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Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?

 
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I am a woman and I applaud your post.

My problem is quite simple: I am *very* shy when it comes to initially meeting men. I avoid eye contact with men I'm interested in at all costs, which is stupid...especially if I know they are interested in me. lol They perceive my shyness as indifference, which is unfortunate.

Thanks for that post; I'm definitely taking it to heart. Parts of me have forgotten that men want more than just sex, and I needed to be reminded otherwise. hf
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It boils down to two things....confidence and attitude.

A man must have the confidence to ask a woman out and the attitude that if she says 'no' it's the worse thing she'll ever say to him....which really isn't that bad.


You understand nothing.
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On the contrary, I understand much more than most. But it's ok if you think otherwise, I won't fault you for it. chuckle
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
It boils down to two things....confidence and attitude.

A man must have the confidence to ask a woman out and the attitude that if she says 'no' it's the worse thing she'll ever say to him....which really isn't that bad.


You understand nothing.



On the contrary, I understand much more than most. But it's ok if you think otherwise, I won't fault you for it. chuckle
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Unlikely.
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Fonzi Bad-Boy don't need to speak.

Just a raised eyebrow, and a nod towards the exit door, and he's sorted!

1rof1
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Amen! Let's hear it for Fonzi -- like my late 2nd husband! Bad Boys are great -- and I'm an intellectual woman...
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
It boils down to two things....confidence and attitude.

A man must have the confidence to ask a woman out and the attitude that if she says 'no' it's the worse thing she'll ever say to him....which really isn't that bad.


You understand nothing.
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indeed... so many women shortchange themselves because they only go by first impressions and "games" ... confidence is over-rated. The women who belittle the shy beta male rea the misfortune of their decisions.
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Wow, I am always so amazed at how many men think that women should be subservient to them and that women need to be put in their place.

I can only shake my head in disbelief at the pent up rage that most of the women bashers exhibit then they wonder why women treat them poorly. Perhaps that is another extension of why western women are leary of western men, too many jerks trying to be domineering control freaks.

Whatever, just my 2 cents. Bash away, I am comfortable in my own skin, enjoy my feminity but do not play the helpless, dumb female who must rely on others. Those are actually the ones to be cautious of..."still waters run deep"...those are the ones that will methodically be manipulative instead of up front and honest. Have fun western women haters with your "meek and humble" women, I just wouldn't suggest turning your back on them.
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it's not that men want to be domineering control freaks, they just want real affection and love from the women they are with, real communication, and the corny cuddly stuff. None of this in your face, I don't need shit from anyone because I'm so damn strong attitude. That kind of attitude is destructive to a relationship.
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
I am a woman and I applaud your post.

My problem is quite simple: I am *very* shy when it comes to initially meeting men. I avoid eye contact with men I'm interested in at all costs, which is stupid...especially if I know they are interested in me. lol They perceive my shyness as indifference, which is unfortunate.

Thanks for that post; I'm definitely taking it to heart. Parts of me have forgotten that men want more than just sex, and I needed to be reminded otherwise. hf
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indeed this is the worst mistake you could make... guys like myself need to know you are interested back.. chasing someone who's not interested is an exercise in futility. work on that. hf
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Women today are not giving us any cues that they want to be asked out, and without some indication or encouragement that he might be well received, a man is not going to risk the rejection—which men are far more sensitive to than women evidently realize.


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from the start this article is complete bull krap, women who want a man behave like men did in the 1970's, they take the direct approach.

Men on the other hand have taken the opposite approach, like women in the victorian era, most don't want a tramp for a partner but will happily submit to indoor activities and later reject for better prospects.

This is a complete role reversal.

Otherwise the remainder of this article is spot on...
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yes, now i do ... there was a time when i did not

if i have any bad karma coming

it is due to this
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Bad karma doesnt come to hurt you if you honestly live with no agenda. Sure there are cruel people that hurt you then try to make you think it is bad karma. Karma good bad etc reveals itself physically then eternally. Your intent determines your karma.
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
OP, if you were a true intellectual, you would use your intellect to create something (anything) that is worthy of your intellect; something timeless and awe-inspiring which is dependent on no one else's approval or acknowledgement.

