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Male egos, and strong, independant women...

 
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Woodsprite strong, independant whore
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I'd have to be charging money for sex to truly be a Whore....and I don't do that.
I'm also not really someone that has multiple lovers ... I prefer 'dating' 1 person at a time.
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woodsprite - what a totally cool name !!!!
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Thanks! hf
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Woodsprite... you are an artist? Now I am very intrigued. I first noticed you months ago. Yes, something about you made me sit up and take notice. Now that you say you are an artist... well, that really has me interested. Hot damn I would love to drink some coffee with you early in the morning and just shoot the breeze.
It's not fair that you live so far away. Damn universe is always so difficult.
I hope I can find a quality woman friend like you here in Edmonton someday.
-Eat



Yep...sure am..:)
I work with all kinds of differant media...fine art, oil painting on canvas, drawings of pastel and charcoal on paper, make art glass windows and doors( glass puzzles..LOL !), hand letter signs, airbrush, design and help build haunted houses, paint murals, sew, knit and crochet, tat, bake....
I'm consumed with the need to 'create'...with whatever I can find around me to use as the materials.

I had no idea you even knew I existed...LOL

You never know EAT, we may end up having that morning coffee and conversation 1 day.
I really have always wanted to take a trip to Canada, get a guide and spend a couple of weeks in the woods, hunting and fishing.
There seems to be so much more 'unspoiled' wilderness in Canada, and I have craved that my whole life....so I fully intend on going there before I die.
When this happens, if we're still intouch, I'd give ya call, and have coffee with ya.... :)

I'm sure that there are women like me in Canada too....just need to look in the right place for us....like in the woods, or in the 'subcultures' Punk/Goth /Industrial.
We tend to be 'loners'...so we won't be surrounded by a huge group of people, even when we're in a crowded room.
 Quoting: Woodsprite

There is something about a truly CREATIVE artist (she's got to be easy on the eyes as well) that I find very very attractive. This kind of a woman is #1 in my books.
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A truly creative artist is deeply spiritual.
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A truly creative artists realizes they are broken' and their art is a form of 'healing'....
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I want to read this tomorrow...so unnecessary BUMP
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The avatars we use here are little indicators of an aspect of who we are...
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Leos think the world revolves around them...

They are stubborn. They are domineering.
Put 2 strong Leos in a room and there will be immediate problems.
A Leo needs someone submissive. Plain and simple.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 871860


I have to agree with ya... as much as I love them, they can be this way, all too often.
They can be so much fun though, when they aren't being like that...
Of all the signs I've dated, I have to say, they have the biggest hearts, and are more loving and affectionate, thoughtful ( like remembering that you love a certain candy, and just stopping to buy you some when they are coming to see you...because they know it's your favorite and will make you smile).

Aries men, I don't get along well with at all.....because they make a Leo look like a kitten when it comes to dominance and submission.
They are just straight out egocentric asses that DEMAND submission, or there is war.
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Woodsprite... you are an artist? Now I am very intrigued. I first noticed you months ago. Yes, something about you made me sit up and take notice. Now that you say you are an artist... well, that really has me interested. Hot damn I would love to drink some coffee with you early in the morning and just shoot the breeze.
It's not fair that you live so far away. Damn universe is always so difficult.
I hope I can find a quality woman friend like you here in Edmonton someday.
-Eat



Yep...sure am..:)
I work with all kinds of differant media...fine art, oil painting on canvas, drawings of pastel and charcoal on paper, make art glass windows and doors( glass puzzles..LOL !), hand letter signs, airbrush, design and help build haunted houses, paint murals, sew, knit and crochet, tat, bake....
I'm consumed with the need to 'create'...with whatever I can find around me to use as the materials.

I had no idea you even knew I existed...LOL

You never know EAT, we may end up having that morning coffee and conversation 1 day.
I really have always wanted to take a trip to Canada, get a guide and spend a couple of weeks in the woods, hunting and fishing.
There seems to be so much more 'unspoiled' wilderness in Canada, and I have craved that my whole life....so I fully intend on going there before I die.
When this happens, if we're still intouch, I'd give ya call, and have coffee with ya.... :)

I'm sure that there are women like me in Canada too....just need to look in the right place for us....like in the woods, or in the 'subcultures' Punk/Goth /Industrial.
We tend to be 'loners'...so we won't be surrounded by a huge group of people, even when we're in a crowded room.

