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Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?

 
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wow....

you just really hurt me deep.

Disrespecting the dead...

w/e if that was your mission you achieved it

have a nice day...
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Yeah it will hurt your sorry ass to rot in prison the rest of your life if this case ever gets reoppened.

Have a nice day. . .
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We had a local chubby kid here in Oregon that was a virgin. A beautiful girl thought it would be funny to take his virginity and then tell him she did not like him or want to talk to him. The next day he went into the mountains with a 30-30 and blew his head off. She lives in Estacada of which I now call insestacada.
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Well you sure have an agenda in that mind of yours.

I was NOT on hunting property.

I was helping a friend out with his biology work for SCHOOL on SCHOOL property

A hunter though we were deer and shot us.

You just hit the wrong fucking nerve you crazy phsyco bitch

HERES A FUCKING LINK YOU BITCH

[link to www.roanoke.com]

I hope you get shot, then see how it feels to read what you said from my side of things

I just gave up all hope of forgiving your crazy ass
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1363844


Pooh pooh. Do you still feel like you are a gem of a nice man, or has your cheap veneer been rubbed off.

Why would you lead your girlfriend into hunting grounds where she could get shot? Hmmm?

You are a jerk. I guess you had better love yourself. I don't think anyone else is safe to.
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Lady. You are really fucked up in the head. I bet you are some 300lb bitch who nobody will fuck. I bet you work for some feminazi orginization who trolls threads like this just to put a bigger wedge between males and females.

You are a sad little troll.
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
We had a local chubby kid here in Oregon that was a virgin. A beautiful girl thought it would be funny to take his virginity and then tell him she did not like him or want to talk to him. The next day he went into the mountains with a 30-30 and blew his head off. She lives in Estacada of which I now call insestacada.
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That is sad. No one should take anyone else's feelings for granted.
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Well said OP. I haven't asked out a woman for these reasons for the last three years. All the women I am attracted to physically are Mz. Independent types that don't need a man. They really want a man but are sending out the wrong signal.
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I guess that's what I have been trying to say all along.

Not good at writing all my thoughts into a little paragraph like that haha!

I concur
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therein lies your problem i bet. Physical isnt as important as men think. If you look for the women that emotionally intrigue you, you might be surprised to find a physical attraction follow, even if she has some flaws or imperfections. Try to find a woman's soul in her eyes, find a sparkle or twinkle or a woman with a beautiful laugh. Those are the kind s of women that will keep you in love through the years long after any physical attributes she has have started to sag.
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Well you sure have an agenda in that mind of yours.

I was NOT on hunting property.

I was helping a friend out with his biology work for SCHOOL on SCHOOL property

A hunter though we were deer and shot us.

You just hit the wrong fucking nerve you crazy phsyco bitch

HERES A FUCKING LINK YOU BITCH

[link to www.roanoke.com]

I hope you get shot, then see how it feels to read what you said from my side of things

I just gave up all hope of forgiving your crazy ass
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1363844


Pooh pooh. Do you still feel like you are a gem of a nice man, or has your cheap veneer been rubbed off.

Why would you lead your girlfriend into hunting grounds where she could get shot? Hmmm?

You are a jerk. I guess you had better love yourself. I don't think anyone else is safe to.
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Lady. You are really fucked up in the head. I bet you are some 300lb bitch who nobody will fuck. I bet you work for some feminazi orginization who trolls threads like this just to put a bigger wedge between males and females.

You are a sad little troll.
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Three hundred pound women get action. I doubt you do.
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Yeah and putting a wedge between males and females??? The only one with a wedge is you and your kind. Females need a wedge to protect themsleves from the likes of you. They could get shot and killed even!!!

