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Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?

 
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Victim, my ass!
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OP, YOU APPEAR TOTALLY CLUELESS ABOUT WOMEN, THEY'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO GIVE OUT "CLUES" OR ANY OF THAT, BECAUSE IF YOU WERE A MAN, YOU'D SIMPLY KNOW THAT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE

I MEAN, IF YOU SEE A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, SIMPLY INTRODUCE YOURSELF AND EXPRESS A PERSONAL INTEREST IN HER, AND IF SHE'S AVAILABLE TO YOU, THEN SHE'LL LET YOU KNOW

SO YOU SEE, THERE'S NOTHING REQUIRED FROM THE WOMAN IN THIS, BECAUSE IT'S ALL ON YOU TO MAKE IT HAPPEN
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Turn your caps off, dipshit.
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Men are supposed to just club the woman? That is insane. No, the problem is that both men and women SHOULD interact, and the woman SHOULD give positive signs when interacting, and not just play games. The problem is they play games with men these days. Will flirt when taken, will suddenly play hard to get if they want you, etc. No, a man isn't going to want someone who is so fickle, because it is clear, the woman doesn't know how to be honest. And the problem is we tell women to play these games -- no wonder marriages don't last. Women don't know how to give themselves into them. "I have to make them do things for me by playing hard to get." No, you get them by interacting with them, and working together, not being selfish ego bitches.
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women that dont give clear signals only get dipshits. It is soooo simple.

fortunatly the most sexy ones, they do know this.
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This is exactly the damn right honest truth.

I am currently in an up down relationship. My girlfriend is very attractive and gets lots of attention. However. Her need to be noticed and boost her ego is really affecting me and no matter what I say or how I feel it never stops and is met with sarcasm and cyncism. I wish I could walk away, i've tried but she's a sly one and somehow always wins me round. From pictures on facebook to messages on her phone. Women have turned into man hunting whores.

Send her over to me and I'll give her the ole Phallusy special. I actually draw more attention than any hot girl that it'll drive them nuts.


When she cried it's always me who she calls. For christmas I treated her, took her places then as soon as my backed turned she's off out. Dancing with other lads, who are now texting her and she try's to blame me and saying "what, am I not allowed male friends" ... Its frustrating and immoral. She's 5 years younger then me but she really doesn't get how Love works.

I dont think many women do anymore.


Here's a test... Ask her to tell any of those "male friends" if they'll have sex with her. She'll see how much of a "friend" they really are. But that's probably why she's talking to them anyway. Any hot girl who has guy friends is just waiting to get into their pants. Truth!







You are a perfect idiot.


But it's the truth, regardless if he's an idiot. The only exception is if the guy is gay.


Anyone who allows his girlfriend to go out dancing with "male friends", deserves whatever happens.

Gee whizzz.. What a GUARANTEED recipe for disaster!

If you insist on continuing this "relationship" with this whore, then you need to start going out with "female friends". I'm sure your girlfriend will be quite "understanding" about that.

Hypocritical cunts.


Yes! This is actually what you should be doing. Get some female friends, text them constantly like your gf does, return their calls like your gf does... When she gets on your case and starts nagging, tell her, "geez, I'm not allowed to have any female friends?" just like your gf does.

Hypocritical indeed!
 Quoting: Phallusy


yes, be just like them. I'd fuck them, their best friend, and their moms, for I have no feelings and will wipe my ass with theirs.

fuck romance, to hell with love songs and poems, you are all being brainwashed into being "loyal" they are not, they could give a fuck if you have the biggest cock on earth, they'll still fuck the next guy, and it does not even mean a thing for them,
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
Is this your way of saying that women HAVEN'T changed into self-serving, deceitful, greedy, manipulative, fickle creatures, as compared to the women of old?

BULLSHIT!

Where have you BEEN during all of the putrid social engineering that's been going on over the last 40 years? beautiful creatures?
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I'm saying that nothing has changed. They were self-serving, deceitful, greedy, manipulative, fickle creatures even then. And if a man wants attention from them, confidence goes a long way.

Putrid social engineering? HA! Women are only now catching up to the way men have been acting for a long time. PLUS, OP seems to have suffered the effects of pussification and is experiencing self-pity for not getting a healthy ration of real-life breasts.

You assume too much, pulling in stereotypes. I never said that women were gentle creatures back then. I did say that if a man wants attention, he has to go out there and find it.
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
OP, you've brought up some excellent points, and I've experienced the women you describe first-hand.

