Selfishness and greed, a sign of the times gringo.

I can advise you that the problem stems from her lack of direction. Being idle is a sure recipe for gluttony, avarice and sexual dereliction/ misappropriation. If she is capable of working, has an interest in something that can be turned into gainful employment, say buying/ selling on-line, then suggest this as a starting point. Getting out in the real world and earning a living is a better option as it involves contact outside of the home. Yes, in todays pathetic world there is every likelihood that she will meet someone and start a covert and devious cock-up, but if that happens then she will lose weight, pretty herself and eventually leave of her own accord and you have no cause for guilt. Alternatively, you will both grow closer and she will lose weight, pretty herself and you both live happily ever after.

There is many here who seem to think that dumping her will resolve all problems and then you can go on your merry way and become another divorce statistic. All humans have souls and it is our duty, indeed obligation to assist these souls along the path. Would you consider rowing away from a drowning man, no you would automatically throw out the life line.

BTW, if you feel lost and depressed now, go ahead and commit suicide as this will prove that you too are ultimately selfish and I can guarantee this will bring about problems for your children and damnation for yourself.