What a f'in nerve.
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OP Dammit
investigate!
Then it all makes sense (in the most miserable way possible)and you can shiver in horror at its efectiveness.
PLease look beyond
i know if you wrote the OP, OP, you 'd get to the truth pretty quickly. Staring it down is another thing, but dont back away.
Look at the vids byt the defected kgb agent, he talks about subversion.
On a massive scale.
Also look at (i forget the name of the company) an american company convicted for trading boys in afghanistan and iraq.
(pleas help to remember the name of this company fellow glpers)

To make it short, some people in control are seriously sick fucks, they make policy. They try to feminize the men (chemically, psychologically), while using classic divide and conquer. homo is getting extra publicity further creating dead end society.
I do mean to offend some people, but you've just got to face reality, and see it the way it is.
Not everything that comes out of your mouth has to be politically correct, fuck that terminology.
They are trying to legalize and promote pedophelia, but firs they've got to take away as much resistance as possible! all the young and able men go to war (LEAVE HOME VULNERABLE,PLAN WORKED),
other ones go other ways(daily ration of chemicals, psychological warfare)(EASY PICKINGS, PLAN WORKED).
Some see theres something strange on the horizon (CONSPIRACY THEORIST=BACHELOR, plan worked)

looks like i gave myself away with that last one

hiding
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
If a woman gives a man what he really needs—genuine interest, understanding, and acceptance of him as he really is, he will ask her out, and keep coming back for more.
 Quoting: Confounded Intellectual. 856860


If a man gives a woman what she really needs, genuine interest in her as a person, not merely a hot(or not so hot depending on your standards) body with a side of personality, understanding, and acceptance of her as she really is (bodily hair and cellulite included), she will take care of him beyond his wildest fantasies.

If you give a woman the best orgasms she has ever had in her life, she will do her very best to keep you coming back for more as often as possible, at least for a mature, intelligent woman who has a complimentary personality and nature to your own.

If you end up with someone who doesn't suit you, it's nobody's fault but your own, and it's definitely not the fault of every man or woman who has ever existed on the planet.

There are billions of people out there who aren't going to be a good fit for you. Don't let the potentially long and definitely hard search for a great life partner cause you to become road-weary and jaded. Embrace life's challenges as what they are, and appreciate how many different types of people there are out there.

Decide what will make you happy, and then go for it. Let nothing stand in your way.
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Been through lots of relationships. I'm a little older now and the women are even worse than 10 years ago (at least now they never take their eyes off their mobiles, so I can sneak away). When I'm minding my own business and some female starts bothering me, I just think of what good ol' Hunter S. Thompson would say if he were in my position:

Female: "Can I have your number?"

Me: "Uh, no thank you. I hate women (ducks out to binge on ether.)"
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Been through lots of relationships. I'm a little older now and the women are even worse than 10 years ago (at least now they never take their eyes off their mobiles, so I can sneak away). When I'm minding my own business and some female starts bothering me, I just think of what good ol' Hunter S. Thompson would say if he were in my position:

Female: "Can I have your number?"

Me: "Uh, no thank you. I hate women (ducks out to binge on ether.)"
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Wasn't that guy GAY???
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Been through lots of relationships. I'm a little older now and the women are even worse than 10 years ago (at least now they never take their eyes off their mobiles, so I can sneak away). When I'm minding my own business and some female starts bothering me, I just think of what good ol' Hunter S. Thompson would say if he were in my position:

Female: "Can I have your number?"

Me: "Uh, no thank you. I hate women (ducks out to binge on ether.)"
 Quoting: anonymous 1377820


Wasn't that guy GAY???
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I think submitted to marriage eventually. And then kiled himself.
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Been through lots of relationships. I'm a little older now and the women are even worse than 10 years ago (at least now they never take their eyes off their mobiles, so I can sneak away). When I'm minding my own business and some female starts bothering me, I just think of what good ol' Hunter S. Thompson would say if he were in my position:

Female: "Can I have your number?"

Me: "Uh, no thank you. I hate women (ducks out to binge on ether.)"
 Quoting: anonymous 1377820


Wasn't that guy GAY???
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I think submitted to marriage eventually. And then kiled himself.
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I mean"killed."
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
OP is an Asperger's guy. I know because I am married to one myself.

