Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?

No, that is not the way. Being a participant of war will not prevent it.

Rather than your trite and crass gesture, do you have any logical thoughts on this sensitive subject matter?

shut yer pie-hole, Homer...

or they'll be spankings in the offing!

Good post. I especially admire the way you unapologetically speak like an intellectual.

really? i would have assumed that a woman's advances and interference would be wounding to an intellectual man. perhaps einstein would have figured out the one theory that he was seeking that ties all theories together. maybe he would have if not for those moments wasted making up for spending study time in his basement away from his wife.

reminds me of my last stepfather. really smart guy. has owned three or four businesses. we called him the walking computer . you could ask him any math question and he would have the answer just like that. was in the navy. he worked himself up into a high rank which was denied to him because of his young age and because of how fast he achieved the rank. he was latter discharged from the navy because he went a little bonkers when he found out his fiance (love of his life) who was supposed to be waiting at home for him was being unfaithful.

every time he begins to get somewhere in life he lets a woman fuck it up for him. i visited him the other day. the bitch he is dating called like three times to see what he was doing and to inform him that she was on her way home. when she came in he immediately starts pandering to her and jumping through hoops . it's fucking ridiculous. what has she done with her life that's so special and that gives her the right to exert dominance over him? she drives a fucking fork lift and sits on his face. when asked about it he says " can't help it. i love pussy "

real intellectual man can`t be "wounded" that way

Except for you miss Hillcrest, your deliciously naughty!

i wasn't trying to be misogynistic. i was only referring to above average intelligence people. i think they should be spared the drama so that their resources can be applied towards more fruitful endevours. nothing wrong with regular men and women hooking up and wasting each others already wasted lives .

Hear, Hear!
It certainly confounds the verbal bullies.
I can only add that a society that doesn't value its children is doomed to vanish.

I was ditto with you there, V'a, even before I'd scrolled down to your post! Very much akin.

Whats wrong with just havin a nice big knob good body good looks a nice personality and being able to make money and be loving and caring to your partner...Surely this is enough for most intelligent women.

I think there is also an element of cause and effect at play in this situation.


It certainly isn't all one sided. American men often expect a woman to contribute at least a third if not half the family income, be responsible for 90% of the household chores and 75% of child rearing. Having witnessed this for a whole generation now, I will agree that many young women are no longer interested in such an arrangement. And I have found that men from other cultures do not place so many demands on their partners. Maybe all this factors into the lack of interest. I know it does for me having been married to a man from another culture for many years.

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Good post OP.

Everyone is so afraid to be real.

Nice post OP, you have stirred up the hive with your rhetorical approach.

The world is a different place these days. Women have greater opportunities for self advancement in careers and lifestyle, but at what cost?

My son just turned thirty. He has had few girlfriends in his short years and is reluctant to commit to a relationship. The reason he gives for this mindset is that he feels that most women have little or no aspirations toward a loving and meaningful relationship and that they are simply out to destroy a mans life both financially and emotionally. In other words he fears women. This is preposterous and illogical in a world where men and women marry before the alter of their God and commit their whole self to be in union with the other, until death. But wait, that is a time and times and half time ago.

Today it's different, self has center stage, which conjures illusions of grandeur and inflates the ego. Many of the young women I know (20-30yo) are in broken relationships and have children to more than one father. Only last weekend I found myself consoling a distraught mother whose ex had come around drunk and wanted to forcibly take the children. While wiping tears I asked what she really wanted, her reply.. to be in his arms again...she kicked him out! The truth came out that she wanted her freedom and independence but because of their children she wanted to continue the relationship but only on her terms. In the meantime the ex has turned to grog to handle his loneliness and longing for his children. Logic hath no bearing to a blind horse.

This is the loveless/ Godless world in which we live. No wonder that there is such discontent, loneliness and crossed signals.

Yes, it is a sad world. And yes, the women have hurt and confused the good men who would like to be gentlemen. It is not that they say "they have to ask us out" (but we don't really have a problem if they do), it is more "they show lack of interest, want to play games so as to appear hard to get" and then get surprised if the men don't play those games. When a man is told "no means no," then it is also true with "hard to get games." The one who doesn't accept it is the one who is easy to get, but not a gentleman.

More importantly, the modern woman are quite egotistical. They want the men to do all the bending, while they will do nothing. They want to be equals in everything, but as we know, some animals are more equal than others. They want to be equals but treated and taken around like the times in which they were not given equal economic and social status. They want the best of both worlds, and the men to be at their feet -- in work and at home. This is sad and pathetic.

very very true, great post.