You would not waste your time pushing buttons for your own amusement.

As for unconditional love and kindness; most people have it backwards. You don't *become* unconditionally loving and kind; you create a reality wherein it can be your only genuine response.

In other words, your attributes have not so far attracted the type of woman you desire. Double/tripled edged sword.
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it always starts out all healthy then he tries to make me believe in stuff like soul mates and twin flames and stuff like that however for me it is ALWAYS something in what he says to me that does not feel real like i know somehow looking for that outside yourself is the wrong way & i know that somehow like there is a beacon in me sending me messages. then for me he ALWAYS takes a sinister turn he becomes cruel and abusive verbally sometimes physically. he slowly tries to control EVERYTHING i do. he becomes competitive with my belief & love for God to the extreme where he wants to replace it with himself trying to make me believe in something outside myself so he can then turn and try to devastate me.

that is how it has always been & i have always departed the relationship with my love & belief in God still powerful in my being.


now having said this then it is clear that the male is not all perfect and innocent in the relationship only wanting to snuggle and fuck. so male take responsibility for your own actions it is not my fault you destroyed your connection to the Spirit in your own being long ago.

however you should know by now that you can not take Me from me.

i am not a lesbian. i am not a man hater. i am simply happy to be me & i do not want to be controlled. it is my God given rite to roam free with Me.
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
it always starts out all healthy then he tries to make me believe in stuff like soul mates and twin flames and stuff like that however for me it is ALWAYS something in what he says to me that does not feel real like i know somehow looking for that outside yourself is the wrong way & i know that somehow like there is a beacon in me sending me messages. then for me he ALWAYS takes a sinister turn he becomes cruel and abusive verbally sometimes physically. he slowly tries to control EVERYTHING i do. he becomes competitive with my belief & love for God to the extreme where he wants to replace it with himself trying to make me believe in something outside myself so he can then turn and try to devastate me.

that is how it has always been & i have always departed the relationship with my love & belief in God still powerful in my being.


now having said this then it is clear that the male is not all perfect and innocent in the relationship only wanting to snuggle and fuck. so male take responsibility for your own actions it is not my fault you destroyed your connection to the Spirit in your own being long ago.

however you should know by now that you can not take Me from me.

i am not a lesbian. i am not a man hater. i am simply happy to be me & i do not want to be controlled. it is my God given rite to roam free with Me.
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Educate yourself sexually with someone you care about. It will expand your consciousness past the "me" to the "we" and beyond.

You will attain bliss and smile...often.
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Okay, we've heard it...please go away now.
XXP .

Get to the point, then shut up..
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
OP, if you were a true intellectual, you would use your intellect to create something (anything) that is worthy of your intellect; something timeless and awe-inspiring which is dependent on no one else's approval or acknowledgement.

You would not waste your time pushing buttons for your own amusement.

As for unconditional love and kindness; most people have it backwards. You don't *become* unconditionally loving and kind; you create a reality wherein it can be your only genuine response.

In other words, your attributes have not so far attracted the type of woman you desire. Double/tripled edged sword.
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well said..
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it always starts out all healthy then he tries to make me believe in stuff like soul mates and twin flames and stuff like that however for me it is ALWAYS something in what he says to me that does not feel real like i know somehow looking for that outside yourself is the wrong way & i know that somehow like there is a beacon in me sending me messages. then for me he ALWAYS takes a sinister turn he becomes cruel and abusive verbally sometimes physically. he slowly tries to control EVERYTHING i do. he becomes competitive with my belief & love for God to the extreme where he wants to replace it with himself trying to make me believe in something outside myself so he can then turn and try to devastate me.