While intellectualizing the world is initially appealing, it wears and grates and all the pontificating is not what a woman wants, therefore, she shows little interest in the long run.

Women still want a man who cares what she thinks, who cares how she feels and who can show some empathy for her, day in and day out. We want someone who has our back, not someone who constantly looks for reverence or he will turn to stone, as our dear OP stated.

I do get it. I do. But there's nothing there about friendship, partnership, support, admiration (for the woman!), or commitment. Nothing.

This is how I know OP is an Asperger's guy. Its always the 'what have you done for me lately' way of thinking. Always requiring a performance to please the OP, make him comfortable, make him able to relax.

Not one damn word about building a lifetime of memories and growing old together or any of those indicators of an interest in a partnership.
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Excellent post. I am not slamming anyone with Aspergers or Autism, but the qualities you speak of can't be quantified. They are what one used to call a "soul" which have been banned in the western world since 1971. ANYWAY, I've given up on women and I hate dating (that one-night stand stuff is dangerous), but were I ever to be lobotomized, I would look for those intangible qualities in a woman. I wouldn't care if she was kinda homely or even a bit stupid, I just want "friendship, partnership, support, admiration (for us both) and committment." Bravo!

As for that Ladder Theory thing; it's just daft. Remember, John Lennon was crazy about Yoko Ono and he could have any woman he wanted. She was fuck-all ugly, untalented, destroyed the Beatles, and had him killed! Ahh...but still...
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For crying out loud! Get over it!
If you don't have control of your mind.....someone else will!
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LOL! - WHO THE HELL BUMPED THIS THREAD AGAIN~?
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Blah blah fuckity blah.....

Grow a set of balls, you metro commie, and quit crying in your beer. It kids like you that give REAL men a bad name. Grow the fuck up or get the fuck out.
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I feel like I am a special, unique and rare young woman... If I wasn't so shy I would show the world who I am.

Cool post, OP. Some of us, maybe just a few, know these things to be true. We are out there.


hf
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Have you departed entirely from womanhood and subsequent natural affection and tender embraces motherhood entails or have you discerned the latent deception consciously targeting women of the United States and not succumbed to its rancid manipulative machinations as have most women?

It is well known to me, in this 21st century of flagrant deceit, both overt & covert brainwashing, coupled with on going chicanery, there is a dwindling remnant I wish to appeal to, provided I am seeking championship with a women.

I have postponed that aspect of my being for some time now.
 Quoting: Confounded Intellectual. 856860


Confounded, tone it down a little. Even your words sound arrogant to me. This is coming from a guy not a woman.

Most people, men and women, resist people who are arrogant. It is a very natural defence mechanism.
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Nice post, many good points you have made. As a woman, it is interesting to hear that men may not be receiving signals, or women may not be sending them. Lots of food for thought there.
All I can really do is add my own two cents, which may or may not apply to other women out there.
I am a single woman. But i havent always been that way. I was married twice to utter losers. I tried to be a homemaker, and keep house for my "king", but all that did was turn them into children. Some may say I enabled, perhaps I did. I also think men arent what they used to be.

