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Why would my ex's father be in my dreams giving me warning for his family???? | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1351801  United States07/31/2011 08:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Earth Daughter  User ID: 1471670 United States07/31/2011 08:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe you are my psychic-receptive to his messages, so he comes to you. If your ex is aware of your other dreams in the past, then you might want to send him an e-mail just explaining what you dreamed. I think his dad just wants you to warn them. Once you do so, he'll probably leave you alone. "Arrows of hate have been shot at me too, but they never hit me, because somehow they belonged to another world, with which I have no connection whatsoever." - Albert Einstein |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1220210 United States07/31/2011 09:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh please, a dream of danger is hardly a harbringer for a car breaking down. That's an every day occurance. Ask anyone who works for car repair shop. You're nuts and are so attached to this guy who obviously doesn't want you, so you're making up this fantasy attachment to his dad to stay connected to him. Please go talk to your therapist more. Quoting: HypocrisyAsshole, much? |
| Fatstogie User ID: 1315794 United States07/31/2011 09:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh please, a dream of danger is hardly a harbringer for a car breaking down. That's an every day occurance. Ask anyone who works for car repair shop. You're nuts and are so attached to this guy who obviously doesn't want you, so you're making up this fantasy attachment to his dad to stay connected to him. Please go talk to your therapist more. Quoting: HypocrisyAsshole, much? Huh i was thinking the same thing. Especially when she said therapist. Tahts a dead give away right there. You need "closure." LOL no. Ask yourself what you need not someone else. You need closure on needing closure. Last Edited by Fatstogie on 07/31/2011 09:24 PM |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1351801 United States07/31/2011 09:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh please, a dream of danger is hardly a harbringer for a car breaking down. That's an every day occurance. Ask anyone who works for car repair shop. You're nuts and are so attached to this guy who obviously doesn't want you, so you're making up this fantasy attachment to his dad to stay connected to him. Please go talk to your therapist more. Quoting: HypocrisyAsshole, much? Huh i was thinking the same thing. Especially when she said therapist. Tahts a dead give away right there. You need "closure." LOL no. Ask yourself what you need not someone else. You need closure on needing closure. No, assholes. I was seeing a therapist last year because I was having a nervous break down. This time we broke up I haven't even cried the first tear. I don't really have any contact with him nor his family. I just don't understand why the dad keeps coming to me with warnings. The ride that broke down was very serious and had to be towed back home. It could had been ALOT worse than what it really was. He could had been killed. |
| weegie User ID: 1489522  Switzerland07/31/2011 10:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Forget him for a minute. Do you know his mother? How would you feel if something did happen to her? Guilty for not sending a warning? Or just shrug it off? I personally would just send a casual e-mail saying you had the dream and thought you should share it. It really doesn't sound from here like it's a healthy relationship to get back into. |
| Tracy User ID: 1198157  Australia07/31/2011 11:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Personally I think that having dreamt about ex's dad once and you got back to gether for a short time...your subconcious thinks THAT is the best way to regain contact with your ex. Given that may be the case I would just tell exdad that you cannot do anything about it so he should tell his son himself. HOWEVER....here is a site for dream interpretation and I think if you have a question you can ask them for free; [link to www.edgarcayce.org] |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1351801 United States07/31/2011 11:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Personally I think that having dreamt about ex's dad once and you got back to gether for a short time...your subconcious thinks THAT is the best way to regain contact with your ex. Given that may be the case I would just tell exdad that you cannot do anything about it so he should tell his son himself. HOWEVER....here is a site for dream interpretation and I think if you have a question you can ask them for free; Quoting: Tracy[link to www.edgarcayce.org] Actually, I had not thought of the dreams nor of his dad since the last set of dreams I had. I don't even know his dad. Yes, I do know his mom and siblings though. I do care for what happens to them all. I would feel guilty if something bad happened and I had not warned them, but just not sure if it is the right thing to do or not. Just really confused to why it is me having the dreams and not anyone in the actual family. So strange, don't you think? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1463789 United States07/31/2011 11:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, these things have happened to me before and so I simply asked...."why are you looking to me?" My answer in return was "because you can hear me and because you are the only person in relation to those I want to warn, that can hear me. To those that want to warn, you can hear and the light and awareness radiates from you. I don't mean it the way it sounds but it makes you a target. I don't question this anymore, but I am the one that makes the decision as to whether or not I pass the message. If there is no one who can hear the father in the family, then I doubt they will believe you. However, that doesn't stop the father from trying out of concern for his family. Just because you are asked to give a warning does not mean you are subjected to giving out the information, you have choice. My personal opinion and only my opinion is tell Dad to look for someone else to give the warnings. However, please do what you feel you need. |
