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I'm DONE with Marriage...

 
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Reality TV has a truly toxic effect on the female psyche.
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And they LOVE it.
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American women have been TRAINED by incessant brainwashing through TV, music, magazines, THEIR FRIENDS, etc... to view men as DISPOSABLE, and easily REPLACEABLE. And due to the fact that most men nowadays are nothing more than a horny dick, it is true.

There are 100 wolves in line, to screw your wife just as soon as she is single again... Or.... even BEFORE she is single again. Some men actually GET OFF on that, evil as it may be.

And women have been brainwashed into craving a never-ending "infatuation phase", which is simply NOT possible. Do you know that rush tha you feel when you first fal in love with someone? I call it the infatuation phase, and women nowadays are CONSTANTLY looking to create that feeling, because they have been BRAINWASHED into feeling as if it's normal for tha to be the norm throughout the relationship.

And it IS normal, if your relationships only last 6 months.

Fact is, the infatuation phase normally lasts from around 3 to 6 months, and if you are lucky, a year. but beyond that, there is RARELY anyway to CREATE that initial excitement all over again. and yet women (being the unreasonable creatures that they are) EXPECT that.

You may be the most entertaining and interesting guy in the world, but given enough time, a woman will get bored with you, and start looking for someone else to create that spark all over again. And that is why women really view men as disposable, and eventually do not even EXPECT a relationship to last long.

A woman expects YOU to be funny, interesting, and entertaining, going into a relation, and to MAINTAIN that interest from them, even after they have grown used to you. And yet they offer NOTHING in return, because women realize that they can have the personality of a codfish, or be a total bitch, and still attract men, just because of looks, and the fact that foolish men are driven by hormones.

It used to be, when a woman became bored with you, she still loved you enough to stay in a relationship, and put effort into making it work. But now they just crave that infatuation phase feeling, and expect it to continue indefinitely, which simply is NOT realistic.

No wonder there are so many women who think all men are douche bags, even though these same men were a "one-in-a-million" (according to these same women) for the first year of their relationships.
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This is a good post.
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01/12/2012 06:07 AM
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Her problem is that you're not rich enough to provide a good life for her...get more jobs and make more money that you can give to her! lol

Men and woman are just too different to live together in harmony! :-)
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American women have been TRAINED by incessant brainwashing through TV, music, magazines, THEIR FRIENDS, etc... to view men as DISPOSABLE, and easily REPLACEABLE. And due to the fact that most men nowadays are nothing more than a horny dick, it is true.

There are 100 wolves in line, to screw your wife just as soon as she is single again... Or.... even BEFORE she is single again. Some men actually GET OFF on that, evil as it may be.

And women have been brainwashed into craving a never-ending "infatuation phase", which is simply NOT possible. Do you know that rush tha you feel when you first fal in love with someone? I call it the infatuation phase, and women nowadays are CONSTANTLY looking to create that feeling, because they have been BRAINWASHED into feeling as if it's normal for tha to be the norm throughout the relationship.

And it IS normal, if your relationships only last 6 months.

Fact is, the infatuation phase normally lasts from around 3 to 6 months, and if you are lucky, a year. but beyond that, there is RARELY anyway to CREATE that initial excitement all over again. and yet women (being the unreasonable creatures that they are) EXPECT that.

You may be the most entertaining and interesting guy in the world, but given enough time, a woman will get bored with you, and start looking for someone else to create that spark all over again. And that is why women really view men as disposable, and eventually do not even EXPECT a relationship to last long.

A woman expects YOU to be funny, interesting, and entertaining, going into a relation, and to MAINTAIN that interest from them, even after they have grown used to you. And yet they offer NOTHING in return, because women realize that they can have the personality of a codfish, or be a total bitch, and still attract men, just because of looks, and the fact that foolish men are driven by hormones.

It used to be, when a woman became bored with you, she still loved you enough to stay in a relationship, and put effort into making it work. But now they just crave that infatuation phase feeling, and expect it to continue indefinitely, which simply is NOT realistic.

No wonder there are so many women who think all men are douche bags, even though these same men were a "one-in-a-million" (according to these same women) for the first year of their relationships.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8620710


You sound totally jaded, and if you are talking about immature women, perhaps this may be the case (or women of a certain age, i.e., girls).

