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[quote:NotStarvingActress:MV8zODg3NTA4XzcwMDQzNTg2XzUzQzY4Njgy] [quote:Rose8:MV8zODg3NTA4XzcwMDQzNTQwXzE2MTA2Q0JC] [quote:NotStarvingActress:MV8zODg3NTA4XzcwMDQzNDUxXzc5Q0UwNzVC] I'm a live and let live type of person. Not being super observant nor visual, I don't see a need to focus on others' faults. Why can't others do the same for me? I've reached out so many times to others for friendship, saved many peoples lives by finding them work, and in return am continually disappointed to see how in return they bad mouth me behind my back and spread lies about me. Why are people so cruel? Grateful to GLP as otherwise I've become almost agoraphobic with only 1 or 2 friends I see occasionally. Don't talk to anyone else. [/quote] I think people are very self-involved, whether consciously or sub-consciously, and they do not look outside themselves to really involve themselves with others, even if those others have been kind or not. People are in a constant state of survival. It makes it fairly hard to look outside of your own self to tend to the emotional needs of others. For those that DO look beyond themselves and do the nasty things, it's the survival technique of narcissists, which are a nefarious breed of human being that is ever increasing. In the case of narcissists, you will NEVER (no matter how hard you try) be able to please them unless you are suffering. [/quote] Thank you so much for your very insightful response. Any ideas of how to find true friends? No longer feel safe going dancing or seeing the sights alone. Used to think it was possible to have strictly platonic friendships with men but have found with one wonderful exception, they get mad at me if I'm not interested in them romantically. Frustrating as I'm super honest from Day-1 re me feelings. Have had a lot of difficulty with female friendships. [/quote]
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I am advising on family and relationship issues today only.
1. Not giving psychic feedback
2. Not giving wisdom on the universe
Please keep your questions serious and please don't be vague.
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