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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1186383 Canada 12/30/2010 04:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'll agree with you on egotistical, but I don't think he's evil in the slightest. Quoting: D's PetEvil presents itself in many forms. One does not have to have two horns, and be going on murdering sprees to be identified as such. Control, and expecting people to blindly obey your every order is a form of evil. This is a disorder. And by the way DP, you know I'm just expressing my opinion, I would never attack you personally, get verbally absuive or anything stupid like that. Never ever! I've told you hundreds of time, you are loved by me, no matter what, and I meant it He doesn't expect me to blindly obey. He expects blind faith and to use my good sense when it comes to obedience. His control thing is both a blessing and a curse. It makes him great at his job, and a good leader, but it also heaps him with responsibility. And no worries, I know we differ on this one. Blind faith? Like you should just have faith that he will lead you in the right direction always? Why? Is not a mere human who can and does make mistakes? Sounds like he has exalted himself as God, which of course he is not. And thanks, hon. You rock in that regards! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1051300 United States 12/30/2010 04:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | True. There are many people who for whatever reasons are unable to think thru the available choices they could make Quoting: Anonymous Coward 300884and the consequences for them AND their immediate circle which may include a spouse and children. They also have had fantasies all their lives and there are very few people who have NOT had fantasies. Some people go to a DOMME just for a thrill and to try to reach the heights of titillation and keep their spiritual issues to themselves. Othere NEED a mature guide to help them assess their lives and how to determine the best choices. They develop a parent/child relationship but when not in session are just good friends A well experienced Domme of Dom will draw out the stifled emotional issues and work them thru in the submission actions. The level of suffering is ALWAYS agreed on prior to play and the boundaries for both are set. Some dont even want any pain, just symbolism. Some do want pain and for those it is a personal trial each time to test their OWN boundaries. Some TOPS will not go into severe pain, others will only if they know the submissive well and the psychological state of that sub. YES there are those who do not abide by the RULE of BDSM-D/s and those are dangerous to get involved with The RULE is SAFE,SANE,CONSENSUAL. All my subs have to think of their fav fantasy and what punishments are appropriate, write it all down and bring a copy to Me. I read it back to that one and consent is reached as to the punishments and levels of pain before we proceed. A safe word is offered. The last few years most refuse any safe word, part of their personal testing. As an experienced TOP I keep a close eye on muscle movements perspiration, breathing , so when a sub is trying to go deeper and I think its far enough I can gracefully stop without embarrassing it. "it"? Interesting choice of words... Always there is a Q&A period to make sure what was felt, and direction we went and where it "it"? Interesting choice of words... feels it "it"? Interesting choice of words... needs to go next time. This is of great benefit to BOTH the TOP and the bottom Any other play can be abuse. It is up to BOTH players to be cautious about who we play with. In 20 years I have never had a bad actor as a sub. Good judgement and vetting works just fine. For those who know little or nothing about the lifestyle to be passing judgement is silly and intolerant We dont tell you how to have fun with your GF BF or spouse so why must you tell us how to play with consenting partners? This "consenting" is a very weak defence for evil, since most people can be manipulated and pushed into consenting with almost anything by a skilled enough manipulator. And the fact you keep referring to your 'consenting partner' as "it" speaks volumes about the relationship... A manipulator is abusing the manipulatee. The fact he or she has manipulated the victim into "consenting" changes nothing. Repeating what you dont understand shows your ignorance not any failure of the form of play many enjoy In our language a sub gives up its identity when it enters into the play male or female it becomes an "it" this is our language you seem to be stuck on being stuck for want of the knowledge to be able to debate the topic subs seek out TOPS and beg to be taken as subs no one grabs them off the street and forces them into subjugation no one is manipulated into seeking except in YOUR fantasies I know some fine quality Doms to help you to explore those fantasies it seems to fall into the 'kidnapped' scenario you are unable to accept this consensual part so you are ill equipped to give and value to the discussion other than your OPINION which of course, has NO value to those of us who have no guilt around our life choices go stand in the corner for two hours and then write what refusing to accept others life choices makes you I DID mention intolerance...... . |