Most real women, however, prefer mature love, which is far more intimate, real, and substantive. Not superficial infatuation.

I hope you open yourself up enough to actually meet some of these women one day!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6313471





I've met plenty of women, toots.

And after 50 years of living, I' would have to be an IDIOT to NOT be jaded by what these American women have become. That is why I've been married now, to a woman I met 5 years ago overseas.

I'm totally content, and can see myself with this person for the rest of my life. I was VER specific in the FIRST TWO WORD of my post, about what women I was referring to. And like i said, I would have to be an idiot, t NOT be jaded about America women.

What kind of LIAR would even TRY to claim that American women AREN'T the most spoiled, unrealistic, and selfish women in the world?


"I hope you open yourself up enough to actually meet some of these women one day!"

Hey, thanks for the sentiment, but it's too late. I already DID find the right women, but it sure as hell wasn't here in THIS country.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8620710


"What kind of LIAR would even TRY to claim that American women AREN'T the most spoiled, unrealistic, and selfish women in the world?"

I think it's dishonest (with yourself) to make such sweeping generalizations. For one, I could say that your statement is true of Americans, IN GENERAL...but then again, there are also large portions of the population who are NOT like this, just as there are many different TYPES of women in the U.S.

In fact, I'd be willing to say that with the various freedoms we are granted in this country, and with the various lifestyles within our population, there are probably more TYPES of women in this country than anywhere else!

I AM an American woman, and I am certainly not like that...nor are the women in my family, nor are the women that I choose to associate with. I don't have any associations with that TYPE of woman that you mention in your post. In fact, I can't even name anybody I know that would fit that description. I have wisely and deliberately chosen those with whom I surround myself with...and those include women of character, morals, faith, and virtue. That's not to say that my sh** don't stink, of course, lol...but we sure CAN choose who we allow in our surroundings, and who we allow to affect us.

"Hey, thanks for the sentiment, but it's too late. I already DID find the right women..."

Well good for you, I'm glad you did :)
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Sorry to hear it man.

Sounds like you both want different things. Have you tried hitting her with the truth about the world we live in? It will rock her world and she will care less and less about material bullshit
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01/12/2012 06:21 AM
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Sorry to hear it man.

Sounds like you both want different things. Have you tried hitting her with the truth about the world we live in? It will rock her world and she will care less and less about material bullshit
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 830513


She has her head in the sand when it comes to world affairs.

I've lost a few jobs over the past few years (layoffs which were not fault of my own), and yet somehow was made to feel it was my fault by little comments she made every so often.

She's lucky she hasn't lost her job yet. She's had the same job the entire time through this recession/depression most of us have been experiencing.

Like I said, she's been living in fantasy reality land.

She has no clue about domestic and/or international politics; the things happening that are affecting people's day-to-day lives.

She's oblivious to all of it.
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Her problem is that you're not rich enough to provide a good life for her...get more jobs and make more money that you can give to her! lol

Men and woman are just too different to live together in harmony! :-)
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8708840


I know you were going for the funny angle, but that's basically what she's saying without really coming out and saying it.

Although she did make a comment once to our daughter...

"Make sure you marry into money..."

I was standing in the same room when she said that.

It hurt.
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01/12/2012 06:36 AM
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Reality TV has a truly toxic effect on the female psyche.
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I kind of agree with you there. I watch these shows and get a little jealous.

Sorry OP, hope it works out for you :)
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01/12/2012 06:46 AM
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Join the club.
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Join the club.
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Do I at least get a free t-shirt or something?

A coffee mug?
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01/12/2012 06:54 AM
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what a loser.
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what a loser.
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Thank you for that insightful comment.
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01/12/2012 07:03 AM
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what a loser.
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Thank you for that insightful comment.
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you're welcome.
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Re: I'm DONE with Marriage...
here are a few words of wisdom:

all you say below is true. But what is often ignored are the true nature of 'sex drive' which our entire modern society seems to be obsessed with. Most animals do not have sex more than a few times a year. Humans have convinced themselves that sexual gluttony is perfectly natural and healthy when it most certainly is not. Having sex a few times a year would be considered shameful by most people according to our current value system. But it's not unlike most unhealthy habits, the more you do it, the more you want. And it is part of the 'women empowerment' movement because the simple fact is there is not much else women have to offer men- and the other simple fact is they rely on everything from us. Their traditional charms and enticements have been completely abandoned in favor of this bitching, whoring, sex-machine type that never lives up to the advertisements.

