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the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you

 
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maybe its just me.. but I dont think this is how it works gus.

In my understanding of it, if you are feeling judged most likely the judgments are true in some fashion, you just dont want to see that aspect of yourself. Otherwise it wouldnt be echoing back to you.
Also, if you are judging others, you have the same quality too. You may not manifest the quality in the same way, but the energy is the same.
Its all about the relationship with the self. Others are just there to show you who you are.
This is easier to understand when you relax the idea of there being a right and wrong way to be.
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This applies only when we actually give in to the temptation of arguing with the person about the stuff they put out. If we become all defensive and emotional, that's only because we are also guilty somehow.

But sometimes we are perfectly OK with ourselves and suddenly you have this miserable person trying to bring you down. There is no 'aspect of ourselves' to be acknowledge in this case. It's just plain nastiness of their part.

We all have issues to resolve. But I don't want people throwing it at my face all the time; I want solutions.
 Quoting: gus.


Nah. They're just projecting their insecurities and shit onto you.

I made this thread my personal pin. Keep up the gold info OP.
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Yep. You can't let other ppl bring you down. Be who you want to be and who you were meant to be. I hate when ppl assume things about others, especially when they don't even know you that well.

Judge not, and don't listen when others try to judge you because only you know whats best for yourself.
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Dear friends,

If you can block these three attacks, used by all of Science, Religions and Law, then you are free.

Guilt
Fear
Doubt

It's that simple.
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
They are trying to influence you into having doubts about yourself.

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so true OP!!!
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
Where there is doubt there is weakness. Where there is fear, there is room for control.

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When you can't control yourself, the avenue of 'controlling others' becomes attractive because not only it's easier but it also offers escape from the responsibility of achieving control over yourself.
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ABSOLUTELY PERFECT.
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Antidote is to send thoughts of peace. Remove yourself from the situation/person if needed. Send thoughts of peace.
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
maybe its just me.. but I dont think this is how it works gus.

In my understanding of it, if you are feeling judged most likely the judgments are true in some fashion, you just dont want to see that aspect of yourself. Otherwise it wouldnt be echoing back to you.
Also, if you are judging others, you have the same quality too. You may not manifest the quality in the same way, but the energy is the same.
Its all about the relationship with the self. Others are just there to show you who you are.
This is easier to understand when you relax the idea of there being a right and wrong way to be.
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He just said even when he knows that he is in the wrong. It's the person who feeds off of another's misery. They knock you down with every chance usually when other people are around and when you do make a mistake they make sure everyone knows it. When your not around they try and sway other peoples opinions about you.

All usually with a laugh and a smile
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
That's bs often times people will call you names not for your reaction but to get everyone else against you.

Your not just having to deal with one slanderous man but a whole army and.fictionalized tale against you continually breeding more hate associating it with my persona and name. Im the only one covertly psyopped like this and yet its out in the
open
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
Is there someone in your life who likes to spew all sorts of speculations over your person? Do they constantly assume countless things about you?

Well, it's their subconscious trying to make you create a mental image of yourself that is in conflict with who you really are.

Once the so-called speculator can sense that you have this positive 'image' of yourself, then they will try to create an opposing (negative) image to create some sort of mental conflict in you, thus impairing your self-confidence and causing you to become confused about who you are and what are your desires. They are trying to influence you into having doubts about yourself.

See how it only takes hearing or reading the phrase 'pink elephant' to have a pink elephant impressed in your mind. This will of course depend on where your attention is at the moment and how impenetrable your mind is, but still this applies to the majority.

When people paint this horrifying picture of you and you let it enter your mind, then even if only for one second you have this doubt about yourself -> about who you want to be and what are your goals. You have to understand that they don't really care if what they are saying about you is true / factual; all they care about is with the implications that their words will have on your psyche, thus allowing them to control your mind and influence your behavior. Arguing with them is useless because they could not care less about the factuality of their assertions.

The confusion they cause in your mind works as gateway for them to exert control over you -- where there is doubt there is weakness. Where there is fear, there is room for control.

Remember: no one has the right to tell you who you are. Only you know who you really are.
 Quoting: gus.


Thank you so much for this..hf
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
What a surprise (not) that the first two replies are speculating over my person.

take note guys....
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You are right, Gus. People do that stuff.

I've been on the receiving end of so much of it in my life that I have learned to ignore it - sometimes to my detriment, because I don't react or respond to the subtler implications, and bystanders might assume they are true because I let such things slide by.

They can do it subtly by loading one accusation with others, and when you try to deal with whichever one, they get you debating about that so much that you never get to go back and address the others. Bystanders heard you accused of 2 or 3 things, but they will only remember you denying one of them.

You get a bad feeling about the kind of people who do those kinds of things.
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
Yes, OP. It is the weakness of the one who is trying to bring you down.

What to do:
Smile, and while chuckling, say "What?" with half-rolled eyes.
This is hint one.

If they keep doing it right away, or later:
Look them right in the eye, and tell them: "Look, if you have to talk that way, with negativity, every time I see you, just don't talk to me." And mean it.

Solved.
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
In psych terms it's called projection. If some one accuses u , and it is something u never even considered they r projecting themselves on to u. The good news is now u know what u r dealing with
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Re: the real reason why some people like to criticize and judge you
I have a sister who has always been critical and judgemental. No doubt that she is also a control freak.
I finally had enough of her energy draining drama and lies about 8 years ago. Best move I made except I should have left the state. Currently working on it.....





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