D's Pet (OP) User ID: 1211529 United States 12/30/2010 04:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He doesn't expect me to blindly obey. He expects blind faith and to use my good sense when it comes to obedience. His control thing is both a blessing and a curse. It makes him great at his job, and a good leader, but it also heaps him with responsibility. Quoting: Smoulderin'GalAnd no worries, I know we differ on this one. Blind faith? Like you should just have faith that he will lead you in the right direction always? Why? Is not a mere human who can and does make mistakes? Sounds like he has exalted himself as God, which of course he is not. And thanks, hon. You rock in that regards! He expects blind faith that his intentions are good and that he honestly has the family's best interest at heart. Blind faith in his love and commitment, much like he has for me in that regard. He doesn't expect anyone to believe he's always right, because god know, he isn't. He wants me to have faith in him, in us- not to expect that he'll walk on water. The good news is that, according to the Obama administration, the rich will pay for everything. The bad news is that, according to the Obama administration, you're rich. ~P. J. O'Rourke |
D's Pet (OP) User ID: 1211529 United States 12/30/2010 04:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Repeating what you dont understand shows your ignorance Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1051300not any failure of the form of play many enjoy In our language a sub gives up its identity when it enters into the play male or female it becomes an "it" this is our language you seem to be stuck on being stuck for want of the knowledge to be able to debate the topic subs seek out TOPS and beg to be taken as subs no one grabs them off the street and forces them into subjugation no one is manipulated into seeking except in YOUR fantasies I know some fine quality Doms to help you to explore those fantasies it seems to fall into the 'kidnapped' scenario you are unable to accept this consensual part so you are ill equipped to give and value to the discussion other than your OPINION which of course, has NO value to those of us who have no guilt around our life choices go stand in the corner for two hours and then write what refusing to accept others life choices makes you I DID mention intolerance...... Maybe because I don't do the whole "play with others" thing, I am off base, but the "it" thing kind of squicks me. The good news is that, according to the Obama administration, the rich will pay for everything. The bad news is that, according to the Obama administration, you're rich. ~P. J. O'Rourke |
Tali User ID: 1018633 United States 12/30/2010 04:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He doesn't expect me to blindly obey. He expects blind faith and to use my good sense when it comes to obedience. His control thing is both a blessing and a curse. It makes him great at his job, and a good leader, but it also heaps him with responsibility. Quoting: D's PetAnd no worries, I know we differ on this one. Blind faith? Like you should just have faith that he will lead you in the right direction always? Why? Is not a mere human who can and does make mistakes? Sounds like he has exalted himself as God, which of course he is not. And thanks, hon. You rock in that regards! He expects blind faith that his intentions are good and that he honestly has the family's best interest at heart. Blind faith in his love and commitment, much like he has for me in that regard. He doesn't expect anyone to believe he's always right, because god know, he isn't. He wants me to have faith in him, in us- not to expect that he'll walk on water. Thats gotta keep the "spark" going ya know... Our perfect companions never have fewer than four feet. ~Colette |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1051300 United States 12/30/2010 04:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do you guys realize what a tremendous amount of responsibility a dom has? This is why a good dom is hard to find...I bet there are a TON of posers out there... Quoting: D's PetDang thats OT again huh lol...nvm Yeppers there is a huge difference from being a Dom and being just an asshole. .... No kidding. He may be way dominant, but he's the consumate gentleman. No kidding. He may be way dominant, but he's the consumate gentleman. Many of the most intelligent and emotionally well rounded people I have known were Doms. They have had to learn about their own inner being and grow to understand those who put their trust in them. Yes there are some very nasty and dangerous ones abut but again its a matter of using good judgement and vetting ones friends and acquaintances AND play partners As a TOP I meet Doms on an equal level so we can talk as people sans the games of power that are the underpinnings of most relationships. Some of the best psychologists I have known are Doms and Dommes. we take our responsibility seriously and hold dear the truism that we learn as much if not more than our charges. We feel blessed to be able to explore and grow as humans while having fun being creative and dramatic. You have a good TOP for a husband, If that were not what you need you would not have attracted that so enjoy and "be grateful!" u kno. . |