therefore: you want to be happy, don't buy into this sex-crazyness that is shoved down your throats 24/7. Ever notice how often on TV they have to mention explicitly how often this or that couple is having sex? it's not by accident.

just put it down, work on your own happiness. try to avoid negative emotions and negative outlooks. Don't let these horrible women run your life. Avoid them- they only can have influence over you if you let them.




American women have been TRAINED by incessant brainwashing through TV, music, magazines, THEIR FRIENDS, etc... to view men as DISPOSABLE, and easily REPLACEABLE. And due to the fact that most men nowadays are nothing more than a horny dick, it is true.

There are 100 wolves in line, to screw your wife just as soon as she is single again... Or.... even BEFORE she is single again. Some men actually GET OFF on that, evil as it may be.

And women have been brainwashed into craving a never-ending "infatuation phase", which is simply NOT possible. Do you know that rush tha you feel when you first fal in love with someone? I call it the infatuation phase, and women nowadays are CONSTANTLY looking to create that feeling, because they have been BRAINWASHED into feeling as if it's normal for tha to be the norm throughout the relationship.

And it IS normal, if your relationships only last 6 months.

Fact is, the infatuation phase normally lasts from around 3 to 6 months, and if you are lucky, a year. but beyond that, there is RARELY anyway to CREATE that initial excitement all over again. and yet women (being the unreasonable creatures that they are) EXPECT that.

You may be the most entertaining and interesting guy in the world, but given enough time, a woman will get bored with you, and start looking for someone else to create that spark all over again. And that is why women really view men as disposable, and eventually do not even EXPECT a relationship to last long.

A woman expects YOU to be funny, interesting, and entertaining, going into a relation, and to MAINTAIN that interest from them, even after they have grown used to you. And yet they offer NOTHING in return, because women realize that they can have the personality of a codfish, or be a total bitch, and still attract men, just because of looks, and the fact that foolish men are driven by hormones.

It used to be, when a woman became bored with you, she still loved you enough to stay in a relationship, and put effort into making it work. But now they just crave that infatuation phase feeling, and expect it to continue indefinitely, which simply is NOT realistic.

No wonder there are so many women who think all men are douche bags, even though these same men were a "one-in-a-million" (according to these same women) for the first year of their relationships.
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Sorry to hear it man.

Sounds like you both want different things. Have you tried hitting her with the truth about the world we live in? It will rock her world and she will care less and less about material bullshit
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 830513


She has her head in the sand when it comes to world affairs.

I've lost a few jobs over the past few years (layoffs which were not fault of my own), and yet somehow was made to feel it was my fault by little comments she made every so often.

She's lucky she hasn't lost her job yet. She's had the same job the entire time through this recession/depression most of us have been experiencing.

Like I said, she's been living in fantasy reality land.

She has no clue about domestic and/or international politics; the things happening that are affecting people's day-to-day lives.

She's oblivious to all of it.
 Quoting: Blue Dwarf


you obviously haven't heard about the Mancession.

all of these little 'perks' we designed to make things 'equal' actually completely fucked over men. Men are waking up though.
Blue Dwarf  (OP)

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Sorry to hear it man.

Sounds like you both want different things. Have you tried hitting her with the truth about the world we live in? It will rock her world and she will care less and less about material bullshit
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 830513


She has her head in the sand when it comes to world affairs.

I've lost a few jobs over the past few years (layoffs which were not fault of my own), and yet somehow was made to feel it was my fault by little comments she made every so often.

She's lucky she hasn't lost her job yet. She's had the same job the entire time through this recession/depression most of us have been experiencing.

Like I said, she's been living in fantasy reality land.

She has no clue about domestic and/or international politics; the things happening that are affecting people's day-to-day lives.

She's oblivious to all of it.
 Quoting: Blue Dwarf


you obviously haven't heard about the Mancession.

all of these little 'perks' we designed to make things 'equal' actually completely fucked over men. Men are waking up though.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8710135


Actually no, I hadn't heard about that.