There is something about a truly CREATIVE artist (she's got to be easy on the eyes as well) that I find very very attractive. This kind of a woman is #1 in my books.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 871860

...You're a cool guy EAT hf
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A truly creative artist is deeply spiritual.
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Yep....:)
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... I may have grown into a woman, but inside of me, there will always be 'the young girl'.
I like her, and never want to kill her off. She has some great qualities about her.....curious about everything, and full of questions, wanting to learn about it all.
The ability to set life's problems aside sometimes, and still 'play' and have fun, laugh over silly stuff.
Being able to look at the Natural World around me and be awed by the beauty of something as trivial as the frost patterns that are created on the fallen leaves on the ground...

It isn't just about fucking.....that's just too easy to find.
What I'm looking for is deeper....need to have an emotional connection, someone that values the same things in life that I do , someone I can respect, and admire...as well as desire sexually.
 Quoting: Woodsprite


Who do you think you are fooling with this BS which I hear since my young times?

Now I know you are narcissist:

It is difficult to recognize a narcissist because he (or she) spends all of his time acting, protecting his ego by presenting to the world a false image of himself.

[link to www.winning-teams.com]

Your 'bla bla bla' is all BS to hide that you want be deep fuck...
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If you knew me well enough you wouldn't think so...
Deep down inside I'm an insecure child. Aren't we all...

Woodsprite... you are an artist? Now I am very intrigued. I first noticed you months ago. Yes, something about you made me sit up and take notice. Now that you say you are an artist... well, that really has me interested. Hot damn I would love to drink some coffee with you early in the morning and just shoot the breeze.
It's not fair that you live so far away. Damn universe is always so difficult.
I hope I can find a quality woman friend like you here in Edmonton someday.
-Eat



Yep...sure am..:)
I work with all kinds of differant media...fine art, oil painting on canvas, drawings of pastel and charcoal on paper, make art glass windows and doors( glass puzzles..LOL !), hand letter signs, airbrush, design and help build haunted houses, paint murals, sew, knit and crochet, tat, bake....
I'm consumed with the need to 'create'...with whatever I can find around me to use as the materials.

I had no idea you even knew I existed...LOL

You never know EAT, we may end up having that morning coffee and conversation 1 day.
I really have always wanted to take a trip to Canada, get a guide and spend a couple of weeks in the woods, hunting and fishing.
There seems to be so much more 'unspoiled' wilderness in Canada, and I have craved that my whole life....so I fully intend on going there before I die.
When this happens, if we're still intouch, I'd give ya call, and have coffee with ya.... :)

I'm sure that there are women like me in Canada too....just need to look in the right place for us....like in the woods, or in the 'subcultures' Punk/Goth /Industrial.
We tend to be 'loners'...so we won't be surrounded by a huge group of people, even when we're in a crowded room.

There is something about a truly CREATIVE artist (she's got to be easy on the eyes as well) that I find very very attractive. This kind of a woman is #1 in my books.

...You're a cool guy EAT hf
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A truly creative artists realizes they are broken' and their art is a form of 'healing'....
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Yep on this 1 too!

Growing up, I didn't have the best of lives....I was raised by a Mentally unstable Mother that was labeled "Manic Depressive/ Bipolar"...that also was an alcoholic....
My half brother was also mentally unstable....Sociopath.
My Mother married a man she met while she was 'away' for treatment, and that became my Step-father.
These people were like evil geniuses....both my Mom and Half brother were MENSA members...
With that gift of Genius, there also came the mental instability, disorders.

Art really was my refuge, and where I would go to 'heal' from the trauma of having to live in such an enviroment.
It was the 1 place that I had control over what happened, and I could freely use 'symbols' to vent my emotions.
I know I would not have survived my upbringing as well as I did, if I didn't have my art.
I'm so thankful that I didn't get that gift of Genius that my Mom and half brother did...I got my creative gift from my Dad, and his side of the family.
His family has a long line of creative/spiritual people...my Grandfather was a 'Display Manager' for Belknap for years, and he was also into model building and trains...
His wife liked to draw and sketch...
My Dad is also an artist, and worked for Ford for 45 years, painting signs and murals in the factories here...
My Grandfather was only months away from becoming a Priest when he met my Dad's mother, and fell in love with her, but he was always very Spiritual until the day he passed away.
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If you knew me well enough you wouldn't think so...
Deep down inside I'm an insecure child. Aren't we all...


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I don't know, I'd probably still like you, just for the fact that you are honest about your insecurity.
And, I think you're right...inside we are all still an 'insecure child' to some degree.
I know I am too...I'm still looking for my Dad's love and approval, and I'm 44 years old!

