You sound like your on a great track -do not let a man take the things away from you -your creativity, that makes you -you. Some men seem to think they own you once you are a couple, that they can dress you however they want. If you are a successful woman and want a man who wants to be with you, then it would probably be wise to keep your money separate and thus out of the relationship. This way your making more is no matter to him and he cannot use you, he cannot make your work "his" and you can give out of your generosity without him owning you.
Thanks for your support...:)
It is very much like you described....they are attracted by my creativity, and free Spirit...but then they try and kill those things off once they 'have me'...why my marriages haven't worked.
Sometimes I think they get jealous of the time I spend doing it...like they should have that time spent on them.
I can never get them to understand that my needing to create, does not mean I don't love them, or want to spend time with them....it's just that sometimes, I have no choice, it's hammering at my Soul, and it has to come out...and I have to be alone, undisturbed to be able to set it free.
After having been on this awful Merry-go-round for so long, I've come to the conclusion that I'll probably never Marry again.
I'll date someone, if I ever meet anyone that interests me again...but the marriage thing seems to be a relationship killer.
I figure just having someone walk with me for a while, and then leave when it starts looking like the whole marriage issue raises it's head...will be alright.
That way, the things that have created so many problems, won't happen.
It's kinda sad that things are more than likely going to end up this way.....but I guess it's better than being married to someone that is always trying to change the basic 'who you are', and are trying to make you conform to them being your 'everything'.
