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How to deal with a CLOSED OFF person...
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 9704956:MV8yMzE3NDQzXzM5NDk4MzU2XzRBNjFDMkM3] [quote:rainlover:MV8yMzE3NDQzXzM5NDk4MDcxX0U0NzU4QkJG] [quote:Anonymous Coward 19617445:MV8yMzE3NDQzXzM5NDk4MDQzXzIxNTZCOTUw] [quote:rainlover:MV8yMzE3NDQzXzM5NDk3OTczXzVEQzlDMTRB] [quote:Matrix Warrior:MV8yMzE3NDQzXzM5NDk3OTM0X0E3QzE5MUVE] Usually only the most selfish, rude, arrogant people, call others selfish. So its prob you. [/quote] No! It's not me!!!! I promise it's not me. [/quote] :chuckle: [/quote] Actually, I don't think he's selfish at all. Well, maybe with his time he is. I don't know. (Quit laughing!) :5a: [/quote] He's not selfish. Selfish is thinking you can have it both ways. Have an empty relationship with somebody just because you can get something out of it, maybe sex or money, or a shoulder to cry on, whatever. A selfish person would gladly hook into you, treat you like shit, not necessarily on purpose, but just as a matter of the fact of the circumstances and take what he can squeeze out of you. I bet he's not like that, I'm not either. The funny thing is, he might even like you. I like everybody I know. He just knows that's it's all going to add up to a big fat zero in the end as it always does. Better to just let you pass. It's too bad. If the two of you were compatible, I'd say latch on to him and don't let go. [/quote]
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There's this male person I know and he is very closed off. Doesn't trust people. Workaholic and a perfectionist.
How do you deal with someone like that? I've tried to get close but this person keeps me and everyone else at an arm's distance if he knows you. If you're a stranger, he welcomes you with open arms.
Thoughts/ideas/suggestions?
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