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People have told me that others are "just jealous", I don't belive that
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[quote:LittleMe:MV80MTk4NTI4Xzc2MzcwNDI5X0UxOURFOTlD] [quote:chasity:MV80MTk4NTI4Xzc2MzcwMDYwX0ZCMjQzQ0Uw] [quote:Anonymous Coward 75945643:MV80MTk4NTI4Xzc2MzY5OTUwXzlGQjAzMjk2] I've found myself to have several relationships with narcasicisstic people throughout my life. I attract them. It took some time to realize, I was playing a role as well. I did a lot of research and found it's a common pattern. Often leaving one relationship, maybe going no contacr, you will energetically look to recreate that dynamic with another. Co dependency is a term you see used to describe these relationships. I continue to work on myself to not play the victim role. [/quote] I never felt like a victim. I knew from very young that something wasn't right and all I wanted was for my parents to love me so I did back flips doing stuff for them to please them. I also had people outside the family circle that knew me confirm my mom was nuts and my dad is living a completely separate life from the family lol. But yeah, after no contact with my dad I invited him back in but it's different now that he has health problems, he is more vulnerable and nobody else will have anything to do with him in the family. He always told me I didn't belong to that family and now he doesn't because they won't talk to him. Now I have started my own family and we have strict boundaries with him otherwise he won't ever leave. I didn't end up alone like him and my mother. [/quote] In their heads, they are the victims, the ones being attacked and misunderstood. Again, in their heads they think they’re absolutely right and know the truth and can see it. Very typical of them, calling out people and pretend to be the victim and the scary part is that other people go along with it. Yes, it happened to me too, always trying to please my half sisters but for them I was the bad seed, the evil one, but at the end they always agreed with me and asked for advice cuz I’m the one with the brains and solve their problems. Yeah, now that I too have my own family I don’t feel alone and my children are my life... cutting them off was the best decision I’ve ever made in my life. [/quote]
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I never did believe it. I always thought that would be egotistical on my part to think someone would want my life.
And now I've done some research and realize these people that gaslight are narcissistic and for them to be jealous would mean they want what I/we have, they would never want that, they would rather see it all destroyed. They want their targets to be miserable like them. They are always single too because they are unable to maintain meaningful relationships in their lives. Idk if they keep multiple target or if they just work on one person at a time. Does anyone have any knowledge about this and what happens when there is no more contact, when you shut that person out and they can no longer harass you, do they move onto someone else? Do they always have a need to try to destroy a person?
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