One was career-minded, the other was without any grace.

What you have to do with these women is to be strong, slam down any of their mind-games, bullshit and nastiness, and most of all: STAY AWAY FROM THEM.

Do not TOLERATE their manipulative crap. Move on. There are REASONABLE women out there -- few -- but they are out there.

I'm telling you this: all they want to do is pull your emotional strings, see you squirm, suffer, see you humiliated, see you twisted and torn up inside, see you obsessed with them.

Don't give them the satisfaction. Move on.
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Fuck women, usless degraded gslutty pieces of shit that they have become. Look how far you have fallen.


 Quoting: Confounded Intellectual. 854171

Well, you sir, are a fag, go suck some donkie penis and get yourself anally fisted by some dude at a gay bar!
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I am an alpha male, some call me the bad boy...

And girls want to fukk alpha males like me. Let it piss you off as much as you want, but you know it's completely true. That girl you like who is kinda cute in a weird way, but is totally sweet and you have the biggest crush on? The one who keeps going back to guys who treat her wrong for reasons you don't understand? The one who calls you up at 1 am to cry about how her boyfriend hasn't called her in 3 days, and no matter how long you listen to her, she'll never think of you as anything other than asexual? The one who will curl up next to you on the couch, hug you close, kiss you on the cheek, and never let you fukking touch her beyond that?

Yeah, I'm screwing her.

The hot girl who won't even look at you when you nod at them and smile? The one who laughs when you trip in the hallway and drop your stuff? The one who comes up and coyly asks for your help with her homework, and then pretends you don't exist once you finish?

Yeah, I'm banging her too, even harder.

The geeky girl you think might be enough like you that you have a chance with her? She plays warcraft on your server, and watches anime, and reads comics? She's so incredible and you just love her so much but you still haven't worked up the courage to tell her how you feel about her?

Guess who just sucked me off and told me they'll always love me?

And your pristine picture of your loving mother... The one who always has an ear for your frustration, the one you idolize and think perfect in every way while you try to compare every girl to her...

Well my boy, I was just with her, and I filled her cavities with my hot juice, for she thinks you were a mistake and she must make it right by having a son by me, the alpha male.
 Quoting: Phallusy



I am with you on this, it sure feels good to be an alpha male!, my last name rhymes with alpha male! haha
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We need Tom Leykis.
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I PAY NO MIND TO ANY OF THIS "ALPHA MALE" BULLSHIT, BECAUSE THE MALE WHO DECLARES HIMSELF AN "ALPHA MALE" IS A TRANSVESTITE NARCISSIST AT HEART, UNABLE TO SUSTAIN BOTH HIMSELF AND HIS MATE, AND FEMALES WHO GO AFTER THE "ALPHA MALE" ARE ALSO LOSERS, BECAUSE IN THEIR LACK OF ESTEEM, THEY BELIEVE ONLY THE "ALPHA MALE" IS WORTHY OF THEIR WHOREDOM

THE TRUE LEADER OF MANKIND IS THE "ALPHA-OMEGA MALE"
 Quoting: Lothario Johnson 778817


the alpha male is in the same category as the alpha and omega category, so shut up
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We need Tom Leykis.
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yeah, we need pappy back on the air
I think EAT is a pretty cool guy, eh predicts earthquakes and doesn't afraid of anything
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As a woman who is turned off by beta males...

OP - your problem lies with your own behavior. It doesn't seem very intellectual to me for someone to blame the whole of a gender for something that is obviously your own problem. It also doesn't seem intellectual to me for you to keep on doing the same thing over and over and to expect a different outcome.

Women are mostly sheeple, just like men these days. All you hafta do is show leadership qualities, a willingness to take charge, and the woman will do as you say.

As for me, I'm no catch. I'm not very attractive.. I'm weird as hell, awkward and clumsy, tall. I talk about weird things like quantum mechanics and the end of the world. I attract men like CrAzY - and those men I have been with - propose. I don't understand it. I've been proposed to 6 times, by monogamous males. I said yes to the one who looks like a greek god and wields a sword like a ninja.

Maybe it takes a special woman to appreciate a man. I know that I look to men for power, strength, protection, leadership, and fearlessness. Op - you project whiny weakness.


