded zombies want yours.
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If a woman wounded you she is only a girl and you are not an intellectual man.

An intellectual man will seek out an intellectual woman realizing in years to come good conversation will be one of the things keeping love alive.

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If you are a stay at home mother, I call BS that it's really not that hard to raise a kid at home.. cleaning takes only a few minutes when one stops thinking about it and just gets up and does it. If you want to go out and get a full time job while I stay home and take care of two kids, go for it! In my mind a woman who stays at home all day should do all the cooking and cleaning.. work sucks especially lots of overtime. I'd love to stay home all day.. women make it seem to hard but I know better.. this BS about how much they would earn if they were paid to do what they do.. BS. I can make a home look spotless in just a few hours time and not have to clean again for days except for maybe dishes, and they take all of 20 minutes to do. Keeping a house orderly is not hard.
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Sorry, but you are wrong. You act like the major part of being a stay at home MOM is the HOME part.

Therein lies your misunderstanding.

I guarantee that anyone would begin to be exhausted by being hung off of all the time.

Unless you're a terrible parent and plop your child in front of the TV to be babysat, your day is far from swish the toilet and wash a dish.

The toilet will always be there. It can be used even if it's dirty. A child is only 4 once in her life. There's one window of opportunity to give her self esteem, teach her to love nature, and to be a good parent.

My child is my job, not my house. My child's well-being is my purpose in being a stay at home MOM.

Not whether or not your throne is clean, buddy.

And if you want your child loved and taught and cared for properly, then you should appreciate how hard it is to do this day in and day out. A lot of men can barely stand to deal with kids for the few hours they are home, but they STILL do not appreciate how hard it is to deal with them ALL DAY LONG.

I AM my child's mother. I am NOT a teacher, because kids are really, really difficult to be around all the time. That doesn't mean I don't love her, and I don't adore children. It means that not everyone is cut out for 50 rounds of UNO per day, or 4 hours of walking in the forest answering questions of "Why won't I fall off of the world?"

That may sound like heaven to you, in which case, you should be a teacher.

But for me, I do it out of love for my daughter, not because I enjoy making easter eggs with someone who throws half of the dye on the countertop, not because I enjoy playing the same game day in and day out. Not because I enjoy trying to figure out how to answer a question to a child's satisfaction, without getting too technical or lying about it.

I find it difficult, I find it mentally exhausting, and I find much of keeping up with her physically exhausting, as well.

I appreciate that you may have been born for this shit, and may have all the energy required for 14 hour days being hung off of, playing childish crap, coloring things you didn't even want to make to begin with, and etc...

But not all of us were. Some of us find it to be laborious.

I do it out of love. I sure as hell wish I enjoyed it, but I find it tedious and hard most days.

I won't get another chance later, though. This is it. You can't put off parenting, like you can washing the toilet. You can't put off showing her that she's loved like you can put off laundry.

There are no second chances in parenting. Your child is each age he or she will be, ONLY ONCE.

You either do it right, you either help them learn and interact with them...

Or one day, it's Cat's in the Cradle, buddy.


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This guy doesn't have any game so he is writing a dissertation over it. He would rather blame the women than himself. He is too scared to ask out any women because they all reject him it seems. If they didn't he wouldn't be so shy I don't think.

Women don't have to send out signals first. What do you think you are, in a boat yard or something? You can't ask someone out without a signal first? That seems childish to me.

If you want something or someone you should go for it. Isn't that what men are supposed to do? They have to sit and wait and make sure it is safe in your opinion first? You are a wimp pretty much.

You are also a whiney wimp. You need to get over yourself and just make a move. If you get rejected, learn from it and move on.

It is also funny that this guy can't take sarcastic remarks. I guess he needs a wet nurse or something. What a baby. I think he is too delicate and weak to handle dating. He really is looking for a mommy or something.
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If a woman wounded you she is only a girl and you are not an intellectual man.

An intellectual man will seek out an intellectual woman realizing in years to come good conversation will be one of the things keeping love alive.

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Is that you honey?


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Henry is that you?


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No?

Ahh...you must live in one of the 'liberated' western worlds.

