This is what i hate about people on these message boards. You give one of your closest relatives some information that you don't really understand about something very important and then you ask complete strangers on the internet for advice.

How about only convincing someone to do something that you don't have any doubts about, instead of pushing internet bullshit into family members like some kind of dung beetle.

If you don't know what you're talking about, ask first and then start giving people advice.