He says things like: “You never do shit” “You’re a bad mother” You’re a bad wife” “You’re lazy” “I’m going to leave you if we lose everything” “You’re a piece of shit” “leave me the fuck alone” You never do ____” “You don’t love me” and the list goes on and on.
Well no thats not really considered verbally abusive its more just expressing his feelings outwardly about your relationship and situation.
Its fairly usual for people in a relationship to vent like that.
Its better to talk, he seems to not be able to talk and lets it build up where he just blurts it out.
Stress causes this in any person who has enough stress.
It may not even be you, you may not even be those things its just how it seems to him when all the shit builds up on his shoulders.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 839198Are you out of your ever loving mind?!! How would you feel if someone treated your daughter that way?? I can't believe what I have been reading here. I really can't.
It's abuse, pure and simple, not another word. Not another comment. No way in the world ANYONE EVER could justify this kind of treatment to another EVER. I said EVER.
I don't give a crap if that woman sat on her ass all day and didn't do a thing. I sure wouldn't if someone talked to me like that. Wait. I did. For 8 years of my life, and nearly ruined my daughter forever for staying that long.
If you love your children GET OUT NOW. Abusive men do not change for real until they lose everything for a long time. Just like an alcoholic, the more he's enabled, the more he knows he can get away with it.
This goes for women as well. I know plenty that nit pick and put down thier husbands to know end. We are to lift one another up, not tear them down. If you are married to a child like that, leave, and don't come back until you have gotten some help for yourself, or it will never change.
It is not okay, it is NEVER okay...got it?!!!
