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Why do most women ignore that you dont work with ignore you when you politely say high?

 
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What's worse, most of the guys you claim to be avoiding, the stalkers and gropers and such, ARE the good looking ones that can get away with such behaviors, not the ugly ones you punish for the behavior of others!

That is part of what I was trying to explain. Some of the most handsome men are the biggest creeps. Well that, and maybe the OP was being too friendly in a sexual sort of way. I'm thinking not though after reading here a bit.

Anyway, some men go through an akward stage in mid-life and then bloom later. I think they call it the silver back effect. Maybe it will happen for you if your lucky. I think the real key to that happening is getting rich though. I don't know.
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Re: Why do most women ignore that you dont work with ignore you when you politely say high?
lol, it can be in the supermarket and looking for an item not looking at no one. then bump into some one on mistake or vice versa (some women WILL run you over). And i'll say 'oh excuse me' and 'good afternoon' as i leave. the woman 90% of the time wont say shit.

Just out of interest; How many of these 'someones' you 'bump into' are males? I'm guessing none.

..and you know what that makes you.
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they are afraid of you.you probably aren't creepy or unfortunate looking, or you wld not wonder why women pretend not to respond. see women are afraid of creepy guys for practical rerasons, they can turn out to be serial killers, but women are afraid of cute polite guys, coz those are the ones that can make you lose control.
ever since eve lost control and fell in love with Lucifer, women are taught from young age that the worst thing you can do, worse thena fall pray to a serial killer is lose control.especially over a guy.it has a lot to do wt god being an envious prick wt inferiority complex....

nope. if i see a random guy somewhere and say good morning, high, or whats up. 90% of them WILL respond. We can even joke about something happening around us. bur like i said, if its a woman i work with or know through a friend they are polite to me, if its a stranger different story
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see what i mean:)
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Because you have been preceded that day by 50 other guys who said, "Hello," and when she smiled back politely and said, "Hello," they stopped and tried to get her to suck him off right then and there.

And to be honest, that's only a SMALL exaggeration.

There's a post on here about a guy who is all pissed off because women should "give men a sign" that she is interested in him by being polite and nice to him...

So what?

So that gives you an understanding of what men think if we're polite and nice to them. "She wants to FUCK ME SO BAD!!! YEAH!!!!" 5a

That is why. Bottom line. Because when a woman IS polite and friendly, it's open field to hit on her and sexually harass her.

Guys like you get caught in the crossfire.

I'm really sorry for that, but please don't blame women entirely for it. It's hard to retain that niceness and politeness in the face of some of the nasty, crass, bastard things that guys do the moment you ARE courteous and friendly towards them.

When I was young, I was fairly attractive. Slightly above average. As a result, most of the time when I was kind and polite and friendly towards guys, I got literally and actively STALKED.

So don't take it personal. They don't know you. You could be saying 'hi,' or you could be scoping her out for "You want to FUCK ME, don't you!!!"
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you make a good point, there is a percentige of males out there who interpret any polite behaviour as " she wants me she wants me bad" that is very annoying....
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Re: Why do most women ignore that you dont work with ignore you when you politely say high?
I was implying, ma'am, that you don't seem to like men very much.
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I'm a heterosexual woman, if you're trying to infer that I'm a lesbian.

It's not hatred of men that makes me point these things out. It's just the realities of being a woman, and what we experience. I'm an older woman now, almost 40. I STILL get hit on by guys all the time.

I've been hit on while I had an engagement ring on my finger. Then a wedding band-- same thing.

I've experienced a LOT of getting hit on, when the guy didn't even know me. Guys have pronounced me "the girl of [his] dreams" when he met me five minutes ago, and told other guys he was going to marry me.

Why? Because I smiled at him while giving him back his car keys.

I'm not saying that this makes men bad. But I am saying that it's VERY wearing to know that, to this kind of guy, all I had to do to be "THE" woman of his "dreams" was not be ugly and smile once.

It gets exhausting to turn away "suitors" because you aren't cold and sharp and hard. And the worst part of is, many of them don't take 'no' for an answer. I'm married, and many of them STILL don't take no for an answer.

That's not man hate, except for THOSE men.

Why does this still happen to me? You should ask yourself that. Why?

