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Is the inability to trust anyone a good or bad quality? | |
| Light Crown Offer Upgrade  User ID: 1313350  United States08/24/2011 02:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Light Crown (OP) User ID: 1313350 United States08/24/2011 02:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok I see you guys like details. No problem let me just find some facts from my memory real quick. I had a girlfriend and I find out she cheated on me. Her previous boyfriend also told me how she cheated on him too. I was furious because I thought she loved me but I guess it was one big lie. The problem is that I really love her and I want it to work out between us but I know she will probably do it again. Its just such a bitch of a situation. Sure I could dump her now but I love her so much I cant leave her. Its out of the question. |
| Light Crown (OP) User ID: 1313350 United States08/24/2011 02:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If she dumps me and I am forced to find someone else I dont think I can trust them either and I will watch her like a hawk too. I am permanently changed by getting cheated on. Would anybody marry me knowing that I will always want to know where they are at? Last Edited by Light Crown on 08/24/2011 02:22 AM |
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| xen User ID: 1370697  Australia08/24/2011 02:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | sounds like she cheats for whatever reason, if you can't let go you need to accept her for what she is and don't act surprised when it happens again. if you like playing with fire and don't mind getting burned it's all good Last Edited by xen on 08/24/2011 02:27 AM |
| Light Crown (OP) User ID: 1313350 United States08/24/2011 02:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it's like having a friend who you know is an asshole. how can you act surprised when they do what assholes do? if you know them and expect them to act like an asshole the friendship doesn't suffer because you have accepted them as a friend knowing they are an asshole Quoting: xen sounds like she cheats for whatever reason, if you can't let go you need to accept her for what she is and don't act surprised when it happens again. if you like playing with fire and don't mind getting burned it's all good She was my first girlfriend. I think I am gonna dump her but I will always continue to keep a very very close eye on my next girlfriend. I cannot stand the heartbreak a second time. I just feel bad for my mates that I can never trust them again. I feel like everyone is just out to screw everyone else over. |
| xen User ID: 1370697 Australia08/24/2011 02:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She was my first girlfriend. I think I am gonna dump her but I will always continue to keep a very very close eye on my next girlfriend. I cannot stand the heartbreak a second time. I just feel bad for my mates that I can never trust them again. I feel like everyone is just out to screw everyone else over. Quoting: Light Crown you'll have some darkness to take with you in your next relationship. the challenge is to transmute it into light instead of getting paranoid, raise your frequency with it! not everyone is like that, alot of people are decent. good luck! |
| Light Crown (OP) User ID: 1313350 United States08/24/2011 02:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She was my first girlfriend. I think I am gonna dump her but I will always continue to keep a very very close eye on my next girlfriend. I cannot stand the heartbreak a second time. I just feel bad for my mates that I can never trust them again. I feel like everyone is just out to screw everyone else over. Quoting: Light Crown you'll have some darkness to take with you in your next relationship. the challenge is to transmute it into light instead of getting paranoid, raise your frequency with it! not everyone is like that, alot of people are decent. good luck! Thanks. I can't change my mentality though. I think I am stuck on a permanent trust no one. Its too bad you have too in a relationship. |
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| Light Crown (OP) User ID: 1313350 United States08/24/2011 02:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't trust anyone but my kids. Period. And that includes my partner, my mother, my sibling, friends...anyone. I don't feel like I'm missing out any. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1511269 Your kids and weaker than you. They cannot put you in a vulnerable position and "break your heart". I see your very have the same mindset I do where you cant trust people to help you. You gotta help yourself and if you cant do that then you should look to others. Only when you have no choice. |
| OpenHeartMonk User ID: 1275364  Canada08/24/2011 02:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | no, she won't change no, you cannot trust women yes, you can be happy again Last Edited by OpenHeartMonk on 08/24/2011 02:56 AM Aether for the Soul [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
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| humanitech User ID: 1518259  United Kingdom08/24/2011 09:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When someone has wronged me over and over again I can never trust them again. The problem is that sometimes you have no choice in life but to let someone else put you in a place of vulnerability. I am being vague here but I guess I wanted to see what you people had to say on the subject. Quoting: Light Crown just sensible really..the ability to be open with people is you choice, but doesn't mean you have to trust everything straight away..as trust should come through time and seeing their actions..as words in reality are often meaningless. |