A little long, but heart-felt, and I can't say I disagree with much of what you wrote. Good post.

I think with the disintegration of the traditional family unit, many women have had to rely on themselves rather than share the burden with a husband. Thus, they tend to relegate the role of man to that of a mere sperm donor. It was a shocker to me to raise children to find out that when they became teens, the old-style man asks woman on a date no longer holds true. Instead, many of the girls are asking the guys out. My beautiful but shy daughter refuses to ask guys out and spends many weekends at home with her cat. She figures working on her degree is more important right now anyway. My son's phone (even though he has a girlfriend), rings constantly. Go figure.

I think the girls are often rude when a guy they aren't interested in asks them out on a date, perhaps comparable to the high school quarterback of thirty years ago being asked out by the nerdy band geek. He probably would have made a big joke out of it...and that's how many of the girls react when the "wrong" guy asks them out. I mean...what nerve! I feel for you poor guys.

The bad karma of bad and filthy males who ruin relationships with their hands that strikes all male persons back lol

So women are afraid of men and easily judge.

Thank you. This is the other side of the coin.

WAS A GREAT AND THOUGHT PROVOKING ESSAY, AGREE WITH MUCH

I FEEL FOR ANY YOUNG TEEN BOY TODAY WHO HAS TO MAKE HIS FIRST FUMBLING ATTEMPTS AT DATING 'SUPER SWEET 16 QUEENS'

HAVE YOU SEEN THE WARDROBES ON GOSSIP GIRL? ITS LIKE DYNASTY FOR KIDS. 16 GOING ON 36. GRATEFUL I HAD A SON.

I'm old now but I remember the shy meeting of eyes, the first touch and the fresh scent with sleepless nights. Love is so cold now.

Stop Whinning!

I'm old now. 35. And still ever being wounded by women -- still always being ignored, rejected, treated as the "nice guy, but not someone I am willing to get to know by dating him" guy.

This is exactly the damn right honest truth.

I am currently in an up down relationship. My girlfriend is very attractive and gets lots of attention. However. Her need to be noticed and boost her ego is really affecting me and no matter what I say or how I feel it never stops and is met with sarcasm and cyncism. I wish I could walk away, i've tried but she's a sly one and somehow always wins me round. From pictures on facebook to messages on her phone. Women have turned into man hunting whores.

When she cried it's always me who she calls. For christmas I treated her, took her places then as soon as my backed turned she's off out. Dancing with other lads, who are now texting her and she try's to blame me and saying "what, am I not allowed male friends" ... Its frustrating and immoral. She's 5 years younger then me but she really doesn't get how Love works.

I dont think many women do anymore.

Send her over to me and I'll give her the ole Phallusy special. I actually draw more attention than any hot girl that it'll drive them nuts.



Here's a test... Ask her to tell any of those "male friends" if they'll have sex with her. She'll see how much of a "friend" they really are. But that's probably why she's talking to them anyway. Any hot girl who has guy friends is just waiting to get into their pants. Truth!

I am an alpha male, some call me the bad boy...

And girls want to fukk alpha males like me. Let it piss you off as much as you want, but you know it's completely true. That girl you like who is kinda cute in a weird way, but is totally sweet and you have the biggest crush on? The one who keeps going back to guys who treat her wrong for reasons you don't understand? The one who calls you up at 1 am to cry about how her boyfriend hasn't called her in 3 days, and no matter how long you listen to her, she'll never think of you as anything other than asexual? The one who will curl up next to you on the couch, hug you close, kiss you on the cheek, and never let you fukking touch her beyond that?

Yeah, I'm screwing her.

The hot girl who won't even look at you when you nod at them and smile? The one who laughs when you trip in the hallway and drop your stuff? The one who comes up and coyly asks for your help with her homework, and then pretends you don't exist once you finish?

Yeah, I'm banging her too, even harder.

The geeky girl you think might be enough like you that you have a chance with her? She plays warcraft on your server, and watches anime, and reads comics? She's so incredible and you just love her so much but you still haven't worked up the courage to tell her how you feel about her?

Guess who just sucked me off and told me they'll always love me?

And your pristine picture of your loving mother... The one who always has an ear for your frustration, the one you idolize and think perfect in every way while you try to compare every girl to her...

Well my boy, I was just with her, and I filled her cavities with my hot juice, for she thinks you were a mistake and she must make it right by having a son by me, the alpha male.