| Tracy User ID: 1198157 Australia07/31/2011 11:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Personally I think that having dreamt about ex's dad once and you got back to gether for a short time...your subconcious thinks THAT is the best way to regain contact with your ex. Given that may be the case I would just tell exdad that you cannot do anything about it so he should tell his son himself. HOWEVER....here is a site for dream interpretation and I think if you have a question you can ask them for free; Quoting: Tracy[link to www.edgarcayce.org] Actually, I had not thought of the dreams nor of his dad since the last set of dreams I had. I don't even know his dad. Yes, I do know his mom and siblings though. I do care for what happens to them all. I would feel guilty if something bad happened and I had not warned them, but just not sure if it is the right thing to do or not. Just really confused to why it is me having the dreams and not anyone in the actual family. So strange, don't you think? Well they might be having dreams too but if you no longer have anything to do with them...why would they tell you? Once people have split up its rare for family of the other party to give out info like that.....its too private once you are no longer a couple to share personal info with. They might discuss the weather and acquaintance type stuff but not deeper. Besides...if one has been a "family" member for a while (as gf, spouse or best friends), even if no longer together....you would have chosen to be a part of that soul family for a reason in this life.....just not necessarily ever after but for the love experience and all that entails. Memories, your own (or spirits/ghosts if you chose that) dont always accept that now is not forever....how can they if time overall is not real? Given the circumstances it would be better to leave it alone because even if your intentions are good...he will just see if as interferring, info seeking, stalking.....even if you just sent an email and told him you didnt want a reply. Bad news is never well recieved by someone who is no longer part of their lives. Reverse the situation....in your mind....and you would feel the same. Would you really want an ex you dumped to call you and say....your dead grandma told me your parents are going to die in a horrible crash..and you can play around with the wording of that but no matter how benign it sounds it would still feel like a threat...See what I mean? Last Edited by Red Red Whine on 07/31/2011 11:56 PM |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1351801 United States08/01/2011 01:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Personally I think that having dreamt about ex's dad once and you got back to gether for a short time...your subconcious thinks THAT is the best way to regain contact with your ex. Given that may be the case I would just tell exdad that you cannot do anything about it so he should tell his son himself. HOWEVER....here is a site for dream interpretation and I think if you have a question you can ask them for free; Quoting: Tracy[link to www.edgarcayce.org] Actually, I had not thought of the dreams nor of his dad since the last set of dreams I had. I don't even know his dad. Yes, I do know his mom and siblings though. I do care for what happens to them all. I would feel guilty if something bad happened and I had not warned them, but just not sure if it is the right thing to do or not. Just really confused to why it is me having the dreams and not anyone in the actual family. So strange, don't you think? Well they might be having dreams too but if you no longer have anything to do with them...why would they tell you? Once people have split up its rare for family of the other party to give out info like that.....its too private once you are no longer a couple to share personal info with. They might discuss the weather and acquaintance type stuff but not deeper. Besides...if one has been a "family" member for a while (as gf, spouse or best friends), even if no longer together....you would have chosen to be a part of that soul family for a reason in this life.....just not necessarily ever after but for the love experience and all that entails. Memories, your own (or spirits/ghosts if you chose that) dont always accept that now is not forever....how can they if time overall is not real? Given the circumstances it would be better to leave it alone because even if your intentions are good...he will just see if as interferring, info seeking, stalking.....even if you just sent an email and told him you didnt want a reply. Bad news is never well recieved by someone who is no longer part of their lives. Reverse the situation....in your mind....and you would feel the same. Would you really want an ex you dumped to call you and say....your dead grandma told me your parents are going to die in a horrible crash..and you can play around with the wording of that but no matter how benign it sounds it would still feel like a threat...See what I mean? Actually, I have known this guy for almost all my life. We have always had a connection. When we would lose contact something always brought us back together. These dreams are so real at times. It is so hard to explain them. You all are right though, maybe I should just let it go and not worry about it, but then if something was to happen to any of them then I would feel very guilty for not saying anything. I guess I just need to think on it more and take in what you all have suggested. Thanks for all the replies. |
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