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My daughter is dating a Married man and does not care.... what do I do.
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[quote:jennilicious:MV8yODI5NzcyXzQ5NjU5MzM4Xzk4MEYzQTZB] Tell her what you think, and how disappointed you are. Don't welcome him around - welcome her, but not him. That's just the way it is. Always be there for her so she knows she has an "out". Don't berate her about it for this reason ... when she runs from it, she will need someone to run to who will love her unconditionally. Then I think you're going to have to let her learn the hard way, because she WILL learn this one the hard way. She will learn that no good and only pain will come of this. There probably will not be a second married man, and she will definitely have some hard times to work through, but she will learn. Good luck :hf: PS ... Don't disown your daughter. People make mistakes ... good people do bad things sometimes ... the heart and the hormones are unpredictable and crazy ... she's going to need you when the hard lesson hits her over the head. She will come out of this a different person, and the person you disown will not be the same person that comes out of it. She will have learned, and it would be awful to permanently sever the relationship as she learns and grows and builds a future. Always love her. She will always be there for you and you for her. That's the most important thing, as people grow and learn from their mistakes. [/quote]
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My daughter brought her Boyfriend home the other day to introduce him to the family. Everything was going fine until she admitted that he was married. When I asked him bluntly if he was separated from his wife and what his intentions were, he stated that he was not separated and that he had no intentions of leaving his wife.
My daughter could see that I was in shock, she quickly explained that she had met his wife and that she was perfectly ok with her husband dating my daughter. After all, she was dating on the side too. When I tuned to look at him, he was smiling and told me.. "Oh don't worry, I have been fixed, there will be no children. And I do not plan on getting divorced."
I left before I said something that I should not have. I could only think that if they were both dating other people, why did they even get married?
In raising my daughter, I taught her that you do not "Poach other women's men" end of story. The man is a sleazeball. Now what do I do?
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