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My daughter is dating a Married man and does not care.... what do I do.
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 34760435:MV8yODI5NzcyXzQ5NjYwMjQyX0NGMTFBREU=] [quote:Red Red Whine:MV8yODI5NzcyXzQ5NjYwMTU3XzY3QzY2MTQ5] As a mother and a daughter and someone who fell out of love with her husband, who then committed suicide when I said I fell for someone else. My parents loved my husband as a golden son. When I brought the boyfriend home....my parents welcomed him as a person who I loved and who stopped me from killing myself. You....need to do the same....he is a man who is giving her time. He may not be the forever person for her...especially if she ultimately wants babies. Be cordial, be polite. He is giving her something....a knowing of how lust vs loves feels. It is your daughters journey...let her live it without condemnation. Just be there for her.....she will sort it out in her own time. [/quote] This is good advice. I am wondering what the daughter is thinking however. Does she think that he will leave his wife? There is no real future for her here unless she is happy as a mistress. That is a possibility but is she really aware of that? Has this question been asked. Is she really okay with it. Perhaps for now she is. [/quote]
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My daughter brought her Boyfriend home the other day to introduce him to the family. Everything was going fine until she admitted that he was married. When I asked him bluntly if he was separated from his wife and what his intentions were, he stated that he was not separated and that he had no intentions of leaving his wife.
My daughter could see that I was in shock, she quickly explained that she had met his wife and that she was perfectly ok with her husband dating my daughter. After all, she was dating on the side too. When I tuned to look at him, he was smiling and told me.. "Oh don't worry, I have been fixed, there will be no children. And I do not plan on getting divorced."
I left before I said something that I should not have. I could only think that if they were both dating other people, why did they even get married?
In raising my daughter, I taught her that you do not "Poach other women's men" end of story. The man is a sleazeball. Now what do I do?
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