These days you must leave the US, Canada, UK, etc. to find traditional women i.e. not in competition with men, but in partnership. Where they take pride in being a feminine woman, not a man in a woman's body. Where they put caring for a husband and raising a family before a career. Not to say they can't work, just where they place their priorities.




But careful if/when you bring them back home, lest they become 'westernized'.
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I am a feminist of sorts. I have just as much say as my husband, we are a partnership but...

I will defer to him in most things because I can. I am a happy house wife, but you are right, I feel ashamed of it.

TPTB have the populace believing you are scum if you don't work(and contribute to their profits), because you're rich/poor or 'just a housewife'. They want us all on the treadmill, so there is no time to see whats happening.
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I can only speak from a womans point of view.. and I'm married but I have been single at one point( divorced).

I believe women appear to play games, and perhaps men too, b/c the moment a person shows affection or as if they really like YOU, it freaks the other one out.

It's the old adage.. men want to hunt. men want to do the chasing. If they get it too easy they dont' want it.

There are books out about this. Maybe the younger women ( and perhaps older divorced women) have read the books.

It teaches a woman not to put themselves out there b/c once they show their cards so to speak, the man loses interest and goes on to the next conquest.

I'm asking you men on here, is this the real truth or not? Search deep and answer. I'd like to know for real.
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i think you wasted your money on that book,for instance say to a guy youre interested in 'this whole dating scene crap ets me down,all i really want is good friendships and the occasional good screw' see how that works for you. i dont know about you but i like to try before i buy.
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hi OP,
nice thread, and certainly true.
Please investigate the gay/pedophile agenda.
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TPTB have the populace believing you are scum if you don't work(and contribute to their profits), because you're rich/poor or 'just a housewife'. They want us all on the treadmill, so there is no time to see whats happening.
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There is no REAL power that be, though it may seem like there is one.. Different circumstances could easily put any of us in that position, i.e at the top of the ladder. I doubt many people would behave differently to the current generation. In fact in many cases I could see things being very much worse, considering that it is us cause the problems for one another for the most part.

People do that themselves, they don't need to be encouraged.

People don't need encouragement to be nasty to their fellow human being. In fact it is a default setting for most.

It doesn't matter where you are in life, there's always one person wanting to be in control over another.

That's humanities hierarchy, we so do love rank and file. And we apply it to our daily lives, maybe because subconsciously we know that there is someone above us, someone better than us, so we look seemingly below, to those unlike us, and say because that they're unemployed, or a housewife, a member of a different race or religion, etc, and find some fault which we think elevates us above them.

We lack humility.

ALL wars are started because of the desire for control, things like money or religion or oil are just a means to an end..
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I hear the men saying that they are treted so poorly by women that they have just given up on relationships! Don't you see the connection here? Women feel the same way and that is evident in thier behaviors towards men. Both men and women are confused about how to relate to one another and society encourages this by reducing relationships to be seen as insignificant and unstable.

We don't seem to have the tools to stay together anymore! We are getting our relationship advice from strangers on the web and TV personalities! Just listen to your heart and stop fighting your feelings, and if you get hurt, then you have to take what you can from the experience and find joy somewhere else (not neccessarily from another relationship). When you are in a good place, good things will find YOU!

As a woman, I can say that we have been proded to become independent and strong, 'don't let a man tell you what to do or say', blah blah blah..but the way I interpret that is to have a strong foundation, know who you are, and let a man be who he is...and if you can come together then enjoy the companionship, try to work through the BS. Although, sometimes the stress life and pains of the past get in the way, so we have to find ways to cope with that. It's not easy!!!

Both women and men are starving for attention and in today's oversexed, overtexted climate, it is encouraged to find fullfillment in the external. There is an internal/external balance that eludes even the best of us! I think there are wonderful people in this world, but even the wonderful ones can feel lost, angry and confused which leads to misbehavior...there is no fairytale people! Just try to enjoy the life you have and hopefully you will find someone who can enjoy it with you, even if only for a little while.
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Wounded. Ha ha. This is so funny. He was wounded in his intellect by being teased and rejected by women. Oh poor baby.

I see men abuse women and women abuse men. It goes both ways. I really think men are lazy arrogan bums any more, if you want to know the truth. They don't want to work or put out for anything. They just want to say here I am, take me, I am yours.

