I'm DONE with Marriage...

Reality TV has a truly toxic effect on the female psyche.

American women have been TRAINED by incessant brainwashing through TV, music, magazines, THEIR FRIENDS, etc... to view men as DISPOSABLE, and easily REPLACEABLE. And due to the fact that most men nowadays are nothing more than a horny dick, it is true.

There are 100 wolves in line, to screw your wife just as soon as she is single again... Or.... even BEFORE she is single again. Some men actually GET OFF on that, evil as it may be.

And women have been brainwashed into craving a never-ending "infatuation phase", which is simply NOT possible. Do you know that rush tha you feel when you first fal in love with someone? I call it the infatuation phase, and women nowadays are CONSTANTLY looking to create that feeling, because they have been BRAINWASHED into feeling as if it's normal for tha to be the norm throughout the relationship.

And it IS normal, if your relationships only last 6 months.

Fact is, the infatuation phase normally lasts from around 3 to 6 months, and if you are lucky, a year. but beyond that, there is RARELY anyway to CREATE that initial excitement all over again. and yet women (being the unreasonable creatures that they are) EXPECT that.

You may be the most entertaining and interesting guy in the world, but given enough time, a woman will get bored with you, and start looking for someone else to create that spark all over again. And that is why women really view men as disposable, and eventually do not even EXPECT a relationship to last long.

A woman expects YOU to be funny, interesting, and entertaining, going into a relation, and to MAINTAIN that interest from them, even after they have grown used to you. And yet they offer NOTHING in return, because women realize that they can have the personality of a codfish, or be a total bitch, and still attract men, just because of looks, and the fact that foolish men are driven by hormones.

It used to be, when a woman became bored with you, she still loved you enough to stay in a relationship, and put effort into making it work. But now they just crave that infatuation phase feeling, and expect it to continue indefinitely, which simply is NOT realistic.

No wonder there are so many women who think all men are douche bags, even though these same men were a "one-in-a-million" (according to these same women) for the first year of their relationships.

I've met plenty of women, toots.

And after 50 years of living, I' would have to be an IDIOT to NOT be jaded by what these American women have become. That is why I've been married now, to a woman I met 5 years ago overseas.

I'm totally content, and can see myself with this person for the rest of my life. I was VER specific in the FIRST TWO WORD of my post, about what women I was referring to. And like i said, I would have to be an idiot, t NOT be jaded about America women.

What kind of LIAR would even TRY to claim that American women AREN'T the most spoiled, unrealistic, and selfish women in the world?


"I hope you open yourself up enough to actually meet some of these women one day!"

Hey, thanks for the sentiment, but it's too late. I already DID find the right women, but it sure as hell wasn't here in THIS country.

Sorry to hear it man.

Sounds like you both want different things. Have you tried hitting her with the truth about the world we live in? It will rock her world and she will care less and less about material bullshit

Her problem is that you're not rich enough to provide a good life for her...get more jobs and make more money that you can give to her! lol

Men and woman are just too different to live together in harmony! :-)

Reality TV has a truly toxic effect on the female psyche.

Join the club.

what a loser.

Thank you for that insightful comment.

American women have been TRAINED by incessant brainwashing through TV, music, magazines, THEIR FRIENDS, etc... to view men as DISPOSABLE, and easily REPLACEABLE. And due to the fact that most men nowadays are nothing more than a horny dick, it is true.

There are 100 wolves in line, to screw your wife just as soon as she is single again... Or.... even BEFORE she is single again. Some men actually GET OFF on that, evil as it may be.

And women have been brainwashed into craving a never-ending "infatuation phase", which is simply NOT possible. Do you know that rush tha you feel when you first fal in love with someone? I call it the infatuation phase, and women nowadays are CONSTANTLY looking to create that feeling, because they have been BRAINWASHED into feeling as if it's normal for tha to be the norm throughout the relationship.

And it IS normal, if your relationships only last 6 months.

Fact is, the infatuation phase normally lasts from around 3 to 6 months, and if you are lucky, a year. but beyond that, there is RARELY anyway to CREATE that initial excitement all over again. and yet women (being the unreasonable creatures that they are) EXPECT that.

You may be the most entertaining and interesting guy in the world, but given enough time, a woman will get bored with you, and start looking for someone else to create that spark all over again. And that is why women really view men as disposable, and eventually do not even EXPECT a relationship to last long.

A woman expects YOU to be funny, interesting, and entertaining, going into a relation, and to MAINTAIN that interest from them, even after they have grown used to you. And yet they offer NOTHING in return, because women realize that they can have the personality of a codfish, or be a total bitch, and still attract men, just because of looks, and the fact that foolish men are driven by hormones.

It used to be, when a woman became bored with you, she still loved you enough to stay in a relationship, and put effort into making it work. But now they just crave that infatuation phase feeling, and expect it to continue indefinitely, which simply is NOT realistic.

No wonder there are so many women who think all men are douche bags, even though these same men were a "one-in-a-million" (according to these same women) for the first year of their relationships.

She has her head in the sand when it comes to world affairs.

I've lost a few jobs over the past few years (layoffs which were not fault of my own), and yet somehow was made to feel it was my fault by little comments she made every so often.

She's lucky she hasn't lost her job yet. She's had the same job the entire time through this recession/depression most of us have been experiencing.

Like I said, she's been living in fantasy reality land.

She has no clue about domestic and/or international politics; the things happening that are affecting people's day-to-day lives.

She's oblivious to all of it.

you obviously haven't heard about the Mancession.

all of these little 'perks' we designed to make things 'equal' actually completely fucked over men. Men are waking up though.

You need to learn to pump and dump.
FYI. I will probably pump and dump your wife when she is single.

OP..Im a woman, and from my point of view..those reality shows are cancer.

Honestly, if I were you..here is what I would do.


*Plan a romantic dinner, that YOU cooked, since you are a chef.
Surprise her with candles and rose petals on a lovely table cloth. A bottle of good champagne on ice.

*Turn on some soft music. Unplug the damn tv.

*Sit down and eat and drink and relax. Toast your marriage.

*Then look her in the eyes and TELL her from your heart how much it hurts.

If that doesnt work..then she's too far gone :)

Good luck to you, sir.

OP..Im a woman, and from my point of view..those reality shows are cancer.

Honestly, if I were you..here is what I would do.


*Plan a romantic dinner, that YOU cooked, since you are a chef.
Surprise her with candles and rose petals on a lovely table cloth. A bottle of good champagne on ice.

*Turn on some soft music. Unplug the damn tv.

*Sit down and eat and drink and relax. Toast your marriage.

*Then look her in the eyes and TELL her from your heart how much it hurts.

If that doesnt work..then she's too far gone :)

Good luck to you, sir.

you mean "Fuck'em and Chuck'em".

*Plan a romantic dinner, that YOU cooked, since you are a chef.
Surprise her with candles and rose petals on a lovely table cloth. A bottle of good champagne on ice.

*Turn on some soft music. Unplug the damn tv.

*Sit down and eat and drink and relax. Toast your marriage.

*Then look her in the eyes and TELL her from your heart how much it hurts.