If you dreamt of having sex with another person who is same gender as you, does that mean that you are gay and not even realizing it?

Oh, you realize it, alright.

Plenty of people are bi to some degree. If a man and a woman
are walking around in bathing suits, who do you notice first?
That is likely your primary orientation.

yep

I dont agree with that.
If youre man:
First, men are statistically higher than woman, so you eyes may first notice bigger object.
Second, your genetic instincts may force you first notice man as potential aggresor or competittor.

Yes!!..Your Gay

It means you have been entered by a gay entity (as many have) who is trying to live off of your life energy. Reject ANY entity that tries to stay in you, or suffer their influence!

Lil' bit...

No, people dream weird stuff all the time and dream they are doing stuff they would never do in real life. If you dream you are a circus clown, does that mean you long to actually be one in real life? No.

Don't listen 2 this homophobic & possibly religious nutbar. I am gay, and there is nothing wrong gays. its nutjobs like Anonymous Coward, who make us gays sound bad! To Anonymous Coward: Shut ur homophobic mouth.

No. It doesn't mean you are anything. You already know what your orientation is. If naked guys excite you, you are gay. If naked girls excite you, you are hetero. If both, you are bi. Don't pay too much attention to a dream, or to idiot homophobes that talk a lot of nonsense.

Nah. Think of your dreams as your subconscious just clearing out the ol' mental filing cabinet. Some strange stuff gets mixed up in there, doesn't necessarily mean a thing.

Even conscious fantasies don't mean that much. I have some pretty damned kinky fantasies, but it doesn't mean I want to actually DO them in real life. Just means it's fun to think about. ;-)

Do you look at someone of the same gender and think, 'Wow, I'd love to hit that!' No? Then you aren't gay. If you do think that now and then, you might be bi, or at least bi-curious. No big deal.

Just dont worry about it too much man.

I'd wager most people are bi to some extent.

It's just a matter of the walls men build up due to illusions of masculinity.

If I've only dreamed about killing people, it doesn't make me a murderer.

That doesn't necessarily mean most people would date a guy.
But when it comes to sex, and fun - anything is possible with the right person.

Girls are much more willing to (admit) they've experimented at one point, where a lot of guys have but would never, ever admit it. Just like a lot of gay guys will go with a girl at one point, whether it be kissing or whatever.

It's all a facade, sexuality isn't something that is as linear and black & white as some used to believe. It's a spectrum.

Your orientation is the direction you chose to take.

A sexually confident straight male can't help to notice that the woman gets a lot of pleasure from him. Even more pleasure than he gets from her. Being able to recognise this is what gives him his confidence.

So if you see that the girl giving you the blowjob is having an even more intense time giving than you are receiving and you know this is true, that doesn't make you gay. You are still the guy getting the blowjob from the girl, which means you are straight...

...but what you have seen may haunt your dreams.

pics or it didnt happen....

To answer your question with a question :-
If you dream about murdering people does that make you a murderer?

if there was cock anywhere near your ass or mouth... you're a fag.. period.

and vice versa.

But there isn't any 'choice' to it. If you're honestly 100% straight, or gay then it'd be a natural physiological reflex as to who you get aroused by... choosing whether or not to act on something, if you get 'aroused' by the thoughts or dreams ... to me hints of suppression. Which is fair enough, and is a choice ... but it still means those feels are inside of you, just you've decided not to act on them.

What if some Lezbo dreams of sucking dick and taking a real one up the ass? Is she now hetero, but doesn't know it?

No not at all, but if she found herself aroused during the dream, maybe she's suppressing curiosity.

Again, why do idiots continue to think the issue of sexuality is so black and white.

You should note your feelings of the dream. Were your feelings of sexual excitement in the dream of homosexual/lesbian encounter, then yes, you have strong homosexual/lesbian tendancies.

Know thyself.

Come on now, we are talking sex here. The answer to this one requires the question be asked in another way.....

How many of you heterosexuals ever had a dream of having sex with another that has the same junk as you?

I think OP is in the closet and does not realize it. Big dirty sweaty balls, and a hairy feces filled corn hole does not appeal to me at any level.

It's okay OP, you are in good company at GLP.

Lighten up Francis.

And the OP might be female. I have a feeling that will make a difference to you.

Sigmund Freud said that all dreams are a form of wish fulfillment. He also believed that ancient ancestors were most likely one species, in other words hermaphroditic,having both male and female organs and somehow over time became two separate species. (Hermaprodites are still around today, so it is in our genetic inheritance somewhere)
His analysis of Leonardo Da Vinci is very interesting. His usual claim of Motherly attraction and lack of father presence is cause for homosexual attraction based on the lack of a fatherly image.
Dreams are attempts to resolve small issues, not necessarily connected and his analysis techniques were attempts to explain that they were based on thoughts or impressions on the mind or experiences during the day.

scrump?

Only if the balls touched.

LOL!

We all have fantisies... you might tink of slapping someone but you would NEVER NEVER DO IT!.

It is just ENERGY that you are expressing in your thoughts.

We all have IMAGINATION...

Somewhere... I am sure ALL THOUGHTs are real...

We express it... in the emotion within us.. or we take action and express in DOING IT...

BUT.. the energy is still expressed.

Perhaps we are no longer ANIMALS the moment we CHOOSE WISELY what we will TAKE ACTION and EXPRESS.

Imagination FIRES the mind and body with SEX... so we all have used our imagination while in the heat of sex.

Nothing wierd about it.. unless you JUDGE what you THINK>

The last question of the soul... ALL THINGS are good enought for GOD.... and are not to be judged.

Judgement of SELF... is the TRUE LAW of the land. NOt what other THINK ABOUT YOU.

SO MAKE PEACE BROTHER with ALL THINGS YOU ARE... the good bad and ugly.