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I guess some folks would agree with that, but that didn't work for me.

As someone who has been married 37 years, my plan is if she is gonna rip my arse about something, I go to the bar and get drunk. Then she is really mad so I don't have to listen to her for a few days. Then a few days later she will again speak to me with some respect, instead of treating me like an idiot.

What do you mean. You throw around a baseball and the one holding it can only speak?

That sounds idiotic....;p

Throw the baseball at each other while conversing. It kind of works out that we speak in turn becasue of the throwing but there is no rule about who is speaking.

I think the main idea is to be focused on each other and not getting hit in the head or having to run to fetch the ball.

All of the aggression is spent on the throws.

My husband tried this method, which resulted in a choice between the baseball method and divorce. :-)



Last Edited by SaltWaterTaffy on 10/29/2010 11:31 AM

I think you're cute. Can you get the glove and ball out for a session of catch and ask your hubby if you and me can hook up?

Thank you, but I won't do that. He's a good hubby.

I would just be tempted to just thrown it at him hard. It is not a good idea when I am mad to give me anything to throw.LOL

LOL Exactly

LOL!

I really like this idea.

Although with my ex I probably would have required Tommy John surgery by year 3, hehe...


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Today I would throw it at his nose....maybe not the best remedy for us. lol

That's what the gloves are for!

It's WAY safer than being in the house and wanting to throw lamps and whatnot!

I wouldn't trust myself with the baseball. If my husband pisses me off, I may 'miss' the glove.

Well, ok.

But if you ever change your mind.....

When I was married when we had "intense discussion" there was always a chance of gun play ... NEVER Marry a Red Head that was on the Olympic pistol team!