that is how it has always been & i have always departed the relationship with my love & belief in God still powerful in my being.


now having said this then it is clear that the male is not all perfect and innocent in the relationship only wanting to snuggle and fuck. so male take responsibility for your own actions it is not my fault you destroyed your connection to the Spirit in your own being long ago.

however you should know by now that you can not take Me from me.

i am not a lesbian. i am not a man hater. i am simply happy to be me & i do not want to be controlled. it is my God given rite to roam free with Me.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 869358



leave this guy if you are with him He's insecure and a hypocrite and has no right trying to micro-manage your life and beliefs.
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OP, if you were a true intellectual, you would use your intellect to create something (anything) that is worthy of your intellect; something timeless and awe-inspiring which is dependent on no one else's approval or acknowledgement.

You would not waste your time pushing buttons for your own amusement.

As for unconditional love and kindness; most people have it backwards. You don't *become* unconditionally loving and kind; you create a reality wherein it can be your only genuine response.

In other words, your attributes have not so far attracted the type of woman you desire. Double/tripled edged sword.



well said..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 860823


OP indicated he is an intellectual, and not someone billowing with vanity, you moron.

God damn, I despise the general public.
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Okay, we've heard it...please go away now.
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You dumb bitch.
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Re: Women, do you understand how remarkably wounding you can be to a man? Especially Intellectual men?
As a woman who is turned off by beta males...

OP - your problem lies with your own behavior. It doesn't seem very intellectual to me for someone to blame the whole of a gender for something that is obviously your own problem. It also doesn't seem intellectual to me for you to keep on doing the same thing over and over and to expect a different outcome.

Women are mostly sheeple, just like men these days. All you hafta do is show leadership qualities, a willingness to take charge, and the woman will do as you say.

As for me, I'm no catch. I'm not very attractive.. I'm weird as hell, awkward and clumsy, tall. I talk about weird things like quantum mechanics and the end of the world. I attract men like CrAzY - and those men I have been with - propose. I don't understand it. I've been proposed to 6 times, by monogamous males. I said yes to the one who looks like a greek god and wields a sword like a ninja.

Maybe it takes a special woman to appreciate a man. I know that I look to men for power, strength, protection, leadership, and fearlessness. Op - you project whiny weakness.
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DAMN.... You said it Sister!
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i am a woman, and i agree with most of the intelligent conversation made here (that isn't entirely generalized. we're not all horrible!!)

i was made aware of this trend at a young age, and i was very confused about the elusive femininity- girls that were my peers were never easy to relate to, who were deemed by society and the society of my schoolmates and feminine and desirable.

they were hateful behind backs, dishonest and judgmental. i had few friends i actually liked, and the rest were just girls i was nice to as to pass under their bitch radars.

i saw at an early age what those similar to me were influenced by, and how it affects their behavior and patterns of thought.



You're right...you ARE a woman. A damn smart woman.

Maybe there is some hope for your gender...but I don't think your viewpoints are the norm...
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Okay, we've heard it...please go away now.
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yeah....go fuck yourself.. no one else is going to want to
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Okay, we've heard it...please go away now.


yeah....go fuck yourself.. no one else is going to want to
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No man with a modicum of intellect would desire to defile himself with such filth....

Keep up the good work, OP. Good man, well played, well played indeed.
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I've read the entire thread with some amusement. Here's my two cents. Guys (i"m a guy), get a life, find your passion, find your purpose in life and Charge in. Women will not fill the hole in your life. If you do manage to find a woman and you have no purpose in life (even if you're a Alpha)that fact will become glaring apparent to her in short order... and then you're toast dude.