As far as giving out signals go, I do not send any about 99% of the time for a few reasons. One, I am not comfortable with declining offers at all. It is often easier to not act available than to act available and have to turn down guys I am not interested in. I do not know how to "turn it on for just one guy" trying to learn that one!!
Also, a few times I would run across a guy I am very interested in, but before I can send any signals, my mind instantly begins tallying up all the effort that would go into attracting and keeping a guy like that for any length of time, and I talk myself out of it. Not lazy, but I do have fibromyalgia, so my energy is limited. I can handle myself most days, and my two children, but I am a realist and I know that at this point if a man was living in my house I wouldbe a complete and utter failure and disappointment to him!! I would love to go on a date now and then, but the reality is that I feel that if I cant offer myself fully then I have no right stringing anyone along, or making implied promises I cant keep. I dont wear make up or sexy clothes for the same reason - if someone makes it through my mental block, I do not want them to do so with a false expectation.
I also dont give out signals, because I just cant face the humiliation of putting out a vibe and seeing the guy walk away. I know he knows I made eye contact and smiled for a reason - how embarrassing. just as embarrassing to give a dazzling smile to a guy across the grocery store only to find on closer inspection that he si married.
and that is another trouble of the times - people just dont get married anymore. There was a time when if you saw a guy in a grocery store with no wedding band on that he was a confirmed bachelor and looking for a woman. Nowadays half the men in grocery stores with no wedding band are either gay or in a common-law relationship. All the good old rules are no longer applicable, and it just plain sucks. If I had only met the man of my dreams when I was young and healthy, then i would right now have a strong man that loves me and can help me through my hard days and enjoy my good days....my vitality was wasted on a man that got drunk every opportunity, and in the end decided I wasnt really sick and was just faking it all to bother him.
oh - where were the good men back then.
ok - seriously - i just went into a psycho rant just there. sorry op. guess I have some issues to work out. was any of it enlightening at all or does it all just come across as lunacy and whining????
best of luck in your quest for answers.

ooooo - here's a good sugestion. Get someone to make you a t_shirt that says "I am a bachelor" in big letters, then tell me you arent getting signals. Or "not gay, not married"
or "ask me out and I wont say no" or bump into me with your grocery cart if you want my attention.
 Quoting: chrissiel123


This is a woman of substance - incontrovertibly so. Decent among the cadre women with sexual proclivity as the height of their existence.


I would like to read more of your personal account.

hf
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OP Dammit
investigate!
Then it all makes sense (in the most miserable way possible)and you can shiver in horror at its efectiveness.
PLease look beyond
i know if you wrote the OP, OP, you 'd get to the truth pretty quickly. Staring it down is another thing, but dont back away.
Look at the vids byt the defected kgb agent, he talks about subversion.
On a massive scale.
Also look at (i forget the name of the company) an american company convicted for trading boys in afghanistan and iraq.
(pleas help to remember the name of this company fellow glpers)

To make it short, some people in control are seriously sick fucks, they make policy. They try to feminize the men (chemically, psychologically), while using classic divide and conquer. homo is getting extra publicity further creating dead end society.
I do mean to offend some people, but you've just got to face reality, and see it the way it is.
Not everything that comes out of your mouth has to be politically correct, fuck that terminology.
They are trying to legalize and promote pedophelia, but firs they've got to take away as much resistance as possible! all the young and able men go to war (LEAVE HOME VULNERABLE,PLAN WORKED),
other ones go other ways(daily ration of chemicals, psychological warfare)(EASY PICKINGS, PLAN WORKED).
Some see theres something strange on the horizon (CONSPIRACY THEORIST=BACHELOR, plan worked)

looks like i gave myself away with that last one

hiding
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The entire population is KGB brainwashed - I know of what you type, and refer to.
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Excellet post. And Im a female. I dont know why women are such bitches. I have so many female friends who bitch and whine about being alone yet they have standards that are way to high (serioulsy people need to be realistic, I cant believe how over inflated some peoples egos are) and they are always bitchy towards men. If you are alone and you want to be in a relationship then you either have unrealistic standards and/or you are a bitch.
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Yeah and putting a wedge between males and females??? The only one with a wedge is you and your kind. Females need a wedge to protect themsleves from the likes of you. They could get shot and killed even!!!

What a f'in nerve.
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LOL, well I'll keep my son out of High School so some perv skank like you can't rape him...like the last 60+ female teachers that have come out this year.
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Good post. Going through all this now. =[

If you're a nice guy, you get walked all over, straight up.

If you're a mean guy, well then you're a mean guy and no one will want you, and you'll be reduced to hookers for the rest of your life.

Hey at least some of us have hearts and understand women, they just don't seem to care, and use that vulnerability against us.