Because except for a while when I was younger, I haven't allowed it to make me be constantly cruel to guys/men. So it continues apace.

Is that man hate? I wouldn't think so.

And here I am, taking my time to let this man know that it's NOT his fault, and he's NOT being personally snubbed. to let him know that there is probably a reason for it, and it has nothing to do with him.

Is that man hate? I wouldn't think so.

But I guess it's all up to you how you view things.
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no u make excelent points.often times rude and pushy men, who's egoes can't deal wt the fact that you don't want to sleep wt him will make me tired and then i get defensive and snappy at men in general.
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Re: Why do most women ignore that you dont work with ignore you when you politely say high?
lol, it can be in the supermarket and looking for an item not looking at no one. then bump into some one on mistake or vice versa (some women WILL run you over). And i'll say 'oh excuse me' and 'good afternoon' as i leave. the woman 90% of the time wont say shit.


You want her to be friendly after you left a big black bruise on her hip with your shopping cart?
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Read my post carefully, the part........ (some women WILL run you over) implies that the woman just bruised my hip in the supermarket.
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aww.it's just fear hun....there's a lot of fear....altough if a person rams into a person and isn't very eloquently sorry, they are a-holes, no matter ladies aor gents..
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Re: Why do most women ignore that you dont work with ignore you when you politely say high?
Just pull your junk out and twirl it around.

Let's see them ignore that!
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Re: Why do most women ignore that you dont work with ignore you when you politely say high?
It's mainly because they think they are too good for you. Back when I was younger, a bit thinner and a bit better looking, I would smile at a woman in public and 95% of them would smile back.

Now you would think I am a plague carrier! :)

But it is not that I am creepy or staring or anything like that, but that women in general think they are too good for the likes of you and me.

It doesn't matter who they are, if they are successful or not. They may even be plain looking. (No harm in that, but it should lend a person towards greater awareness of how you treat others, not the same amount as the "pretty people".) Yet, they seem to believe that they are perfect in every way.

They use the EXCUSE (yes, I said it and will demonstrate my point in a moment, hang with me here...) of "some men are mashers" to be rude to you, even if you are kind, polite and cleanly.

How do I know it is an excuse and not reality? Because when pretty man comes along, ALL of these same women will suddenly be all smiles and blushes.

Now, I don't blame them for being more attracted to a better looking person. Hey, that's biology for you!

But being rude and dismissive towards some people, based ONLY on looks, then claiming you are NOT doing that is disingenuous.

Now think about it: The reason you bother claiming that you are not singling out the ugly to be rude to, is that you believe that to be wrong. The fact that you are doing so however (and you are. Check yourself, you really are...) means you are hypocritical.

What's worse, most of the guys you claim to be avoiding, the stalkers and gropers and such, ARE the good looking ones that can get away with such behaviors, not the ugly ones you punish for the behavior of others!

Who am I?

I'm the guy you didn't notice that walked between you and that gang of young men on that dark street.

I'm the guy that helped you get into your car when you locked the keys in and asked for nothing in return.

I'm the guy that drove 200 miles to get you at night, and then you came home with me and slept with my (admittedly better looking) roommate.

I'm the guy you complain to your friends about if I ask you out once, while you are sleeping with everyone else in the office.

I'm the guy that makes sure you get to your car safe at night, because there may be trouble in the area.

I'm MOST guys. The 80% that don't even make your radar because we are not good looking enough to suit your needs.

So, please, get off your high horse, understand that YOU are probably in the lower 80% for women and get. Over. It!

:)
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i'm sorry but your post is creepy. most ppl are avrege looking. men or women. very few people are exceptionally pretty or exceptionally bad looking....so other than coming across as a creepy guy that thinks a women owes him something just coz he thinks she is pretty, what exactly was your point?
damn i cant stop posting at this thread if this thread was a man his name wld be abdul.
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Re: Why do most women ignore that you dont work with ignore you when you politely say high?
How on Earth does someone reach the age of being able to use the Internet and not know that "hi" is not spelled "high"?
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How on Earth does someone reach the age of being able to use the Internet and not know that "hi" is not spelled "high"?
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I'm feeling generous today, so I will chalk it up to "helpful" auto-correct software.

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