D's Pet (OP) User ID: 1211529 United States 12/30/2010 04:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have a good TOP for a husband, If that were not what Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1051300you need you would not have attracted that so enjoy and "be grateful!" u kno. I am grateful, every day. Even the bad days. LOL The good news is that, according to the Obama administration, the rich will pay for everything. The bad news is that, according to the Obama administration, you're rich. ~P. J. O'Rourke |
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D's Pet (OP) User ID: 1211529 United States 12/30/2010 05:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He doesn't expect me to blindly obey. He expects blind faith and to use my good sense when it comes to obedience. His control thing is both a blessing and a curse. It makes him great at his job, and a good leader, but it also heaps him with responsibility. Quoting: TaliAnd no worries, I know we differ on this one. Blind faith? Like you should just have faith that he will lead you in the right direction always? Why? Is not a mere human who can and does make mistakes? Sounds like he has exalted himself as God, which of course he is not. And thanks, hon. You rock in that regards! He expects blind faith that his intentions are good and that he honestly has the family's best interest at heart. Blind faith in his love and commitment, much like he has for me in that regard. He doesn't expect anyone to believe he's always right, because god know, he isn't. He wants me to have faith in him, in us- not to expect that he'll walk on water. Thats gotta keep the "spark" going ya know... It does. Even when I'm doubting, or down, or overwhelmed, I have this amazing man who tells me everything is going to be OK. And he believes it. And he makes it so. How can you not love that? The good news is that, according to the Obama administration, the rich will pay for everything. The bad news is that, according to the Obama administration, you're rich. ~P. J. O'Rourke |
D's Pet (OP) User ID: 1211529 United States 12/30/2010 05:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm just shocked no one came into this thread telling one of you ladies to go get them a sammich. Quoting: J-RicoI'm kinda disappointed in AC's today. Speaking of, I have chicken soup to get started. I finally broke down and admitted that I have a cold. The good news is that, according to the Obama administration, the rich will pay for everything. The bad news is that, according to the Obama administration, you're rich. ~P. J. O'Rourke |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1051300 United States 12/30/2010 05:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Repeating what you dont understand shows your ignorance Quoting: D's Petnot any failure of the form of play many enjoy In our language a sub gives up its identity when it enters into the play male or female it becomes an "it" this is our language you seem to be stuck on being stuck for want of the knowledge to be able to debate the topic subs seek out TOPS and beg to be taken as subs no one grabs them off the street and forces them into subjugation no one is manipulated into seeking except in YOUR fantasies I know some fine quality Doms to help you to explore those fantasies it seems to fall into the 'kidnapped' scenario you are unable to accept this consensual part so you are ill equipped to give and value to the discussion other than your OPINION which of course, has NO value to those of us who have no guilt around our life choices go stand in the corner for two hours and then write what refusing to accept others life choices makes you I DID mention intolerance...... ................. Maybe because I don't do the whole "play with others" thing, I am off base, but the "it" thing kind of squicks me. Maybe because I don't do the whole "play with others" thing, I am off base, but the "it" thing kind of squicks me. If you have never been to the Munches or play parties to associate with many people who are in various levels of the life style you have not been exposed to the common words usage and rules of conduct understandable ask your Dom if he will allow you to read some chat rooms where subs gather and discuss their needs you will find you are quite normal and many adhere to a specified pattern of behavior subs chatting with subs by the rules of BDSM I cannot tell you to do this as that would be an insult to your TOP but I have suggested He allow you to visit sub chats and find that subs wish to be only an "it" and you can learn some new ways to please your TOP :D . |