Reading about it right now.

I feel a bit red in the face for not hearing about this coined term before; my nose is always in the news.
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You need to learn to pump and dump.
FYI. I will probably pump and dump your wife when she is single.
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What's she look like?
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TOXIC...

Yep...All media brings out envy...jeolousy...eventually.
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Re: I'm DONE with Marriage...
cut off all access to the money, make her live on hers alone
move out, make her live alone
take legal action removing all responsiblity for her
pray
if things don't change in a year, divorce

divorce may not be biblical, but most don't follow the bible choosing a mate

nowhere does it say that you have to stay in a relationship
to your destuction
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You need to learn to pump and dump.
FYI. I will probably pump and dump your wife when she is single.
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you mean "Fuck'em and Chuck'em".
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OP..Im a woman, and from my point of view..those reality shows are cancer.

Honestly, if I were you..here is what I would do.


*Plan a romantic dinner, that YOU cooked, since you are a chef.
Surprise her with candles and rose petals on a lovely table cloth. A bottle of good champagne on ice.

*Turn on some soft music. Unplug the damn tv.

*Sit down and eat and drink and relax. Toast your marriage.

*Then look her in the eyes and TELL her from your heart how much it hurts.

If that doesnt work..then she's too far gone :)

Good luck to you, sir.
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verysad
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OP..Im a woman, and from my point of view..those reality shows are cancer.

Honestly, if I were you..here is what I would do.


*Plan a romantic dinner, that YOU cooked, since you are a chef.
Surprise her with candles and rose petals on a lovely table cloth. A bottle of good champagne on ice.

*Turn on some soft music. Unplug the damn tv.

*Sit down and eat and drink and relax. Toast your marriage.

*Then look her in the eyes and TELL her from your heart how much it hurts.

If that doesnt work..then she's too far gone :)

Good luck to you, sir.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6993099


hahahahaha.

worst post in the thread.

what this man needs is a divorce lawyer and new pussy.
Blue Dwarf  (OP)

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OP..Im a woman, and from my point of view..those reality shows are cancer.

Honestly, if I were you..here is what I would do.


*Plan a romantic dinner, that YOU cooked, since you are a chef.
Surprise her with candles and rose petals on a lovely table cloth. A bottle of good champagne on ice.

*Turn on some soft music. Unplug the damn tv.

*Sit down and eat and drink and relax. Toast your marriage.

*Then look her in the eyes and TELL her from your heart how much it hurts.

If that doesnt work..then she's too far gone :)

Good luck to you, sir.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6993099


Thank you, this is something I will definitely consider.

I'm at the point now where I'm willing to try anything.

Yes, I think it's worth saving.

She's not a bad person by any means.
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You need to learn to pump and dump.
FYI. I will probably pump and dump your wife when she is single.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1470741


you mean "Fuck'em and Chuck'em".
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8710135


Exactly.
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*Plan a romantic dinner, that YOU cooked, since you are a chef.
Surprise her with candles and rose petals on a lovely table cloth. A bottle of good champagne on ice.

*Turn on some soft music. Unplug the damn tv.

*Sit down and eat and drink and relax. Toast your marriage.

*Then look her in the eyes and TELL her from your heart how much it hurts.

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6993099


wtflmao
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*Plan a romantic dinner, that YOU cooked, since you are a chef.
Surprise her with candles and rose petals on a lovely table cloth. A bottle of good champagne on ice.

*Turn on some soft music. Unplug the damn tv.

*Sit down and eat and drink and relax. Toast your marriage.

*Then look her in the eyes and TELL her from your heart how much it hurts.

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6993099


wtflmao
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1284566


Oh God! For some reason this is just KILLING me picturing this! LMFAO!
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i feel sorry for you.

maybe tell her the tv is broken (or destroy it by yourself).

then watch how she reacts. for me it sounds like a addiction and not the loss of love.


peace
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*Plan a romantic dinner, that YOU cooked, since you are a chef.
Surprise her with candles and rose petals on a lovely table cloth. A bottle of good champagne on ice.

*Turn on some soft music. Unplug the damn tv.

*Sit down and eat and drink and relax. Toast your marriage.

*Commence the Airing of Grievances.





GLP