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beta males, are the ugly ones, they go fuck prostitutes, who are just as ugly as them, they disrespect beautiful angelic attractive woman, they dont care about they're self poor imagine, so they are worthless and just dont care.. if he weds with an ugly girl, but hey this is life and everyone has they're own!
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yes, be just like them. I'd fuck them, their best friend, and their moms, for I have no feelings and will wipe my ass with theirs.

fuck romance, to hell with love songs and poems, you are all being brainwashed into being "loyal" they are not, they could give a fuck if you have the biggest cock on earth, they'll still fuck the next guy, and it does not even mean a thing for them,
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That's deep
I think EAT is a pretty cool guy, eh predicts earthquakes and doesn't afraid of anything
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its odd that any man I met declaring him self an alpha male had no clue whatsoever about what sex is.

Good for them, they dont even realize they only fuck trash.
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Good post OP. I'm in the crowd of guys who have "given up on women". I've tried dating websites and went on a host of dates with girls that were supposedly compatible with me.

What I got were complete bitches. And that is a brutal understatement. What I got were stone cold, hollow, and mean people. I was quite insulted, because these girls were not "compatible" with me. Stupid fucking website. What a joke. This one girl, much like your essay talks about, went out of her way to pick to fucking pieces ANYTHING I could say, to the point she was just "seeing" what she wanted to see. I literally couldn't talk about ANYTHING. I'm easy going too where conversation is concerned. I'm the type of fellow anyone could talk to about anything and I'm thoughtful, not opinionated and obtuse.

Other girls I got paired with were also career girls. These particular girls made a constant point to never stop acting like "they were at work", and how unobtainable they were and how I "would never understand", without even CONSIDERING to get to know me, or even know that I care about my work too. What's fucked up, is that if they act this way, WHAT THE FLYING FUCK BUSINESS DO THEY HAVE BEING ON A DATING WEBSITE? It's as if they joined ONLY to be complete CUNTS to a gentlemen like myself with absolutely no apology for their behavior in the slightest. Personally I only saw them for what they were, empty hollow shells of nothing. I don't suffer from the ego-ism these girls did, not by a long shot. But they still did hurt my pride, as I promptly canceled my subscription to get more dates and have very purposely stayed single for 2 years now since.

sigh.... :(
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I'm glad I'm not alone, I was wondering wth was wrong with all these women today. I've experienced a lot of aggressive hostility from random bitches on the street and all over the place. All you stuck up stupid cunts are lost souls, I pity you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 865703


The reason is because the way you treat woman in the past, if youve ever been violent agressive disrespect girls, payback is a bitch

go to church and repent your sins
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I'm glad I'm not alone, I was wondering wth was wrong with all these women today. I've experienced a lot of aggressive hostility from random bitches on the street and all over the place. All you stuck up stupid cunts are lost souls, I pity you.




Obviously, you have been hurt and are feeling very angry. When we think of the problem being the possibility of " all the women these days " vs you might have some baggage you are carrying around. I would go with the latter- but GOOD LUCK !

:penif:


weather I have baggage or not is irrelevant. yes I have issues that make women's actions more annoying. It doesn't change the fact that a LOT of women today are acting like spoiled, rotten, little bitchy immature childish brats that honestly, deserve to see what it feels like to get punched in the face. Because that's what would happen to me if I went around out in public agressively playing mind games and making faces at random men. I mean, there were some rich bitches in a town I lived in and they were aggressively hostile and just mean for no reason. Those stupid cunts need to be put in their place. I'm a good looking guy too so w/e.
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maybe you are gay
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I feel like I am a special, unique and rare young woman... If I wasn't so shy I would show the world who I am.

Cool post, OP. Some of us, maybe just a few, know these things to be true. We are out there.


hf
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+1
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I'm not talking to these bitches. The rich snobby bitches on the streets are going around making faces at random dudes. I mean, there was one rich cunt who made a face at me from her car as she drove by me. Some bitch on the beach today made that sneer curl of her mouth face at me as I walked by because I was acting disinterested. Its an epidemic of mean bitches, I'm just saying. It's just the facts. You see this subject talked about and discussed everywhere now.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 865703


Here is your problem, kid, if you stop the negative feelings towards women in everyday life on the streets, it will mirror you towards goodness.

Next time you go on the streets, have happy feelings, positive feelings towards women walking by, by saying hi, good morning, how are you, and trust me kid, you will have a good response, stop those clouds over your head, not all women are bitches, unless you are ready to die by the hands of a real bitch, ready to kill you, then its your suicide
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its odd that any man I met declaring him self an alpha male had no clue whatsoever about what sex is.

