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Subject Need some advice(Single Dad)

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First off how old is the child because it is punishment to the child to not be able to see their mother my son's mother was addicted to heroin and stole him and when I finally got him back ,after about five years I let him go see his mom and he made the decision from there that he didn't want to see her anymore but it wasn't me keeping him away because that makes them hate you
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He’s 3 and a 1/2 she’s been gone for about 2 years and he doesn’t seem to remember her and has done way better than he ever did before she was gone.
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he won't have a clue who she is

children do not form retained memories before age 2 - 3

I lost my mum when I was 3
I have no remembrance of her whatsoever
I lost my step mum when I was 5
I remember my first memories being with her not my birth mum

there will be no feelings of punishment or being deprived because the child never knew the birth mum

avoid reconnecting because if she's still nutz then the potential for damage is increased rather than if he never meets her
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Original Message So my son’s mother went crazy about 3-4 years ago. She threatened his life when he was an infant and mine as well as insane accusations and basically making our lives hell.

She got involuntarily committed a few years back and I got full custody with restraining orders. She didn’t even show up to court... after she was out of the psych hospital and had two chances.

Now her mother (who has basically reached out 5 times in 3 years and never visited) is messaging me did i know she had a daughter now. I say no and say good luck to her. Then the mom says she sent you a friends request. I say Ok.

Why would I accept this invite and what do I do when her mom asks why I didn’t accept it?

I’ve never asked or gotten anything from her as far as child support. I stopped contacting her when I found out the psych hospital didn’t help. For all I know she doesn’t have custody of this daughter either. I would rather not burn all bridges with her family, my son’s relatives but I feel like I can’t accept this invite.

Also I know Facebook is fucking retarded but I do use it keep I touch with family time to time.

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