I guess I'm doing fine at 29 going on 30 as a male then.. since I've never really had an interest in partying nor have I had an interest in older women, I've been kind of stuck in waiting mode until I grow old enough to find women that I would vibe with to marry, not to screw and party with... but I don't think dating a woman who's spent her entire 20's clubbing is a good idea for a guy that is not into that sort of thing. Because that bar/club scene never really grows out of a person, they will always have that desire to do it, and with that comes encounters with lots of single men and the opportunity to trade up.

Plus a whole woman's personality changes after years of dealing with the type of men that frequent clubs. The solution is to try to find those few, maybe 10 percent, that are not into that stuff.