Good for them, they dont even realize they only fuck trash.
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I am an alpha male and I don't fuck trashy prostitutes, I don't go offer strippers money, I don't go to clubs and pick up women, I don't even do any of that, so what your point is, fag
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Good post OP. I'm in the crowd of guys who have "given up on women". I've tried dating websites and went on a host of dates with girls that were supposedly compatible with me.

What I got were complete bitches. And that is a brutal understatement. What I got were stone cold, hollow, and mean people. I was quite insulted, because these girls were not "compatible" with me. Stupid fucking website. What a joke. This one girl, much like your essay talks about, went out of her way to pick to fucking pieces ANYTHING I could say, to the point she was just "seeing" what she wanted to see. I literally couldn't talk about ANYTHING. I'm easy going too where conversation is concerned. I'm the type of fellow anyone could talk to about anything and I'm thoughtful, not opinionated and obtuse.

Other girls I got paired with were also career girls. These particular girls made a constant point to never stop acting like "they were at work", and how unobtainable they were and how I "would never understand", without even CONSIDERING to get to know me, or even know that I care about my work too. What's fucked up, is that if they act this way, WHAT THE FLYING FUCK BUSINESS DO THEY HAVE BEING ON A DATING WEBSITE? It's as if they joined ONLY to be complete CUNTS to a gentlemen like myself with absolutely no apology for their behavior in the slightest. Personally I only saw them for what they were, empty hollow shells of nothing. I don't suffer from the ego-ism these girls did, not by a long shot. But they still did hurt my pride, as I promptly canceled my subscription to get more dates and have very purposely stayed single for 2 years now since.

sigh.... :(
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 829503


Forget dating sites, forget going to clubs, what you should do is get a career or work in a job you like to work at, and you can find woman similar to your professional skills and there you can get with them
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Forget dating sites, forget going to clubs, what you should do is get a career or work in a job you like to work at, and you can find woman similar to your professional skills and there you can get with them
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Career minded women are 1) already married or 2) money-grabbers
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Yes, it is a sad world. And yes, the women have hurt and confused the good men who would like to be gentlemen. It is not that they say "they have to ask us out" (but we don't really have a problem if they do), it is more "they show lack of interest, want to play games so as to appear hard to get" and then get surprised if the men don't play those games. When a man is told "no means no," then it is also true with "hard to get games." The one who doesn't accept it is the one who is easy to get, but not a gentleman.

More importantly, the modern woman are quite egotistical. They want the men to do all the bending, while they will do nothing. They want to be equals in everything, but as we know, some animals are more equal than others. They want to be equals but treated and taken around like the times in which they were not given equal economic and social status. They want the best of both worlds, and the men to be at their feet -- in work and at home. This is sad and pathetic.
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This post has made me greatful that I married young and that my husband and I have decided to stay married despite all of the obtacles life has thrown our way...I can't even imagine trying to date in this modern world. It's true that we and our love for each other are an anomaly with our friends. They half jokingly call us the "newly weds" as that is how we treat each other. We have that special bond that is so rare and so precious these days. I feel truly blessed to have him in my life, and I believe he feels the same. Early on in our marriage when we were having all sorts of problems, a wise soul suggested that we read TOGETHER the book called, Men Are From Mars & Women Are From Venus. That book has been a life saver and a marriage saver and it's author is a genius when it comes to knowing a man and a womans intellect. If you ask me, it should be required reading for high school graduation and a marriage license!
Real truth is self evident...
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A little long, but heart-felt, and I can't say I disagree with much of what you wrote. Good post.

I think with the disintegration of the traditional family unit, many women have had to rely on themselves rather than share the burden with a husband. Thus, they tend to relegate the role of man to that of a mere sperm donor. It was a shocker to me to raise children to find out that when they became teens, the old-style man asks woman on a date no longer holds true. Instead, many of the girls are asking the guys out. My beautiful but shy daughter refuses to ask guys out and spends many weekends at home with her cat. She figures working on her degree is more important right now anyway. My son's phone (even though he has a girlfriend), rings constantly. Go figure.

I think the girls are often rude when a guy they aren't interested in asks them out on a date, perhaps comparable to the high school quarterback of thirty years ago being asked out by the nerdy band geek. He probably would have made a big joke out of it...and that's how many of the girls react when the "wrong" guy asks them out. I mean...what nerve! I feel for you poor guys.
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I hear you Faith! My own children who are grown now, when they were in their teens I was down right shocked how the girls treated each other and the guys! I tried to tell my daughter's that they shouldn't call the guys and they looked at me like I was from another planet! And the competition for the guys was like female mud restling only that was more civil!
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This is exactly the damn right honest truth.

