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the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you

 
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Is there someone in your life who likes to spew all sorts of speculations over your person? Do they constantly assume countless things about you?

Well, it's their subconscious trying to make you create a mental image of yourself that is in conflict with who you really are.

Once the so-called speculator can sense that you have this positive 'image' of yourself, then they will try to create an opposing (negative) image to create some sort of mental conflict in you, thus impairing your self-confidence and causing you to become confused about who you are and what are your desires. They are trying to influence you into having doubts about yourself.

See how it only takes hearing or reading the phrase 'pink elephant' to have a pink elephant impressed in your mind. This will of course depend on where your attention is at the moment and how impenetrable your mind is, but still this applies to the majority.

When people paint this horrifying picture of you and you let it enter your mind, then even if only for one second you have this doubt about yourself -> about who you want to be and what are your goals. You have to understand that they don't really care if what they are saying about you is true / factual; all they care about is with the implications that their words will have on your psyche, thus allowing them to control your mind and influence your behavior. Arguing with them is useless because they could not care less about the factuality of their assertions.

The confusion they cause in your mind works as gateway for them to exert control over you -- where there is doubt there is weakness. Where there is fear, there is room for control.

Remember: no one has the right to tell you who you are. Only you know who you really are.

Last Edited by gus. on 02/13/2011 09:01 PM
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
Having issues gus?
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OP = Sounds like a cry for help.
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
What a surprise (not) that the first two replies are speculating over my person.

take note guys....
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Very good op. Understanding this manipulation is key to freeing yourself from it.
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
They are trying to influence you into having doubts about yourself.

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so true OP!!!
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This is the best thing I've read on GLP.

So true OP. Very true.
verycoolhf
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I have someone in my life that has done that forever to me. I no longer go around them and hardly ever talk to them. I just finally said, "enough" and walked away.
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Or it could be that they have a low self esteem and to put others down props themselves up
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What a surprise (not) that the first two replies are speculating over my person.

take note guys....
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Nah. They're just projecting their insecurities and shit onto you.

I made this thread my personal pin. Keep up the gold info OP.
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Yep. You can't let other ppl bring you down. Be who you want to be and who you were meant to be. I hate when ppl assume things about others, especially when they don't even know you that well.

Judge not, and don't listen when others try to judge you because only you know whats best for yourself.
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I have seen this countless times with various people and you describe it very well. My question is....what is the reason why people so desperately need control over a fellow human being? WTF is their problem???
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I have seen this countless times with various people and you describe it very well. My question is....what is the reason why people so desperately need control over a fellow human being? WTF is their problem???
 Quoting: Salaama


To feel powerful. Because they're weak internally so they'll try to control the external in order to fulfill the gap.
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That's crazy i was just reading about this before i got on here....thx!!!!
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I have seen this countless times with various people and you describe it very well. My question is....what is the reason why people so desperately need control over a fellow human being? WTF is their problem???
 Quoting: Salaama


when you can't control yourself, the avenue of 'controlling others' becomes attractive because not only it's easier but it also offers escape from the responsibility of achieving control over yourself. It's sort of a procrastinating activity that you engage in before finally deciding to take up the main task, which is most difficult.
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Sounds like my girlfriend.

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I do agree with what you have stated OP... Job well done.

Although,

These subconscious minds that criticize are also doubting themselves and painting out their beliefs to manipulate your thoughts into believing theirs.

Projecting emotions like a reflection in a mirror.

Insecurities at it's finest.
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I dunno about all the possible real reasons but I feel that the person that has done it to me is insecure. It is a way of making themselves feel better. They constantly tear down other people, their possessions, clothes, etc, down. Pitiful.
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So if anybody criticizes you,is in the wrong.
smart post,win win situation.
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So if anybody criticizes you,is in the wrong.
smart post,win win situation.
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If they are criticizing my work and at the same time offering an alternative / better solution, then there is nothing wrong with it.

But the theme of this thread is about those spineless critiques (accusations) that add nothing to solve the problem, even when I know that I'm the culprit. That's when you know that the person is set on affecting your emotional balance and not on helping with improving your work.

Last Edited by gus. on 02/13/2011 08:57 PM
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maybe its just me.. but I dont think this is how it works gus.

In my understanding of it, if you are feeling judged most likely the judgments are true in some fashion, you just dont want to see that aspect of yourself. Otherwise it wouldnt be echoing back to you.
Also, if you are judging others, you have the same quality too. You may not manifest the quality in the same way, but the energy is the same.
Its all about the relationship with the self. Others are just there to show you who you are.
This is easier to understand when you relax the idea of there being a right and wrong way to be.
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5 stars op. there are billions led this way over multiple channels in your mind from health, wealth, media, information, what you think you know everything... good one
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
I have seen this countless times with various people and you describe it very well. My question is....what is the reason why people so desperately need control over a fellow human being? WTF is their problem???
 Quoting: Salaama



I have been asking this question all my life and I still don't know the answer.
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I have seen this countless times with various people and you describe it very well. My question is....what is the reason why people so desperately need control over a fellow human being? WTF is their problem???
 Quoting: Salaama



I have been asking this question all my life and I still don't know the answer.
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There ssomething about you they fear.
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maybe its just me.. but I dont think this is how it works gus.

In my understanding of it, if you are feeling judged most likely the judgments are true in some fashion, you just dont want to see that aspect of yourself. Otherwise it wouldnt be echoing back to you.
Also, if you are judging others, you have the same quality too. You may not manifest the quality in the same way, but the energy is the same.
Its all about the relationship with the self. Others are just there to show you who you are.
This is easier to understand when you relax the idea of there being a right and wrong way to be.
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This applies only when we actually give in to the temptation of arguing with the person about the stuff they put out. If we become all defensive and emotional, that's only because we are also guilty somehow.

But sometimes we are perfectly OK with ourselves and suddenly you have this miserable person trying to bring you down. There is no 'aspect of ourselves' to be acknowledge in this case. It's just plain nastiness of their part.

We all have issues to resolve. But I don't want people throwing it at my face all the time; I want solutions.

Last Edited by gus. on 02/13/2011 09:38 PM
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You down = me up?

An exception: since seeing yourself is the hardest thing, input from someone who is loving can be quite helpful.
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This is the best thing I've read on GLP.

So true OP. Very true.
verycoolhf
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+1 - well written.
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I found this out a while ago. My cousins mostly do this since they were easily jealous and competitive with each other. It used to bother me but now I just simply cut ties and block them from my life. Even if they are my cousins, anyone that attempts to do this sort of thing is my enemy.





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