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| redlicorice User ID: 1508292 Canada08/24/2011 09:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When someone has wronged me over and over again I can never trust them again. The problem is that sometimes you have no choice in life but to let someone else put you in a place of vulnerability. I am being vague here but I guess I wanted to see what you people had to say on the subject. Quoting: Light Crown If the inability to trust just a specific person after repeated let-downs is the question?, then my answer is it is time you decided if you wish to keep on living this way. Writer's Block |
| Light Crown (OP) User ID: 1313350 United States08/24/2011 07:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Until you learn to be just as vicious and ruthless as everyone else in the world, you will be the victim over and over again. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1515332 I agree. I still need alot of work. You can't judge a book by its cover. Ppl often look like they want to help you but in reality sometimes they just want to manipulate you. |
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| Light Crown (OP) User ID: 1313350 United States08/24/2011 08:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't trust anyone, never have since I was in my early 20s. It's a dog eat dog world out there and people WILL screw you if they have a chance. Trust no one, especially "friends" and family members. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1439491 Yea, its funny. I wonder why it is that way?? I really don't know... |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 62198535 United States09/03/2014 10:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When someone has wronged me over and over again I can never trust them again. The problem is that sometimes you have no choice in life but to let someone else put you in a place of vulnerability. I am being vague here but I guess I wanted to see what you people had to say on the subject. Quoting: Light Crown Do you trust yourself?That is the?If u don't you'll never trust anyone and you'll never earn trust>it's all based on you. |
| TheLastHawk User ID: 56007300 United States09/03/2014 10:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If she dumps me and I am forced to find someone else I dont think I can trust them either and I will watch her like a hawk too. Quoting: Light Crown I am permanently changed by getting cheated on. Would anybody marry me knowing that I will always want to know where they are at? From a Hawk, this is a great lesson life is trying to teach you. Trust is something you first have to find in yourself. Learn what that self trust feels like. Once you have that down the world all worlds are yours. I want to add this. Unconditional trust like unconditional love is the purest form of energy there is. If you can learn to trust and love without strings another being then you really have something. Last Edited by TheLastHawk on 09/03/2014 10:46 PM |
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| Sdavis642 User ID: 62471839 United States09/03/2014 10:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | how does one "trust"? Answer that question and ill tell you if it is good or bad if you chose not to do it. [link to www.thewarningsecondcoming.com] Rise now and accept My Seal, the Seal of the Living God. Recite this Crusade Prayer (33) to acknowledge My Seal and accept it with love, joy and gratitude. O my God, my Loving Father, I accept with love and gratitude Your Divine Seal of Protection. Your Divinity encompasses my body and soul for eternity. I bow in humble thanksgiving and offer my deep love and loyalty to You my Beloved Father. I beg You to protect me and my loved ones with this special Seal and I pledge my life to Your service forever and ever. I love You Dear Father. I console You in these times Dear Father. I offer You the Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of Your dearly beloved Son In atonement for the sins of the world and for the salvation of all Your children. Amen. Go, My children and do not fear. Trust in Me, Your beloved Father, who lovingly created each of you. I know every single soul, every part of you is known to Me. Not one of you is loved less than the other. Because of this I do not want to lose one soul. Not one. Please continue to pray My Divine Mercy Chaplet every day. One day, you will understand why this purification is needed. Your Loving Father In Heaven |
| TheLastHawk User ID: 56007300 United States09/03/2014 11:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | how does one "trust"? Quoting: Sdavis642 Answer that question and ill tell you if it is good or bad if you chose not to do it. Great question!!!!! This is just my answer, not necessarily THE ANSWER and definitely not for everyone. In all of my NDEs a little voice came to me and said, "Just relax and everything will be ok". After the first time it was easy to trust that voice. Over time I learned that was the voice of my own consciousness, my soul, my spirit, my light body, my heart. You don't have to put yourself in a life and death struggle to learn to hear the voice of your own being (your heart). I'm a slow learner and it takes a lot to get my attention. It takes moving your own conscious awareness out of your mind and focusing it on your heart. OK judge me. How did I do? |
