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How many of you are still happily married and going strong despite the changes happening all around you?
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 64787761:MV8zOTgyNDc3XzcyMDU0MTU1X0E4MDE2QjEz] [quote:Anonymous Coward 77387371:MV8zOTgyNDc3XzcyMDUzOTk1Xzk3NzA0RDFF] [quote:Anonymous Coward 64787761:MV8zOTgyNDc3XzcyMDUzOTU2X0EyQ0M1M0E4] [quote:Anonymous Coward 77387371:MV8zOTgyNDc3XzcyMDUzOTEwXzJGQzMzMzk5] I’m happily married and my spouse is amazing and kind and we get along great and never fight! Problem is...I ALSO have feelings for someone else. And this person doesn’t even feel the same way about me, as far as I know. Although they initially hinted, but have since pulled back. Thing is, I don’t want to cheat and don’t think I ever would!! But I feel totally heartbroken over this other person. How do I get over this??? I need advice...and not advice like “become a swinger.” Not interested! How do I get over this? It’s driving me into a depression. Is the 7-year-itch real? We’ve been married 7 years. Is it even possible to love two people? I don’t want to think about another person constantly!! I love my spouse!! And don’t even want to do that to them!! I will not cheat. [/quote] Being attracted to someone else is human - don't act on it. You are married. You are committed to someone else. You even thinking about it is a form of cheating already. Put the fire back into your marriage, get away from this other person. You will be glad you did. Your spouse said yes to life with you - the other person did not. [/quote] I know and I’ve been tormented over the fact that I even keep thinking about this person and how wrong it is. Thanks for the reply :) I’m looking for some reassurance that I can get past this. I know it will happen eventually. Just hate this heartache over it. [/quote] Well you likely have heartache because you feel guilt...I hope. Stop thinking of the other person and you will stop being upset. The other person doesn't love you, your spouse does. [/quote]
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