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my marriage of 12 years is going to the shitzels.. | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1070088  United States10/04/2010 06:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1093879 United States10/04/2010 07:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | my marriage of 12 years is going to the shitzels.. Quoting: Fun-Da-Mentaldunno why,....i'm all pooped out... what a phucked up whirldddd... i'm down and out. been here since '02... i have a fosterdaughter of 13, how will i tell her? how can i have a life after this? man, oh man.... i hate women.... ok, simple solutions to simple problems. Yes, I said simple. Why do relationships break down. 1. lack of communication number 1. solution. Talk. Force yourself. Be awkward, humble, afraid, delicate, vulnerable...but just do it. speak your truth from your heart 2. Money - agree to disagree...and then agree to not let money EVER come between you EVER -then refer to solution number 1. 3. sex. Every day - touch. Every single day. TOuch. Don't make it always about sex. And before you do have sex -refer to number 1 first - communicate deeply, honestly, transparently 4. they have changed. Of course they have changed - hello people don't get married with the idea to then stagnate for the rest of their lives. solution: ALways agree to see the BEST in your partner. ALWAYS! Know they are always trying -even when it looks like they are not. See their good more than you witness their "bad" - because we usually see what we focus on. then, refer to number one... 5. Two magic sentences that should always be on hand I'm sorry. Thank you. No one is perfect. If you stop looking for it - then you can see waht is present and love what is there. Apologize for hurting each other in unintentional ways...understanding that neither wants to hurt or be hurt. and say thank you = every morning and evening for all that each of you do for each other...acknowledge that you actually value one another and mean a great deal to each other. use number 1 to speak from the heart. Hope this helps |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1119557 United States10/04/2010 08:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yes you selfish cunt. if you are going to traumatize the kid like that at least wait a few years and tough it out. lay down some ground rules and keep the kid in mind first. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1118395people are so selfish. You're a selfish cunt, thinking you are somehow qualified to make a judgement about someone you know absolutely zero about. Suck one, Dr. Laura |