They'll fool you into committing to them. Then, they'll put you under a microscope, pinpointing every single fault that you have, dehumanizing you a any chance they get until you conform into the puddle of ooze they want you to be.

Then they'll get bored and leave you.
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Yeah and putting a wedge between males and females??? The only one with a wedge is you and your kind. Females need a wedge to protect themsleves from the likes of you. They could get shot and killed even!!!

What a f'in nerve.
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LOL, well I'll keep my son out of High School so some perv skank like you can't rape him...like the last 60+ female teachers that have come out this year.
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Don't flatter yourself. I think you have dirty dreams. You are just a babbling nitwit. I am now a teacher in your son's school? You are just all out full of it.
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Nice post, many good points you have made. As a woman, it is interesting to hear that men may not be receiving signals, or women may not be sending them. Lots of food for thought there.
All I can really do is add my own two cents, which may or may not apply to other women out there.
I am a single woman. But i havent always been that way. I was married twice to utter losers. I tried to be a homemaker, and keep house for my "king", but all that did was turn them into children. Some may say I enabled, perhaps I did. I also think men arent what they used to be.

As far as giving out signals go, I do not send any about 99% of the time for a few reasons. One, I am not comfortable with declining offers at all. It is often easier to not act available than to act available and have to turn down guys I am not interested in. I do not know how to "turn it on for just one guy" trying to learn that one!!
Also, a few times I would run across a guy I am very interested in, but before I can send any signals, my mind instantly begins tallying up all the effort that would go into attracting and keeping a guy like that for any length of time, and I talk myself out of it. Not lazy, but I do have fibromyalgia, so my energy is limited. I can handle myself most days, and my two children, but I am a realist and I know that at this point if a man was living in my house I wouldbe a complete and utter failure and disappointment to him!! I would love to go on a date now and then, but the reality is that I feel that if I cant offer myself fully then I have no right stringing anyone along, or making implied promises I cant keep. I dont wear make up or sexy clothes for the same reason - if someone makes it through my mental block, I do not want them to do so with a false expectation.
I also dont give out signals, because I just cant face the humiliation of putting out a vibe and seeing the guy walk away. I know he knows I made eye contact and smiled for a reason - how embarrassing. just as embarrassing to give a dazzling smile to a guy across the grocery store only to find on closer inspection that he si married.
and that is another trouble of the times - people just dont get married anymore. There was a time when if you saw a guy in a grocery store with no wedding band on that he was a confirmed bachelor and looking for a woman. Nowadays half the men in grocery stores with no wedding band are either gay or in a common-law relationship. All the good old rules are no longer applicable, and it just plain sucks. If I had only met the man of my dreams when I was young and healthy, then i would right now have a strong man that loves me and can help me through my hard days and enjoy my good days....my vitality was wasted on a man that got drunk every opportunity, and in the end decided I wasnt really sick and was just faking it all to bother him.
oh - where were the good men back then.
ok - seriously - i just went into a psycho rant just there. sorry op. guess I have some issues to work out. was any of it enlightening at all or does it all just come across as lunacy and whining????
best of luck in your quest for answers.

ooooo - here's a good sugestion. Get someone to make you a t_shirt that says "I am a bachelor" in big letters, then tell me you arent getting signals. Or "not gay, not married"
or "ask me out and I wont say no" or bump into me with your grocery cart if you want my attention.
 Quoting: chrissiel123


This is a woman of substance - incontrovertibly so. Decent among the cadre women with sexual proclivity as the height of their existence.


I would like to read more of your personal account
.
hf
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Sincere thanks for what I am assuming was not a sarcastic comment! I can tell more, if I knew what you were interested in hearing. I do consider myself a woman of substance, I am built that way, and it has made me immune to just about any gender ruination that todays society can come up with. I am honest, a deep thinker, very intelligent, high morals and ethics, but at the same time I do my best to be humble and modest. I am also very good at "seeing through things", so maybe that is why when I look at pop culture I am not fooled by it.