That is pretty disgusting. The whining is disgusting. I ddin't even read the whole complaining original post. Wow, talk about a nag.

Hey if you don't like women, don't ask them out. They can't all change to suit your neurosis. You sound like a creep to me.
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Have you ever read The Diary of a Wimpy Kid? This reminds me of that. You over intellectualize your own issues. It is really silly and immature.

Maybe you should read those books. You might be able to relate to the character.
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Women today are not giving us any cues that they want to be asked out, and without some indication or encouragement that he might be well received, a man is not going to risk the rejection—which men are far more sensitive to than women evidently realize.
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Pride isn't a good thing, getting rejected might teach one humility.

It would make you a better person.

Life isn't tailored to suit your desires, in many respects the opposite is true, contrary to what the new-agers would like you to believe.

Personal experience tells me intellectual people have an inability to listen to others and learn.

An intellectual man with no WILL is weak, and at best a robot, a slave to thought, especially of famous dead people.

A non-intellectual man with a strong will beats out the intellectual, because the non-intellectual man can make changes using his will, the intellectual can only think about making changes.

In a nutshell intellect without WILL is useless.

Desires don't come to fruition because of a intellect, they manifest because of action, effort and WILL, to put into practice.


So basically you're only WILLING to make an EFFORT if the women tells you to in some way?

Really, why would a woman submit to such a person, A man with no WILL? What is appealing about that?



The days of men asking women out are gone! Women don't even take the time to do little unspoken things, that interest a man. Something basic to our culture is being lost. No wonder so many women are so unhappy.
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Mostly they're unhappy because they have become more like men, because they now have the same freedoms of men, and now the irrigation of this world naturally had added to the unhappiness, if not caused it.

Welcome to the Earth, you stay will be long and the lessons hard.

But, again you are complaining about the world not being the way you want it.

And yet you still don't learn from it.

Waiting around to see what another person does male or female will see you lose out, in practically ALL walks of life, let alone relationships.

A strong WILL wins the day ultimately.



In fact, many men have come to think women don't even like men, because of the way women react to their initial overtures, yet, the women wonder why men aren't asking them out, they're either not saying yes, or they're not sending the signals
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Women seem to have no problem entering relationships regardless of where they are on the attractiveness scale.

And the ones that are single tend to be the more selective type anyway.

And why would a woman send out a signal to someone that they don't know? Some might not want to be thought as being loose or a slut. And to be frank, men's behavior today towards women, especially where Porn and men's magazines are concerned can partly be to blame for this change in attitude from women.

Besides I find a lot of women attractive, doesn't mean I have to show interest in them AT ALL. I gather the same can be said for women.



One of the rarest qualities to find in a young woman today—at least towards eligible men—was kindness. So many men are simply starving for kindness from a woman but so often find sarcasm and cynicism instead. One man commented to me on a climate nowadays of a prevailing hostility among women towards men. It is easy for a man to feel that some women are actually looking to find fault, ready to pounce on him at the slightest ill-chosen word or misspoken comment. In women this can manifest in self-righteousness, or a kind of assumed moral superiority over men—often unconscious on their part. Men complain that they often feel around women that they cannot win, or say or do anything right. Such women drive men away.
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PEOPLE in general are more hostile to one another. Again an increase in knowledge can be blamed for that. Just look at how people behave towards one another on this forum alone, elsewhere like Youtube, or even Gamefaqs it's even worse. You have whole websites dedicated towards hate of one group or another, or even individual persons.

Let's just say the Tree of knowledge of good and evil has grown quite big since the beginning, so the level of good and evil in a person is much bigger and even more complex than before really. It's not just women you know, though clearly they aren't immune to the effects.

Just look at the TV shows, Films and games people like these days.

Entertainment is also part of the irrigation of this world.


Perhaps women today may have good reasons for these attitudes, but they are very wounding to a man, especially to an interested man who is serious, sincere, and sensitive. Such a man will not ask such a woman out.

He simply doesn't want to be around it. I understand that in today's world it can be imprudent and even downright dangerous for a woman to be too kind too soon to a man she doesn't know well, and even then there still is chance of betrayal. The Sexual Revolution has ruined it for everyone as far as trust goes, but sarcasm and cynicism towards men have become epidemic in our society, and it has become so ingrained, so second-nature, that most women are not even conscious that they're being that way—but the men are. And they go the other way.
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It's good not to want to be around something you don't like, especially if it is harmful to one's peace of mind.

