I completely concur. But, you know my take. People like to push the fore (lead dog)position to someone they believe fulfills the criteria in that they see them as an action reaction persona from without, without taking into account that there is a more complicated game going on underneath.

Rather than people gravitating, they are groomed and we repeat the fallacy of external completion.





You gotta lift it for you. If you push for everyone you just end up with a hernia.