I respect honesty, even when it's about something that is considered 'undesireable'.....it takes guts to not only admit it to yourself, but to others too...
I'd much rather hang out with people like that....than the ones that put on a mask, and deny those things they consider'undesireable" about themselves.
To me, they are just a big phoney, not being real....they are a waste of my time because it's impossible to really get to know them...having to try and peel back all the masks to see who they really are.
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Many romance based relationships(as opposed to money based/gold digger types) start out sincerely with both parties affirming the positives they identify and admire in the other.

As time proceeds, and as the strong female turns out to be "right" more and more, the male begins to feel less and less powerful vis a vis the female. Each relationship being unique, one cannot generalize regarding certain specifics, however, the hardwiring of the male is such that the male ego in order to continue feeling ADEQUATE, demands that he feel needed, important, of use, and slowly begins to wither with the increasing realization that his female displays continual superiority in so many ways.

This is addressing only those relationships where there is a very powerful, strong female, not at all looking at the lower IQ, or submissive, even masochistic type females.


I can see a lot of truth in what you've said... I think this basically sums it all up nicely.
This is what I've been dealing with.
I've never meant to make them feel like that...I've even pointed out their own strengths and good qualities to them, but it still always seems to happen.
 Quoting: Woodsprite



You have personal power, and in this post wimmen's lib world, the male of the species is confused as to HOW he should BE in the face of such power.

Basically any female, regardless of how strong they are, really want a male that is in some way stronger. Almost impossible to find in American males especially now, although the poison of the cultural revolution has now inserted itself into all of Western Civilization..
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... I may have grown into a woman, but inside of me, there will always be 'the young girl'.
I like her, and never want to kill her off. She has some great qualities about her.....curious about everything, and full of questions, wanting to learn about it all.
The ability to set life's problems aside sometimes, and still 'play' and have fun, laugh over silly stuff.
Being able to look at the Natural World around me and be awed by the beauty of something as trivial as the frost patterns that are created on the fallen leaves on the ground...

It isn't just about fucking.....that's just too easy to find.
What I'm looking for is deeper....need to have an emotional connection, someone that values the same things in life that I do , someone I can respect, and admire...as well as desire sexually.


Who do you think you are fooling with this BS which I hear since my young times?

Now I know you are narcissist:

It is difficult to recognize a narcissist because he (or she) spends all of his time acting, protecting his ego by presenting to the world a false image of himself.

[link to www.winning-teams.com]

Your 'bla bla bla' is all BS to hide that you want be deep fuck...
 Quoting: Kundalini_Rake


I'm sorry, but you are so far off from reality, it isn't funny.
I have no problem finding people that want to fuck me...I could pick up the phone today and have have my choice of : sex with a 29 yr. old guy that's been crazy about me for the past 5 years...
Or the 30 year old bass player that's been trying to get in my pants for a year now..
Or the couple that I have sex with occasionally when I feel like 'being a sandwich.... or want to be with a woman.

It isn't just about sex, and it isn't just about me....it's about relationships that are more than just sex, and how in Society today we are having major problems because of ego issues, the changing roles of genders in Society.
What is causing the sky high divorce rates these days...

I can only speak from my own experiences...
And I've thrown this out there for others to see and chime in on, because I need to hear their thoughts and experiences too....
Maybe if we all talk about this crap...we can get some of it resolved so this bullshit can end....we can get back to just loving one another, and being able to have stable happy relationships so Families can exist again.
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Many romance based relationships(as opposed to money based/gold digger types) start out sincerely with both parties affirming the positives they identify and admire in the other.

As time proceeds, and as the strong female turns out to be "right" more and more, the male begins to feel less and less powerful vis a vis the female. Each relationship being unique, one cannot generalize regarding certain specifics, however, the hardwiring of the male is such that the male ego in order to continue feeling ADEQUATE, demands that he feel needed, important, of use, and slowly begins to wither with the increasing realization that his female displays continual superiority in so many ways.

This is addressing only those relationships where there is a very powerful, strong female, not at all looking at the lower IQ, or submissive, even masochistic type females.


I can see a lot of truth in what you've said... I think this basically sums it all up nicely.
This is what I've been dealing with.
I've never meant to make them feel like that...I've even pointed out their own strengths and good qualities to them, but it still always seems to happen.



You have personal power, and in this post wimmen's lib world, the male of the species is confused as to HOW he should BE in the face of such power.

