Stepford Wives addressed this very problem

I don't care how powerful the male APPEARS, he MUST feel superior to his female to exist without feeling threatened/castrated.

Strong females are intimidating on so many levels, and the male ego DEMANDS that the female stroke it, whether sincerely or not. This is despicable for the female who values truth and honesty.


Jeez, what about us men that want our egos stroked sincerely and honestly? I mean I'll do the same, sincerely and honestly. Honestly. I detest insincerity and dishonesty when it comes to women stroking my ego!

why do you need it though?