damn dude, you're my new hero.

I dont have the balls to divorce my fat wife -- afraid of what that would do to me financially -- and dont want to lose my kids.

But sometimes I dream of what it would be like to renter the dating scene.

I am very fit, jog daily and work out regularly. Very young looking 35. I could easily get an attractive girl. Have had many opportunities, but I could never bring myself to cheat.

My wife, while 3 years my younger looks like she's 50 -- gained 100 lbs since we married. Very lazy and unmotivated to do anything. She is no longer the woman I fell in love with. Can't bare the thought of sex with her.

Going to be another sad Valentine's Day.