I am currently in an up down relationship. My girlfriend is very attractive and gets lots of attention. However. Her need to be noticed and boost her ego is really affecting me and no matter what I say or how I feel it never stops and is met with sarcasm and cyncism. I wish I could walk away, i've tried but she's a sly one and somehow always wins me round. From pictures on facebook to messages on her phone. Women have turned into man hunting whores.

When she cried it's always me who she calls. For christmas I treated her, took her places then as soon as my backed turned she's off out. Dancing with other lads, who are now texting her and she try's to blame me and saying "what, am I not allowed male friends" ... Its frustrating and immoral. She's 5 years younger then me but she really doesn't get how Love works.

I dont think many women do anymore.
 Quoting: blahblah 604026


It is true. My own daughter has lots of male friends. I did too at her age, but I understood what was appropriate and inappropriate in terms of time spent with them, and how important it was to keep it in the proper setting. That appearances do matter and what other people perceive.

But times have indeed changed. There is also something the kids now days call, "friends with benefits." The best I can tell, it's having a friend, that it's ok to have sex with, but no strings attached as far as commitment goes. Oh and your not supposed to fall in love with this person. If you do, than you violate the agreement. These kids think they can just sleep with someone and then turn off their emotion like it's a switch.

Something tells me that this arrangement works better for the guys than it does for the girls...then again, I could be wrong as I'm not a guy.

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The problem in our western society is that we have elevated sex and relationships to be the most important thing in life. You even have almost all TV series promoting promiscuity to be the norm. You must change partner once in while to be happy right? If you stick to your marriage, or even worse, if you are alone, you are considered a freak.
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Yes, it is a sad world. And yes, the women have hurt and confused the good men who would like to be gentlemen. It is not that they say "they have to ask us out" (but we don't really have a problem if they do), it is more "they show lack of interest, want to play games so as to appear hard to get" and then get surprised if the men don't play those games. When a man is told "no means no," then it is also true with "hard to get games." The one who doesn't accept it is the one who is easy to get, but not a gentleman.

More importantly, the modern woman are quite egotistical. They want the men to do all the bending, while they will do nothing. They want to be equals in everything, but as we know, some animals are more equal than others. They want to be equals but treated and taken around like the times in which they were not given equal economic and social status. They want the best of both worlds, and the men to be at their feet -- in work and at home. This is sad and pathetic.


This post has made me greatful that I married young and that my husband and I have decided to stay married despite all of the obtacles life has thrown our way...I can't even imagine trying to date in this modern world. It's true that we and our love for each other are an anomaly with our friends. They half jokingly call us the "newly weds" as that is how we treat each other. We have that special bond that is so rare and so precious these days. I feel truly blessed to have him in my life, and I believe he feels the same. Early on in our marriage when we were having all sorts of problems, a wise soul suggested that we read TOGETHER the book called, Men Are From Mars & Women Are From Venus. That book has been a life saver and a marriage saver and it's author is a genius when it comes to knowing a man and a womans intellect. If you ask me, it should be required reading for high school graduation and a marriage license!
 Quoting: Lady Wolf


No. that book teaches co-dependence instead of inter-dependence. The author of that book got divorced shortly after the book was published

Anyway, if it doesn't go well with ya, ya know where to find me Lady Wolf wink

Last Edited by Cousin EAT on 01/16/2010 07:28 AM
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
It is true. My own daughter has lots of male friends. I did too at her age, but I understood what was appropriate and inappropriate in terms of time spent with them, and how important it was to keep it in the proper setting. That appearances do matter and what other people perceive.

But times have indeed changed. There is also something the kids now days call, "friends with benefits." The best I can tell, it's having a friend, that it's ok to have sex with, but no strings attached as far as commitment goes. Oh and your not supposed to fall in love with this person. If you do, than you violate the agreement. These kids think they can just sleep with someone and then turn off their emotion like it's a switch.

Something tells me that this arrangement works better for the guys than it does for the girls...then again, I could be wrong as I'm not a guy.
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There's one problem with that. Most girls violate that "agreement" because they are emotional. Sooner or later they become attached, get jealous, etc... Even though they claim they are just messing around with a certain person, the emotions always get in the way. They say one thing but do another
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
As much as I need a women, the memorys of the pain and loss they can cause tells me no fucking.

I blew a couple good relationship already because of what I had learned from some other women.

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