Peace of mind is something you should value above all else by the way.

Aim for it, you'll soon see how worthless intellect is.

People look for love, wealth, riches, fame, good health, long life even and may find it, but it's only temporary, and it isn't without chaos and loss in it's midst either. But a person who seeks peace of mind first and foremost will find it if it's not at the expense of others. i.e like those that would wage war to find peace.

Relationships with humans seldom bring peace of mind, mind you.

Another saying is that people often find what they don't want.



In terms of the risk factor, traditionally it has always been up to the woman to control how far things went and how fast, and, if she liked him, still keep the man captivated. In the confusion of the day that that was perhaps one more thing that was lost, or at least severely damaged. What has been lost,is an ancient womanly wisdom that women in previous ages had always intuitively known, on how to "handle" (not manipulate) a man—that is, how to anticipate him and keep him happy.

A modern woman might interpret this sort of thing as "game playing" but it is not. It is a deadly serious business that holds civilization together. Quails and pelicans have their mating rituals and dances and so do humans.

We all know that women have a need, especially in marriage, to be reassured that they are loved and cherished—they want to hear it. And a man who thinks that his love ought to be self-evident is thought to be rather obtuse in these matters. He should tell her he loves her often, as well as show it on every possible occasion. Yet, a man has a corresponding need for reassurance from the woman he loves, which society tends to ridicule, especially since the rise of feminism. His need is to be admired.
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I wouldn't want to woman to waste time trying to captivate me, I'm not a child that needs to be constantly stimulated..

A man should be happy, regardless so should a woman, Freedom brings happiness. Two happy people bring peace, and peace brings freedom and more happiness. Peace is peace, peace doesn't need reassurance. Learn to love peace, and not the need to be loved in itself.

To love a woman is one thing, but a to love a woman for the atmosphere that she creates is another. Few women and people for that matter have an atmosphere of peace around them. A lot of men and women tend to like everything but that for that matter. Misery loves company as is the saying.

Trust me a man or woman not comfortable with ones own thoughts and feelings hates peace, since peace will leave them alone with them. These sort of people will need to have the TV or some music on in the background at ALL times.

And *lol* at a man's need to have his vanity fulfilled.

A man who NEEDS to be admired is dangerous at best, and neurotic at worst.. There's no positive there put it that way.



It is the way men are made.
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Any man worth a dime make themselves.


A man needs to feel that he is a hero in the eyes of the woman he loves. It may sound corny, and most men may not admit it, but real life is corny, and it is true. It is from such admiration that a man derives his strength. The quest for this admiration, either in the eyes of a specific woman, or hoping to catch the eye of a woman, supplies him with inspiration and motivation to serve and accomplish in his world.
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Not only is it corny, it is pathetic. It's one of the reasons why men are so disappointed and disappointing in this day and age.

Can you imagine a philosopher from the 16th, 17th, 18th century coming out with such drivel?

Was Einstein spurred onto greatness because of the admiration from his wife?

A man's character, a mans spirit a man's true WILL isn't something mustered from the hero worship of some woman. And great women from the past were not encouraged by some admiration from their man either. WILL and determination aren't some inner forces which get it strength from the outer world. You either have it or you don't. These things are cultivated internally.

This sort of pathetic worship of woman is part of the problem actually, it has given rise to a generation of little Princesses perpetually stuck in adolescence.


There are women, thanks perhaps to the effects of feminism, who act as though there were some sort of anathema against showing a man admiration, as if to say, "I'm not going to feed his stupid ego!" But, perhaps if his ego were fed once in a while he wouldn't be in the state of starvation that so diminishes a man as to prod him into the very ways that women find so intolerable. The result is a seemingly endless cycle of resentment and mutual punishment.
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Not many women commenting about a man's humility either.

I've yet to meet ONE man who deserves the respect you seem to think men should get.

Feminism; a another symptom of a weak mind anyway. Anyone who let's some sort of religion or ideology infiltrate their mind and thus their character is again not someone you can depend upon on. Though in truth they're just another victim of the world like the rest of us.