I am not perfect of course. I talk too much sometimes, and can get very happily excited about the silliest things in life. Sounds great I know, but you do not want to be near me when the next star trek movie is due to come out as I wont stop talking about how great it is going to be, haha. I am Martha stewart without the evil, Oprah winfrey without the ego, and Jim carey without the man-bits. I can bake a wedding cake, talk about your innermost feelings, build a coffe table and make you laugh all without trying - at the same time as sewing a halloween costume for the kids and making your lunch for work the nest day.
As for the whole dating thing, I wish I could find a solid, dependable man. Looks dont matter to the kind of woman a man should really want, but grooming does. Nice hair and nails, clothes that suit the body and show that the man has some interest in how he appears to the world. And open and kind eyes. When you smile at a woman, let a little merry twinkle apear in your eyes. If you can master that you will never be single again. You dont have to be thin, muscled, or tall. A woman worth having will also want a man that will be dependable, and also just a little bit ambitious. It wont matter if you have a boring job, as long as it is not a dead end job. As long as you can say with honesty that someday you would like to be moving up. The worst quality i can see in a man - aside from disgusting drunkenness - is stagnancy. A man at the bottom, happy to be at the bottom, and never wanting to be anywhere but the bottom. It appeals to many men because men at the bottom can punch a clock then go home and play video games all weekend. Men at the bottom dont get called in to saturday meetings or overtime. ugh.
Anyway, not hard to tell that I talk a lot when you consider the length of my posts.
And again, thank you for the kind reply. Sometimes when living single it can be hard to remember that I might have something small that I could offer to people, even if it is just ramblings in a GLP thread. And it is nice to have someone think I am not an idiot.
and if you were being sarcastic, be a sweetie and dont tell me, I am happier not knowing!
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
The best way to counteract the "programming" you are referring to is to grow up, stop whining, get some balls and ask out who you are interested in...Jesus it's not that hard really...if that doesn't work use a club...if her hair is long enough to get a good grip then you can drag her to your favorite restaurant.
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
The best way to counteract the "programming" you are referring to is to grow up, stop whining, get some balls and ask out who you are interested in...Jesus it's not that hard really...if that doesn't work use a club...if her hair is long enough to get a good grip then you can drag her to your favorite restaurant.
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ok, what you said was wrong and not nice - but i have to say it was funny! drag her to a restaurant, lol. Thanks for the laugh.

On a serious note, however, one needs to realize that the difficulty in overcoming the programming is that it is so good at its job. It is hard to see a chubby angelic woman standing next to a drop dead knockout with a major and obvious attitude, and not go for the knock out. It runs deep in people. And the worst part of it is there is little incentive for the knock out to lose her attitude or improve herself or sacrifice anything about her life for a man, as she has been programmed to think those things are worthless and beneath her.
And for men who can overcome the programming, it must be hard to figure out who to approach and what to expect from them. Tiems are a changing, and rather than think the OP is whining, I prefer to think of him as someone who is just tired of trying to figure it all out on his own. I hope he has gotten lots of good input from this thread, maybe helped a few others out there that are feeling just as confused but just being less vocal about it.


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lol - drag her to your favorite restaurant! cute!
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
ok..maybe that was bad advice...lol..but it was intended to make a point...all the programming in the world does not completely overcome genetics and even the most "liberated" woman in the world wants her man to act like a man and not be intimidated by her...that is, in it's simplest terms, the answer.
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
Very insightful and well thought out. I guess I sometimes do these things as a defence mechanism. Will keep what you said in mind.
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
ok..maybe that was bad advice...lol..but it was intended to make a point...all the programming in the world does not completely overcome genetics and even the most "liberated" woman in the world wants her man to act like a man and not be intimidated by her...that is, in it's simplest terms, the answer.
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true. I guess the new breed of woman needs a new breed of man to handle her. I am old breed i guess, needing an old breed of man, lol.
(no I am not old, just old - fashioned!)
(okay, I am in my thirties so not young either)

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