Tali User ID: 1018633 United States 12/30/2010 05:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm just shocked no one came into this thread telling one of you ladies to go get them a sammich. Quoting: D's PetI'm kinda disappointed in AC's today. Speaking of, I have chicken soup to get started. I finally broke down and admitted that I have a cold. Boil the bones...something in the marrow helps your immune system... Our perfect companions never have fewer than four feet. ~Colette |
Richard Eldritch User ID: 1208674 United Kingdom 12/30/2010 05:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He doesn't expect me to blindly obey. He expects blind faith and to use my good sense when it comes to obedience. His control thing is both a blessing and a curse. It makes him great at his job, and a good leader, but it also heaps him with responsibility. Quoting: D's PetAnd no worries, I know we differ on this one. Blind faith? Like you should just have faith that he will lead you in the right direction always? Why? Is not a mere human who can and does make mistakes? Sounds like he has exalted himself as God, which of course he is not. And thanks, hon. You rock in that regards! He expects blind faith that his intentions are good and that he honestly has the family's best interest at heart. Blind faith in his love and commitment, much like he has for me in that regard. He doesn't expect anyone to believe he's always right, because god know, he isn't. He wants me to have faith in him, in us- not to expect that he'll walk on water. Thats gotta keep the "spark" going ya know... It does. Even when I'm doubting, or down, or overwhelmed, I have this amazing man who tells me everything is going to be OK. And he believes it. And he makes it so. How can you not love that? And when your feeling down you can watch some poor women getting her tits nailed to a plank or maybe a good old hanging with meat hooks! Classy..... HUSSAR! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1051300 United States 12/30/2010 05:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have a good TOP for a husband, If that were not what Quoting: D's Petyou need you would not have attracted that so enjoy and "be grateful!" u kno. ......... I am grateful, every day. Even the bad days. LOL I am grateful, every day. Even the bad days. LOL ha ha ha I am sure you are but that "be grateful!" u kno. was a code message do visit a sub chat room you will have a really good time learning so many tips to make life more interesting for both of you ! make sure you ask His permission first :D . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1186383 Canada 12/30/2010 05:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He doesn't expect me to blindly obey. He expects blind faith and to use my good sense when it comes to obedience. His control thing is both a blessing and a curse. It makes him great at his job, and a good leader, but it also heaps him with responsibility. Quoting: D's PetAnd no worries, I know we differ on this one. Blind faith? Like you should just have faith that he will lead you in the right direction always? Why? Is not a mere human who can and does make mistakes? Sounds like he has exalted himself as God, which of course he is not. And thanks, hon. You rock in that regards! He expects blind faith that his intentions are good and that he honestly has the family's best interest at heart. Blind faith in his love and commitment, much like he has for me in that regard. He doesn't expect anyone to believe he's always right, because god know, he isn't. He wants me to have faith in him, in us- not to expect that he'll walk on water. Hehe, that was funny. M, if he starts walking on water, healing the sick, or raising the dead, I am so going to eat my words, lol Seriously though, I do understand what you're saying. And I do believe that he believes that he has your best interests at heart. Sometimes people just don't realize it when they are doing wrong, it's not intentional, that's what I think it going on here. And this is only my opinion, far be it from to say that I am 100% right, because only God can claim that. I wish you luck, and ask you to excercise wisdom. If something 'feels' very wrong, then don't be afraid to voice it. You are an important individual, and your feelings should never be swept under the rug. Don't let anyone tell you, you are second best |
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][nƒ³RnªL User ID: 769770 Puerto Rico 12/30/2010 05:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm just shocked no one came into this thread telling one of you ladies to go get them a sammich. Quoting: J-RicoI'm kinda disappointed in AC's today. I did,.... sorta Theories: Misconceptions awaiting confirmation of incorrectness. Everything is subject to continually changing variables, leaving nothing to remain as a constant.]D)one!!!! :nfrnl1111: |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1051300 United States 12/30/2010 05:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Jeffrey Dahmer wasn't a known Domme. Quoting: Nikki_LaVeyMost pro Dommes/Dominas belong to certain associations and/or clubs their reputations are known. Fuck off. You have no Honour. Dear I use to feel just like you about these things. The first submissive I met I wanted so much to rescue her. It took me a long time to understand this type of scene or