But being Self WILLED is just that.


Many women appear to have unwittingly made it a point of pride to take an unhealthy (if unconscious) pleasure in denying men what they most need by reacting to them with sarcasm, cynicism, laughs at the expense of men, and a general attitude derived from the world.
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Which quickly gets replaced by positive thinking when the inevitable illness hits.

Or do you think that the rise of illnesses like Cancer isn't linked to the rise in people with bad and unhealthy attitudes for example.

The world is a much more interesting place than most people give it credit for.

EVERYONE gets their reward.

Or as even Jesus said.

Luke 12:35
For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.

Think about it, it is also no surprise that these illness hit the areas that are the symbols of womanhood.

Not all treasure is good, especially if the hunt for it is corrupted.


Many of these cynical attitudes towards men become self-fulfilling prophecies so discouraging to a man that he may start to live down to the belittlement, just as he would live up to praise were it offered. Male ego only becomes a problem when it is undernourished. Properly fed, it spends less time rebelling and trying to feed itself in unattractive and self-defeating ways. Properly fed, it causes a man to strive to be the best that he can be for the woman he loves and the society he serves. Some women may take offense at what I'm saying here, as though I were placing the whole onus of the problem on women.

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The best way for a person to live is to live like they don't need another person. Even when you are in a relationship it's still better the live that way.

Society is designed to control you. Serving it is counter-productive.
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OP is an Asperger's guy. I know because I am married to one myself.

While intellectualizing the world is initially appealing, it wears and grates and all the pontificating is not what a woman wants, therefore, she shows little interest in the long run.

Women still want a man who cares what she thinks, who cares how she feels and who can show some empathy for her, day in and day out. We want someone who has our back, not someone who constantly looks for reverence or he will turn to stone, as our dear OP stated.

I do get it. I do. But there's nothing there about friendship, partnership, support, admiration (for the woman!), or commitment. Nothing.

This is how I know OP is an Asperger's guy. Its always the 'what have you done for me lately' way of thinking. Always requiring a performance to please the OP, make him comfortable, make him able to relax.

Not one damn word about building a lifetime of memories and growing old together or any of those indicators of an interest in a partnership.
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OP is an Asperger's guy. I know because I am married to one myself.

While intellectualizing the world is initially appealing, it wears and grates and all the pontificating is not what a woman wants, therefore, she shows little interest in the long run.

Women still want a man who cares what she thinks, who cares how she feels and who can show some empathy for her, day in and day out. We want someone who has our back, not someone who constantly looks for reverence or he will turn to stone, as our dear OP stated.

I do get it. I do. But there's nothing there about friendship, partnership, support, admiration (for the woman!), or commitment. Nothing.

This is how I know OP is an Asperger's guy. Its always the 'what have you done for me lately' way of thinking. Always requiring a performance to please the OP, make him comfortable, make him able to relax.

Not one damn word about building a lifetime of memories and growing old together or any of those indicators of an interest in a partnership.
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I think this also falls under the spectrum of the psychopathic, sociopathic, antisocial personality disorder. It is all about the self, not the other person. That is a sick, sad and lonely way to be.

If he sincerely wants companionship, he needs to change his attitude. He might just be a troublemaker and a bully looking for control.

You really can't do anything but mock and laugh at him in the state he is in. He really needs to grow up.
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Women are more like men these days. Seriously.

90%+ women I meet DO NOT cook...really? Once you have a kid how are you going to feed your child? Mcdonalds and Lean cuisine?

They are all "independent" yet they always complain they are single. Lol

They try to be badass on soo many levels I do not even know where to start.

Maybe it is me becoming cynical after years of trying to find a really good match.

I did find the girl whom i thought was the perfect match but she died in a hunting accident (i lost my finger from the same bullet that killed her) because a hunter somehow thought we were deer.

So now I guess I am looking for her or something better.

I can tell within the first 2 days that if you are sarcastic most of the time, gtfo of my way you just wasted my time.

Most women my age (or even older 10+) can even have a serious heart to heart about anything. It's like I open up, and you slap me in the face because you are scared.

Shit I was terrified opening up, maybe cut me some slack and try a lil harder yourself?

