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Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72155622  United States05/31/2016 01:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? Just something I thought of today. Both of them are leeches, but most of society looks down at the welfare mom but not the spoiled suburban housewife. Why is that? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1439491 You're a real thinker. As citizens we have a contract, an agreement with society. As husband and wife we have a contract, an agreement with our spouse. How they divide their labor is their business. A welfare mom that can work but doesn't is in breach of contract. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72134287 United States05/31/2016 01:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? My, my, my. Bless your heart. You are clueless. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72254537 Imagine, a housewife, eating cheetos and watching oprah THE ONLY FUCKING TIME SHE CAN, WHEN THE KIDS ARE AT SCHOOL. You think men just spoil and pamper lil princesses these days for nothing? Child, I have 4 kids and last time I conservatively added it up, it would cost my husband over 8k/mo. to replace all the services I provide... and GUESS WHAT? A few weeks ago I actually dropped the kids off at school then came home and went back to sleep! The NERVE of me. Could you possibly guess why? BECAUSE I'VE BEEN ON CALL 24/7 AT MY JOB FOR THE PAST TEN AND A HALF YEARS, MOTHERFUCKER. No pay No benefits (besides messy hugs :D) No off time No breaks No holidays No vacations Motherfucker I cannot remember the last time I took a dump by myself. In one afternoon a few months ago I counted SIXTY bucklings/unbucklings while running errands (it hurt my back that day). When I have the flu and am puking/passing out, they'll fuckin laugh. I am not even free to DIE. I can't make a sandwich, I have to make FIVE. My man had less than nothing when I met him and I raised him up, supported us all by myself for years. If I wanna eat cheetoes on the couch for a year straight I will because I earned it. If a man spoils a woman these days it's probably because she earned it in a way you do not understand. Stop coveting others and get a life. great comment, especially the Covet part.  I know the way you feel. some women never even had a vacation. I never took a cruise or a vacation ever in my entire life. not to mention all the nights women lose sleep taking care of sick children and the times women nearly die having children. Also, The times women shovel the snowy driveway by hand,so when the husband gets home he doesn't have to. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 70315365 United States05/31/2016 01:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? Here come the cheerleaders for sit-at-home women. By the way, they DO get paid, it's called "in kind" in accounting. I don't see too many full-time maids driving around in Mercedes, but I do occasionally see snotty housewives driving one. Some of the most childish, superficial, greedy and petty people I have gotten to know in life have been housewives. Many just never grow up. Hubby is like dad who just has to produce, and they never have to take on responsibilities for real life. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 70315365 United States05/31/2016 01:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? By the way, how about women who don't have children or their children are older and in school? Are they also doing the "most important job in the world" by watching Dr. Phil and spending hours gossiping on Facebook? No one ever seems to really want to answer that one. It always comes back to having to take care of 10 babies at once. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 70315365 United States05/31/2016 03:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? The problem with these chivalrous White Knight men is that they transfer their view of women to their jobs. This does not matter if they are a miner or trucker, but it very much matters if they have direct power over men. Examples are policemen, judges, legislators and the like. I would rather not be paying my hard-earned money over in the form of taxes to women who take welfare, but I vastly prefer that to being put in a position where some idiotic White Knight is going to try to "punish" me for not supporting a housewife or is going to give a beneficial preference to women because of his views. Men have to start to realize what is going on in society. Wake up. The men who support a sit-at-home housepig can really do damage to men who get what is going on. You don't have to support some over-entitled Princess and you don't have to take sh!t from the White Knights. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72217302  Germany06/01/2016 05:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? Lots of Real Men (TM) have wives who talk negatively about them behind their backs. Kind of unreal that these men would continue to pay and pay for women who can't even stand them (it's all about the money and the women's allergy to work), but there you go. I know 10-years-olds with a greater sense of responsibility and ability to get things done than many housewives. They aren't even embarrassed by it. |