why people wanted to be treated like that. Although I avoid the real extreme people I do get it now. She has been with this guy for 20 years. She doesn't know how to get out, I feel sorry for her. Like a puppy that has been beat and kicked but, keeps coming back. She doesn't want or need to get out. I know you don't understand that and I didn't for a long time. There are far more submissives in this world that Dominates. She doesn't want or need to get out. I know you don't understand that and I didn't for a long time. There are far more submissives in this world that Dominates. True. There are many people who for whatever reasons are unable to think thru the available choices they could make and the consequences for them AND their immediate circle which may include a spouse and children. They also have had fantasies all their lives and there are very few people who have NOT had fantasies. Some people go to a DOMME just for a thrill and to try to reach the heights of titillation and keep their spiritual issues to themselves. Othere NEED a mature guide to help them assess their lives and how to determine the best choices. They develop a parent/child relationship but when not in session are just good friends A well experienced Domme of Dom will draw out the stifled emotional issues and work them thru in the submission actions. The level of suffering is ALWAYS agreed on prior to play and the boundaries for both are set. Some dont even want any pain, just symbolism. Some do want pain and for those it is a personal trial each time to test their OWN boundaries. Some TOPS will not go into severe pain, others will only if they know the submissive well and the psychological state of that sub. YES there are those who do not abide by the RULE of BDSM-D/s and those are dangerous to get involved with The RULE is SAFE,SANE,CONSENSUAL. All my subs have to think of their fav fantasy and what punishments are appropriate, write it all down and bring a copy to Me. I read it back to that one and consent is reached as to the punishments and levels of pain before we proceed. A safe word is offered. The last few years most refuse any safe word, part of their personal testing. As an experienced TOP I keep a close eye on muscle movements perspiration, breathing , so when a sub is trying to go deeper and I think its far enough I can gracefully stop without embarrassing it. Always there is a Q&A period to make sure what was felt, and direction we went and where it feels it needs to go next time. This is of great benefit to BOTH the TOP and the bottom Any other play can be abuse. It is up to BOTH players to be cautious about who we play with. In 20 years I have never had a bad actor as a sub. Good judgement and vetting works just fine. For those who know little or nothing about the lifestyle to be passing judgement is silly and intolerant We dont tell you how to have fun with your GF BF or spouse so why must you tell us how to play with consenting partners? . Very well put and I can tell your the real deal. Very well put and I can tell your the real deal. Thanks Niki somehow I get to say that about once a year You have walked the walk also, ;) s .. |
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J-Rico User ID: 1116423 United States 12/30/2010 05:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [nƒ³RnªL] Quoting: TaliI'm just shocked no one came into this thread telling one of you ladies to go get them a sammich. I'm kinda disappointed in AC's today. I did,.... sorta Go hunt me some deer MAN!!! Is this like a Centaur? Everyone dies, but not everyone lives. :moranrico::Rico::moranrico: |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1051300 United States 12/30/2010 05:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | between you an me op there aint a man born that would forbid me something Quoting: Romulus.. LOL, you sound like the original female progenitor, EVE!! take a bite of that apple dear... LOL, you sound like the original female progenitor, EVE!! take a bite of that apple dear... while the title of this thread is Let's Talk Feminism it veered over to Fetish life and the OP says thats ok with her so here I ask if all this converse with OP and her views were being spoken by a MALE would you feel the same?? Most of My subs are male but sometimes a female Most Doms accept either male or female some restrict to one gender Some of us accept transgendered subs and CDs so if you can remove the thought that this woman, Dantes Pet, is being GENDER ABUSED and realize it has nothing to do with gender but everything to do with being a natural submissive you might enjoy a EUREKA flash. Yo. . |