What I am getting at is that most women are now becoming egotistical. In highschool they are now pushed to make more money than men (no problem with that) and their attitudes change quickly once they make it to college.

I would go on, but my post would literally never end LOL
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OP,
Man the Fuck Up! Quit snivveling like a scared little choir boy
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wow so im not alone :(
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
Women are more like men these days. Seriously.

90%+ women I meet DO NOT cook...really? Once you have a kid how are you going to feed your child? Mcdonalds and Lean cuisine?

They are all "independent" yet they always complain they are single. Lol

They try to be badass on soo many levels I do not even know where to start.

Maybe it is me becoming cynical after years of trying to find a really good match.

I did find the girl whom i thought was the perfect match but she died in a hunting accident (i lost my finger from the same bullet that killed her) because a hunter somehow thought we were deer.

So now I guess I am looking for her or something better.

I can tell within the first 2 days that if you are sarcastic most of the time, gtfo of my way you just wasted my time.

Most women my age (or even older 10+) can even have a serious heart to heart about anything. It's like I open up, and you slap me in the face because you are scared.

Shit I was terrified opening up, maybe cut me some slack and try a lil harder yourself?

What I am getting at is that most women are now becoming egotistical. In highschool they are now pushed to make more money than men (no problem with that) and their attitudes change quickly once they make it to college.

I would go on, but my post would literally never end LOL
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1363844


You are clearly psycho. Enjoy your lonely miserable life then.

If you want a cook, go to a restaurant. If you want to be cheap, go to a soup kitchen.

You sound like a bum anyway. You think women are too badass for you? Ha ha. You are just another wimp.

Poor little baby. Can't handle tough women. Oh well. Go cry to mommy then.
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06/21/2011 12:21 PM

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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
Women are more like men these days. Seriously.

90%+ women I meet DO NOT cook...really? Once you have a kid how are you going to feed your child? Mcdonalds and Lean cuisine?

They are all "independent" yet they always complain they are single. Lol

They try to be badass on soo many levels I do not even know where to start.

Maybe it is me becoming cynical after years of trying to find a really good match.

I did find the girl whom i thought was the perfect match but she died in a hunting accident (i lost my finger from the same bullet that killed her) because a hunter somehow thought we were deer.

So now I guess I am looking for her or something better.

I can tell within the first 2 days that if you are sarcastic most of the time, gtfo of my way you just wasted my time.

Most women my age (or even older 10+) can even have a serious heart to heart about anything. It's like I open up, and you slap me in the face because you are scared.

Shit I was terrified opening up, maybe cut me some slack and try a lil harder yourself?

What I am getting at is that most women are now becoming egotistical. In highschool they are now pushed to make more money than men (no problem with that) and their attitudes change quickly once they make it to college.

I would go on, but my post would literally never end LOL
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1363844


You are clearly psycho. Enjoy your lonely miserable life then.

If you want a cook, go to a restaurant. If you want to be cheap, go to a soup kitchen.

You sound like a bum anyway. You think women are too badass for you? Ha ha. You are just another wimp.

Poor little baby. Can't handle tough women. Oh well. Go cry to mommy then.
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LOL

you obviously dont get it.

then again this was about intellectual men and to be read by intellectual people
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06/21/2011 12:24 PM
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
Well thanks for the understanding that I had to watch my girlfriend die.

Anyways, I am not a phsyco.

I cook too. I used to cook with my girlfriend and we would try different stuff all the time.

She drove a rock crawling truck. Im sorry but that's pretty bad ass?

She was tough sometimes but that was part of it. We bickered all the time and that's what made it great.

Heart to heart, bicker, go on hikes, crawl some rocks in her truck. I never got to give her a ride in a helicopter ( I'm a Helicopter Pilot (rotorcraft)

I can handle the tough chicks. I just can't handle the though chicks that are soft on the outside tough on the inside.

Aka, barbie but fucking crazy.

I bet your the closet virgin acting like a bully just because you can.
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06/21/2011 12:25 PM
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
The entire society is under Merry Christmas social turbulence designed to atomize everyone. Psychic prison. Aldous Huxley's "concentration camp for entire societies" which is maintained by pharmacology enhanced by brainwashing. The Final Revolution.
 Quoting: agathon 858694

I've read this three times but I don't understand it. Is it just me? Maybe I'm tired, lol.
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its garbage!
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06/21/2011 12:26 PM
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
Women are more like men these days. Seriously.