Broken Cord  User ID: 70511967 United States06/01/2016 07:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? NEVER BEEN MARRIED, HAVE YOU? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 904454MY WIFE WORKS LONGER HOURS THAN ANY EXEC I KNOW DOING A LOT OF CRAPPY, REPETITIVE, GRUNGY CHORES ON TOP OF RAISING CHILDREN HONORABLY- EASILY THE MOST IMPORTANT JOB ON EARTH. A lot of these useless housewives still spend all day eating Cheetos and watching Oprah LONG after the kids are in school. Trust me, I know some of them. For many welfare moms its either stay at home and deal with the kids, or work and go bankrupt paying for daycare. They at least have a reason to mooch. The rich housewife who lays around the house all day, on the other hand, is just an entitled brat. OP: Are you mentally deficient? Welfare moms shouldn't be adding to he burden of sociaty. If one has to look towards the government tit as a way and a means of survival, and use it as a way of life, they deserve neither kids or support. Education and birth control is what they need. Disclosure. :max: |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72316193 Germany06/02/2016 01:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? Broken Cord: What's with the insults? Apparently you are in favor of lazy suburban housewives who mooch off their husband. Think of this: A 38-year-old man lives with his parents and has never had a job. Still, he drives a high-end Mercedes and brags about the house he lives in, worth several millions. If you suggest that it's not his car or house, he would say that his name is on the title of the Benz, and he is a joint owner of the house. And he brags that when his parents finally kick the bucket, he will be the sole owner of the big house. And the brokerage accounts. He surfs the Internet all day, and watches Judge Judy and Dr. Phil. He constantly has a smirk on his face as he explains life to you. He is petty, greedy, childish and superficial. He treats service workers like crap (they work, he will never have to). What do you think of that guy? Well, that's what I think of lazy housewives. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 64416919 United States06/03/2016 07:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? |
| Been there, done that User ID: 68570977 United States06/03/2016 10:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? I was married for a long time to a woman who just would not work, and we had no kids. She was very good at making me think I was wrong for wanting her to get up off her butt and help out in the marriage. Real men support their wives, she would explain. If I even brought up the subject of her getting a job, she would turn on the tears and then the anger. I wasn't perfect either and besides, I wanted her to stay at home in the beginning (no I didn't). It's not fair that she has to work. The neighbor's wife doesn't have to work, and her husband is therefore a real man. She would also tell people that we "mutually decided" that she should stay home. I just quit even bringing up the subject after a while. I also kept my mouth shut that she turned to shopping and spending money because she was bored with nothing else to do, and TV didn't always cut it. And at some point, something like 16 years into the marriage, I just started to get an overwhelming urge to get away from her and get out of the marriage. That feeling came on very strongly out of the blue. The divorce cost me a lot, but I no longer have the heavy stress I felt even being around her. |
| RealMan(TM) User ID: 72327512 Germany06/04/2016 02:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? Real Men support the lazy sit-at-home no matter what. That's what Real Men do. Whether she talks trash about him behind his back, tells her girlfriend how easy it is to manipulate him, screws the gardener or his best friend or tries to kill him for the insurance and all of the assets he earned. Real Men always pop off and try to attack a man if they hear rumors that he slept with his wife. Even if they rush into his job and attack him, only to find out that they have attacked a substitute, and the subject of the rumors was not even there that day. Real Men are hotheads, and women love it. Real Men get civil lawsuits because of this, and that's just what Real Men have to deal with. Real Men bully others, until they bully the wrong guy. Real Men know everything and make it clear to everyone that they know everything. Real Men don't let their wives near the grill during outdoor grilling season, because they know that women are stupid and will injure themselves. On the other hand, Real Men will tell you that women are exactly equal to men in all ways. I really admire Real Men. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72327512 Germany06/04/2016 02:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? Real Men, knowing it all, brashly rush into marriages and contracts. Real Men will tell you that Real Men pay for their women in marriages. That's why Real Men, 20 years later, are paying alimony. That's why Real Men file bankruptcy and have IRS liens. Weaker men are not able to take this, but Real Men take the consequences. Except when they are not able to pay child support because the IRS took everything and the boss fired him for being a cock. Real Men take all of that in stride and will beat you up if you notice (as long as you are substantially smaller). |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 64629958 United States06/04/2016 02:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? I used to be against alimony (especially alimony for fairly young, healthy women who get permanent alimony) in principle, but then I started seeing exactly who was ordered to pay alimony. Mostly it IS the real men as described above. You would think that they would find it unfair, but surprisingly many don't. They brag about it, as proof that the earn lots of money. Weird. I still can't fathom one adult having to pay for another adult on this plant, solely because they previously had a relationship, but I guess I now see that it happens to the right people, kind of like boomerang karma. Apparently male bigmouths and female leeches find each other and come to this arrangement. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 64890822 United States06/18/2016 09:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? I'm wondering why the legislators and courts allow that at all. As an analogy, picture this: Beating your wife is not only legal, it is aided by the government. Lots of people comment that the man was morally wrong to beat the woman, but this is not only condoned, but also aided by the government. If you are too tired to swing those fists at a woman, you can apply for aid and some goon from the government comes out and does it to her. Most people would ask: Why does the government condone this. And aid this. That is what I am asking here. Taking away the money a man has earned - and not letting him see his own kids (family courts basically snicker when a man brings a motion that the woman does not allow the court-ordered visitation, but they take lack of child-support payments very seriously, at least if the man is the non-payer) - has driven some men to suicide. No one really asks a woman to reduce her monthly expenses when she provides a huge list in a motion to get alimony. Seriously. And no one asks why the man has to support her in the lifestyle to which she has very quickly become accustomed when she wants a divorce. Weird. And the supporters of all of this seem to be Real Men (TM) who have not yet gone through a divorce themselves. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72418928 Germany06/18/2016 10:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? No one is going to change the land of milk and honey for women. The only thing that men can do today is: (1) Don't get married under any circumstances. (2) Don't get her pregnant. (3) Today: Don't live with her If you get married today as a man, you are an utter moron. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72418928 Germany06/18/2016 10:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? I assume that legislators are going to take note that men are starting to avoid marriage (rightly). In the future, I assume that the following additional rules will apply: - Do not talk to a woman or have anything to do with her, or you may be forced by the government to give her money |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 68597623 United States06/18/2016 11:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? I'd honestly like to hear the real reason why men support "career sit-at-homes" (not women who stay home when children are small and not in school, but women who make a career out of leeching off men over their entire lives). Sometimes they smear their husbands behind their back. The husband goes to work every day, and the wives go to lunch and complain about what schmucks they married. They then insult the bus boy and don't leave much of a tip. Who would want women like that? I know that the husbands probably grew up having to be a Real Man and all that, so that's probably the motivation, but don't they ever get sick of useless hunks of protoplasm like their housewives? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72393256 United States06/18/2016 11:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? I was raised in boarding homes and with various relatives. I went on to get a degree in computer science and become a programmer. I had a good job working weekends when my kids were young, but when the company told me they wanted me to work week days and put my kids in daycare, I quit. I wanted to give my kids something I never had-- stability. My husband had a decent job. I made dinners from scratch and learned how to be frugal. We were able to send our kids to private schools. I was available to drive them to their sports games and music lessons. I was very involved in their school. I took very good care of my kids and husband. I came last. I usually had 2 pairs of pants and a few nice shirts, and then work clothes for the house. I remember a pre-school telling me that she could tell which kids had stay at home moms by their behavior. My girls are grown now. Both went to college and finished on time. Both can support themselves now. I could have had loads of money and some messed up kids. It still wouldn't be worth it to me. What would I use all that extra money on anyway? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72398192  Canada06/19/2016 02:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? NEVER BEEN MARRIED, HAVE YOU? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 904454MY WIFE WORKS LONGER HOURS THAN ANY EXEC I KNOW DOING A LOT OF CRAPPY, REPETITIVE, GRUNGY CHORES ON TOP OF RAISING CHILDREN HONORABLY- EASILY THE MOST IMPORTANT JOB ON EARTH. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72500584 Germany07/02/2016 06:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? The term that is sometimes used in the military for a housewife of the lazy, exploitive variety is a "dependopotomous". I have no clue why men would want something like this. In a few years the sex gets normal or even boring, and in a few decades these women are fat and gross looking. They are literally completely useless. Plus, you may have to pay permanent alimony if you leave. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 64892026 United States07/03/2016 01:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? Just something I thought of today. Both of them are leeches, but most of society looks down at the welfare mom but not the spoiled suburban housewife. Why is that? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1439491 Stupid ignorant ass. Tell me Mister I'll just have a THINK about the difference of blah blah .. How much would you pay for a full time Chef? A full time house keeper? A full time Laundry service? A full time dog walker? A full time day care? A taxi for your kids? A surrogate to have YOUR children to further YOUR name? and lastly but most importantly a hooker/prostitute daily and a High paid Escort for all those "make ME look good" Parties your have to attend. You know NOTHING John COWARD. The very sad part of all this is that a good wife and mother NEVER gets a Paycheck, is constantly DEMEANED and shit upon by everyone for doing ALL these craptastic jobs while you sit in an AC office scratching your bollocks all day while EVERYONE tells you how fucking amazing you are. Sickening. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72521545 Germany07/06/2016 05:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? Just something I thought of today. Both of them are leeches, but most of society looks down at the welfare mom but not the spoiled suburban housewife. Why is that? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1439491 Stupid ignorant ass. Tell me Mister I'll just have a THINK about the difference of blah blah .. How much would you pay for a full time Chef? A full time house keeper? A full time Laundry service? A full time dog walker? A full time day care? A taxi for your kids? A surrogate to have YOUR children to further YOUR name? and lastly but most importantly a hooker/prostitute daily and a High paid Escort for all those "make ME look good" Parties your have to attend. You know NOTHING John COWARD. The very sad part of all this is that a good wife and mother NEVER gets a Paycheck, is constantly DEMEANED and shit upon by everyone for doing ALL these craptastic jobs while you sit in an AC office scratching your bollocks all day while EVERYONE tells you how fucking amazing you are. Sickening. "Full time" is usually considered to be 40 hours / week, so adding up your full-time positions alone, I get a work week of 200 hours. On top of that, you run a taxi for *his* kids (I guess from a prior marriage?), act as a surrogate to have *his* kids (you apparently have no part in it), and you work as hooker/prostitute daily. With all of that, you likely have no time at all to watch Dr. Phil and Judge Judy on TV. A few notes: - If you have been a long-term housewife for decades, you are not working as a High-Paid Escort. At best a frumpy, widening housewife who your husband is increasingly embarrassed to take to work events. Not a High-Paid Escort. - If you never get any compensation for your hooker and escort work, how on earth do you pay the rent and monthly car payment? - Your description of being at work doesn't really jibe with what people at work really experience. - If you are listing hooker/prostitute among your duties, instead of enjoyment of sex on both sides, it becomes clear what kind of relationship you are in. You chose it. As for the rest, you don't have to convince anyone here how important your housewife job is (I, for one, will not buy it), you just have to keep your husband paying. He's the one you have to fool, not us. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 68794212 United States10/11/2016 07:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? I think that a lot of men with wives who don't work (and who don't have small children at home) want to make it sound like they do anything at home other than sit on their butts and watch Dr. Phil because otherwise it would become clear that they are weak men who have to pay for a woman to pretend to like them. That's basically it. And that's why men who obviously have lazy wives get so worked up about who she's doing the most important job and the hardest job in the world. Really laughable. |
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| Areos User ID: 78290225 Germany12/28/2019 08:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Is the lazy suburban housewife who mooches off her husband any better than the welfare mom with six kids? Otherwise, if the husbands of lazy, fat-ass wives don't object to their laying around eating Cheetos and watching Oprah, that's THEIR problem. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1465070 Well, the husbands of sit-at-home leeches may have to choose between finally getting rid of the leech, but having to give her the home and alimony and all of her legal costs and half of his assets or more, while having a court give her full control of the children ... and ... just knowing that life is unfair and continuing to pay for her Cheetos. Mostly spineless or even women-leaning family court judges are not going to tell Pumpkin to actually get a job. I can't believe that anyone is defending some lazy leech. Last Edited by Areos on 12/28/2019 08:34 PM |