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SaltWaterTaffy User ID: 1066095 United States 12/30/2010 05:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is what I don't understand and maybe someone could help me sort it out: To me, if someone wants to be really hurt or really scared mentally or physically, it's is because they are in some kind of emotional or psychological pain. The same for someone who wants to injure or humiliate someone else. I'm probably wrong on this very first assumption - I'm not a psychologist - but it seems like even having these desires, let alone acting on them, is a way of dealing with deep psychological issues. Is giving in to that helpful? It is healing or is it just an expression of this pain that has no other outlet? I don't see how it can be healing or affirming. It seems like it would compound the pain. Thanks. :SWT name: When the shit hits the fan and the end is quite nigh, will you cry out to heaven? Will you lay down and die? Not me, my dear ones. This is my sacred life. To no one or no thing I'll surrender. For how does one know where when dead he will go, or if sweet mother Earth she'll remember? |
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][nƒ³RnªL User ID: 769770 Puerto Rico 12/30/2010 05:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go hunt me some deer MAN!!! Quoting: TaliI'll have deer eatin in the front yard (had 4 turkeys few days ago) when ya ready,.... Now bout makin me a pie,.... Theories: Misconceptions awaiting confirmation of incorrectness. Everything is subject to continually changing variables, leaving nothing to remain as a constant.]D)one!!!! :nfrnl1111: |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 300884 Sweden 12/30/2010 05:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Repeating what you dont understand shows your ignorance Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1051300not any failure of the form of play many enjoy In our language a sub gives up its identity when it enters into the play male or female it becomes an "it" this is our language Of course it is. And it's very symptomatic. To be an "it" is to be dehumanized. It is to be disempowered. And since that's precisely the game you people are playing, it comes as no surprise you would use this word this way. The fact "it is your language" does not change anything - it is still BAD language. When Marines dehumanize Arabs by calling them "sand blacks", so they won't feel bad about killing them, they are also only using "their language". you seem to be stuck on being stuck for want of the Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1051300knowledge to be able to debate the topic subs seek out TOPS and beg to be taken as subs no one grabs them off the street and forces them into subjugation no one is manipulated into seeking except in YOUR fantasies I know some fine quality Doms to help you to explore those fantasies it seems to fall into the 'kidnapped' scenario Thanks for the offer, especially since "good doms" are supposedly hard to find. But I really do not need your services in this regard. My sexual fantasies do not involve pain or restraint, not dealing it, and not receiving it. you are unable to accept this consensual part so you are ill equipped to give and value to the discussion other than your OPINION which of course, has NO value to those of us who have no guilt around our life choices Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1051300The human mind is a strange thing... I have already stated most humans can be manipulated into practically anything, so "consenting" doesn't necessarily mean much. (I say most, because a few of us are more resilient.) Another thing is, not everyone even seeks good experiences in the first place, because many people are traumatized in various ways, and will actively seek out negative experiences, because their damaged psyche feels they deserve no better. But just because someone BEGS you to abuse them, doesn't mean it isn't a very bad thing to do it even so. Someone who has for instance been raped by their father as a child may WANT you to treat them bad, because of negative programming in their psyche, but that doesn't mean it's OK to do so. These people need HELP, not being further taken advantage of. They need help to REBUILD, not to be further broken down and dehumanized into an "it" that is being tortured on a rack. And if you actually get off on torturing people, you have a psychological disorder that you should choose to restrain, not indulge in. It is not merely a "lifestyle choice" as valid as any other, it is a MORAL CHOICE. It is about what you wish to be and become. The desire you FEED will GROW. WHY would FEEDING your desire to torture people or be tortured be a good thing? go stand in the corner for two hours and then write what Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1051300refusing to accept others life choices makes you I am NOT a sub, and I will NOT go stand in the corner for two hours just because you say so. Astonishing as it may seem to you, it isn't my deepest inner desire to be your slave. Why? I'm not damaged goods! My psyche does not crave humiliation! I am not afraid of power, so that I wish to give mine away! I am (relatively speaking) of a healthy mind. I DID mention intolerance...... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1051300Absolutely. I'm extremely "intolerant". In fact, I think "tolerance" is one of the most evil scams going on nowadays. Much evil happens under protection of this "tolerance". GOOD. EVIL. You should contemplate the meaning of those two words. The fact is Evil wants Good to be "tolerant", so that Evil gets free reign to do as it pleases. |