Basically any female, regardless of how strong they are, really want a male that is in some way stronger. Almost impossible to find in American males especially now, although the poison of the cultural revolution has now inserted itself into all of Western Civilization..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1065984


I can see some truth in this...because roles are /have been changing quickly, I can see where there would be confusion.
Some guys seem to be able to handle the change better than others, from what I've seen.
I've never been able to understand why a woman that 'has power' is so threatning to men.
By Nature, most women are "nurturers"...we enjoy nurturing others, not inflicting pain, or making someone feel like a piece of dirt.
This male fear of women has been happening a very long time!
Just look at how many of the World's Religions portray women as evil....less than men.
Hell, Christianity says that we are 'cursed' with having periods and the pain of childbirth...because we made Adam eat the apple!
How many women and Midwives, Natural healers were burned at the stake, out of this fear/jealousy of women.?
I don't think we were ever 'cursed'...it's just the opposite...we were given the gift to be able to create another living being in our bodies...we've always been nurturers and healers , creators of life.
Men can't do that, and I think it's why they have for so many years opressed and persecuted women like they have.

Personally, I think it's time they get over it....we aren't here to hurt them...we're here to help, to nurture life... to love them.
All we are asking for, is to be treated with love and respect, and allowed to be 'who we are'...who we used to be, before this insane fear and jealousy took over and ruined it all.
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What I'm looking for is deeper....need to have an emotional connection, someone that values the same things in life that I do , someone I can respect, and admire...as well as desire sexually.
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Leos and Sags get along. But I'm way down south, in my own little paradise....
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Leos think the world revolves around them...

They are stubborn. They are domineering.
Put 2 strong Leos in a room and there will be immediate problems.
A Leo needs someone submissive. Plain and simple.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 871860


Hardly, they need someone "intellectual", and that wants to have fun with them...
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Leos think the world revolves around them...

They are stubborn. They are domineering.
Put 2 strong Leos in a room and there will be immediate problems.
A Leo needs someone submissive. Plain and simple.


Hardly, they need someone "intellectual", and that wants to have fun with them...
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And militantly honest to the core.
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did I mention fearlessly adventurous?
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What I'm looking for is deeper....need to have an emotional connection, someone that values the same things in life that I do , someone I can respect, and admire...as well as desire sexually.


Leos and Sags get along. But I'm way down south, in my own little paradise....
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1101791


My second husband was a Sag.... :)
I get along with you guys pretty well too...:)
LOL...You guys are funny, always make me smile or laugh...'cosmic clowns"...LOL
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Leos think the world revolves around them...

They are stubborn. They are domineering.
Put 2 strong Leos in a room and there will be immediate problems.
A Leo needs someone submissive. Plain and simple.


Hardly, they need someone "intellectual", and that wants to have fun with them...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1101791

Yep...one of the things I adore about them...I can actually have a deep conversation with them, and they don't get the glazed over eyes happening..
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Leos think the world revolves around them...

They are stubborn. They are domineering.
Put 2 strong Leos in a room and there will be immediate problems.
A Leo needs someone submissive. Plain and simple.


Hardly, they need someone "intellectual", and that wants to have fun with them...


And militantly honest to the core.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1101791


Ummm...I think that depends more on the individual.
I will say they are extremly Loyal, more than honest....sometimes it takes years to get them to admit the real reasons behind their actions.
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did I mention fearlessly adventurous?
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No....but that's another great quality of Leo's...what attracts me so much to them.
I'm always up for a good adventure, us Rams love to go jumping around steep rocky mountain slopes...having someone to play with is nice...:)
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Coming in late to this thread, but I am very much an alpha-male type, but the only women I have ever been attracted to were strong, independent types. The "yes dear" girls drive me insane.

I found a really intelligent and strong-minded one, and we've been together 8 years because of it!
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WOMEN ARE ALL DUMB WHORES.

DEEP DOWN THEY JUST WANT TO BE SLUTS AND NOT INDEPENDANT & STRONG.

IF A WOMAN WANTS TO BE INDEPENDENT AND SMART, SHES NOT BEING TRUE TO HER OWN BIOLOGY AND PRIMAL NEEDS.

WOMEN LIKE TO BE DUMB DITZ READY TO SUCK YOUR TOES WHEN YOU ASK EM.
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This is why Razrin can't get a girlfriend
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And militantly honest to the core.


Ummm...I think that depends more on the individual.
I will say they are extremly Loyal, more than honest....sometimes it takes years to get them to admit the real reasons behind their actions.
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I guess we are philosophically honest. :) And yes, loyal.
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'cosmic clowns"...LOL
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You can never fake a laugh with a Sag around.
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WOMEN ARE ALL DUMB WHORES.

DEEP DOWN THEY JUST WANT TO BE SLUTS AND NOT INDEPENDANT & STRONG.

IF A WOMAN WANTS TO BE INDEPENDENT AND SMART, SHES NOT BEING TRUE TO HER OWN BIOLOGY AND PRIMAL NEEDS.

WOMEN LIKE TO BE DUMB DITZ READY TO SUCK YOUR TOES WHEN YOU ASK EM.
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