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If your 16 year old son said that he may like other boys, what will you tell him?
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[quote:NYC-Beat Reporter:MV8zODg2OTU2XzcwMDMxOTAzXzRENDQxRDBG] [quote:ReoX:MV8zODg2OTU2XzIwQzdDNjUw] :1dunno1: [/quote] I would tell him that he's my son, and I love him more than anything in the whole wide world. I'd tell him that he does not get to choose what turns him on sexually; those things are hard-wired into a person, and they only start to realize those feelings when they hit puberty. I would tell him that sex is for reproduction, which is why a penis goes into a vagina. Also tell him that while there's a whole lot of enjoyment from it, there are also BIG TIME downsides: Diseases being the most dangerous. Tell him about what he can catch; Syphilis and Gonorrhea can both be cured, but [b]Herpes cannot[/b]. And once he gets that, it comes back almost every month for life. Then, of course, there's HIV. Once you get THAT, you have to take drugs every day for the rest for your life to try to avoid dying. Those drugs have terrible side effects. Explain to him that HERPES and HIV are the most common diseases in man-to-man sex because m4m sex involves the penis in the anus, and it is life threatening to engage in that behavior. If he is going to engage in that behavior, he must use protection - always wear a condom. Then explain to him that men are horny creatures; we can look at two dogs screwing and get aroused. A man will pretty much screw anything with a pulse and that it is normal for him to be all horny at this stage of his life. But the choices he makes NOW could affect him for the rest of his life, so he has to be careful. Lastly, I would tell him that who he has sex with DOES NOT DEFINE his existence. Sex is part of our existence, it is not the definition of our existence. The same way once in awhile a person has "an appetite" for a particular food, people get an appetite for a particular type of sex. It is merely an aspect of being human and it does not define his whole life. Then remind him that you love him no matter what, and that he must be careful with what he does because sex is serious business. [/quote]
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