90%+ women I meet DO NOT cook...really? Once you have a kid how are you going to feed your child? Mcdonalds and Lean cuisine?

They are all "independent" yet they always complain they are single. Lol

They try to be badass on soo many levels I do not even know where to start.

Maybe it is me becoming cynical after years of trying to find a really good match.

I did find the girl whom i thought was the perfect match but she died in a hunting accident (i lost my finger from the same bullet that killed her) because a hunter somehow thought we were deer.

So now I guess I am looking for her or something better.

I can tell within the first 2 days that if you are sarcastic most of the time, gtfo of my way you just wasted my time.

Most women my age (or even older 10+) can even have a serious heart to heart about anything. It's like I open up, and you slap me in the face because you are scared.

Shit I was terrified opening up, maybe cut me some slack and try a lil harder yourself?

What I am getting at is that most women are now becoming egotistical. In highschool they are now pushed to make more money than men (no problem with that) and their attitudes change quickly once they make it to college.

I would go on, but my post would literally never end LOL
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1363844


You are clearly psycho. Enjoy your lonely miserable life then.

If you want a cook, go to a restaurant. If you want to be cheap, go to a soup kitchen.

You sound like a bum anyway. You think women are too badass for you? Ha ha. You are just another wimp.

Poor little baby. Can't handle tough women. Oh well. Go cry to mommy then.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1292002


LOL

you obviously dont get it.

then again this was about intellectual men and to be read by intellectual people
 Quoting: T-Man


Yea he doesnt get it lol

Glad to see we can easily identify the dumb ones that can only act tough ahaha!
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06/21/2011 12:34 PM
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
It sounds like women are mirroring what you give out. You sound like you're either a Virgo or have Mars in Virgo -- this can turn even straight men into a bit of a shrinking violet. If women sense you retreating, they're going to pull back as well.

It's the law of attraction, you get back what you give out.

Consider that. And deal. We can be kind to each other but women are not on earth to make you happy, and vice versa.
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06/21/2011 12:34 PM
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
Women are more like men these days. Seriously.

90%+ women I meet DO NOT cook...really? Once you have a kid how are you going to feed your child? Mcdonalds and Lean cuisine?

They are all "independent" yet they always complain they are single. Lol

They try to be badass on soo many levels I do not even know where to start.

Maybe it is me becoming cynical after years of trying to find a really good match.

I did find the girl whom i thought was the perfect match but she died in a hunting accident (i lost my finger from the same bullet that killed her) because a hunter somehow thought we were deer.

So now I guess I am looking for her or something better.

I can tell within the first 2 days that if you are sarcastic most of the time, gtfo of my way you just wasted my time.

Most women my age (or even older 10+) can even have a serious heart to heart about anything. It's like I open up, and you slap me in the face because you are scared.

Shit I was terrified opening up, maybe cut me some slack and try a lil harder yourself?

What I am getting at is that most women are now becoming egotistical. In highschool they are now pushed to make more money than men (no problem with that) and their attitudes change quickly once they make it to college.

I would go on, but my post would literally never end LOL
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1363844


You are clearly psycho. Enjoy your lonely miserable life then.

If you want a cook, go to a restaurant. If you want to be cheap, go to a soup kitchen.

You sound like a bum anyway. You think women are too badass for you? Ha ha. You are just another wimp.

Poor little baby. Can't handle tough women. Oh well. Go cry to mommy then.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1292002


Maybe women just got tired of being lied to and hurt by so called insensitive intelluctual men!
Many men choose to split when responsibiity arrives!
men are hurt by the fact that women can take care of themselves ? Serioulsy, that is ridiculous, men should be men and appreciate women for being strong and vice versa! Women do want a strong man to rely on, but key word is RELY - and Im not speaking for everyone but those men are hard to find,, on the other hand I know women and men together - who are a team!
that is the relationship you should be looking for, and if its not there, it wasnt to be in the 1st place!
It would be nice if men rememebered how to treat women - seems like they forgot how.
You should not have to be given a clue as to how to treat someone, just be yourself and be respectful and treat a woman as she should be treated. Grow some balls and ask them out! Stop being afraid of rejection!
Everyone gets rejected or dumped in life.. get over it!
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06/21/2011 12:35 PM

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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
Women are more like men these days. Seriously.