However, if you ever find a all consuming passion, a passion that forces you to march to your goal. A passion that permits no detours in life: you will find women tracking you down like bloodhounds. If you truly have a passion and a goal in life you can steal women from Alphas, betas, gammas, and episons....women have a sense about these sorts of things. On the flip side if you do have a all encompassing goal, women will not be your priority in life. And you will not find the time to steal women or track them down. If you are truly following your dream women will track you down to the end of time and to the ends of this earth ....trust me on this one. Instead of putting women on a pedestal and treating them like Goddesses, think of women as happy hitchhikers, who are just looking for a ride in your silver convertible,looking for some good adventures and some great conversations...If you walk out into the world with this attitude, and have a steady hand, a clear eye and a heart of oak you'll do just fine.

Remember attitude is altitude.

All the best men,

M

P.s. I had a vision recently and now I'm marching from northern Canada into the mountains of southern Mexico...the Mazteca Sierra. Wish me the best.
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As a woman who is turned off by beta males...

OP - your problem lies with your own behavior. It doesn't seem very intellectual to me for someone to blame the whole of a gender for something that is obviously your own problem. It also doesn't seem intellectual to me for you to keep on doing the same thing over and over and to expect a different outcome.

Women are mostly sheeple, just like men these days. All you hafta do is show leadership qualities, a willingness to take charge, and the woman will do as you say.

As for me, I'm no catch. I'm not very attractive.. I'm weird as hell, awkward and clumsy, tall. I talk about weird things like quantum mechanics and the end of the world. I attract men like CrAzY - and those men I have been with - propose. I don't understand it. I've been proposed to 6 times, by monogamous males. I said yes to the one who looks like a greek god and wields a sword like a ninja.

Maybe it takes a special woman to appreciate a man. I know that I look to men for power, strength, protection, leadership, and fearlessness. Op - you project whiny weakness.



DAMN.... You said it Sister!
 Quoting: rubylocks

Need more women in the world like her - genuine, fearless, and men find her hot!

So many men go after women that look and act like "The REAL Housewives of Orange County", then complain when the pretty package turns out to be nothing but shallow shi*t...

Last Edited by XPMarksthe on 01/20/2010 06:24 PM
XXP .

Get to the point, then shut up..
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woman is property of Satan, power
of darkness is using as weapon to
destroy man from within.

amazing it took this long for men
to acknologe who the enemy.
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Is this your way of saying that women HAVEN'T changed into self-serving, deceitful, greedy, manipulative, fickle creatures, as compared to the women of old?

BULLSHIT!

Where have you BEEN during all of the putrid social engineering that's been going on over the last 40 years? beautiful creatures?


I'm saying that nothing has changed. They were self-serving, deceitful, greedy, manipulative, fickle creatures even then. And if a man wants attention from them, confidence goes a long way.

Putrid social engineering? HA! Women are only now catching up to the way men have been acting for a long time. PLUS, OP seems to have suffered the effects of pussification and is experiencing self-pity for not getting a healthy ration of real-life breasts.

You assume too much, pulling in stereotypes. I never said that women were gentle creatures back then. I did say that if a man wants attention, he has to go out there and find it.
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Quote:

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I'm saying that nothing has changed. They were self-serving, deceitful, greedy, manipulative, fickle creatures even then. And if a man wants attention from them, confidence goes a long way.

Putrid social engineering? HA! Women are only now catching up to the way men have been acting for a long time. PLUS, OP seems to have suffered the effects of pussification and is experiencing self-pity for not getting a healthy ration of real-life breasts.

You assume too much, pulling in stereotypes. I never said that women were gentle creatures back then. I did say that if a man wants attention, he has to go out there and find it."


You're a totally blind idiot. Pull your head from your colon.
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I'm glad I'm not alone, I was wondering wth was wrong with all these women today. I've experienced a lot of aggressive hostility from random bitches on the street and all over the place. All you stuck up stupid cunts are lost souls, I pity you.


The reason is because the way you treat woman in the past, if youve ever been violent agressive disrespect girls, payback is a bitch

go to church and repent your sins
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Quote:

"The reason is because the way you treat woman in the past, if youve ever been violent agressive disrespect girls, payback is a bitch"


What a simpleton.

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