90%+ women I meet DO NOT cook...really? Once you have a kid how are you going to feed your child? Mcdonalds and Lean cuisine?

They are all "independent" yet they always complain they are single. Lol

They try to be badass on soo many levels I do not even know where to start.

Maybe it is me becoming cynical after years of trying to find a really good match.

I did find the girl whom i thought was the perfect match but she died in a hunting accident (i lost my finger from the same bullet that killed her) because a hunter somehow thought we were deer.

So now I guess I am looking for her or something better.

I can tell within the first 2 days that if you are sarcastic most of the time, gtfo of my way you just wasted my time.

Most women my age (or even older 10+) can even have a serious heart to heart about anything. It's like I open up, and you slap me in the face because you are scared.

Shit I was terrified opening up, maybe cut me some slack and try a lil harder yourself?

What I am getting at is that most women are now becoming egotistical. In highschool they are now pushed to make more money than men (no problem with that) and their attitudes change quickly once they make it to college.

I would go on, but my post would literally never end LOL
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1363844


You are clearly psycho. Enjoy your lonely miserable life then.

If you want a cook, go to a restaurant. If you want to be cheap, go to a soup kitchen.

You sound like a bum anyway. You think women are too badass for you? Ha ha. You are just another wimp.

Poor little baby. Can't handle tough women. Oh well. Go cry to mommy then.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1292002


LOL

you obviously dont get it.

then again this was about intellectual men and to be read by intellectual people
 Quoting: T-Man


Yea he doesnt get it lol

Glad to see we can easily identify the dumb ones that can only act tough ahaha!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1363844


exactly. it takes ball to be "soft" and its usually the barking dogs that dont bite. the other dogs dont have to bark cuz they know that when needed... they can bite
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
The entire society is under Merry Christmas social turbulence designed to atomize everyone. Psychic prison. Aldous Huxley's "concentration camp for entire societies" which is maintained by pharmacology enhanced by brainwashing. The Final Revolution.
 Quoting: agathon 858694

I've read this three times but I don't understand it. Is it just me? Maybe I'm tired, lol.
 Quoting: *Jentle*


its garbage!
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These people are all nuts. Birds of a feather. They don't make sense whether coherent or not. Just losers crying on each other's shoulders.

It is the lonely crreps club. They bash women because they can't get any. Too chicken to even try.

They think Barbies are too badass. LOL. It is too much.
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06/21/2011 12:38 PM
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
I agree with a lot of the OP.

Personally, I'm more of the fishing type; if a girl wants in on this awesomeness she'll make her interest at least slightly apparent, not act cold and distant or standoffish and prude. Girls have way more options, so what's the point in playing into these sneaky games and outlandish competition with other males? I ain't gonna compete for affection, its a waste of time. I'd much rather spend that time bettering myself and hopefully helping other people around me. If a woman wants to join me on my journey, so be it. But all the girls I've dated don't honestly and 100% don't enjoy being treated good. And by 'treated good,' I'm not talking about being a little bitch that gets her gifts every day, I mean being a man with chivalry.

Then again, my last ex was a stripper, so what should I expect? Maybe I'm just shallow cruise
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06/21/2011 12:39 PM
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
Strange, OP that you should write and I should read this 33 years AFTER I came very close to the same conclusion. The feminist revolution was in high gear, lesbians came to singles groups openly looking for 'conquests' and also, openly challenging males in discussion groups about the roles of men and women in life/marriage.

Actually went to England seeking the ' old fashioned girl/woman' with attributes you referred to in your post. Told NO ONE at the time, as it seemed NONE of the single men had thought it through as you have done.

As an after thought, my wife laughed at me when I couldn't get an erection at 67, and I NEVER had sex with her for the next 15 YEARS ! It hurt TOO much to dare chance it again. I never told her either. Now we are separated and I am happy to be rid of the accusations, nagging and never a kind word OR TOUCH !

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