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Message Subject Am quitting my job the workplace bullying is unbelivable
Poster Handle Renaissance Woman
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I left a job because of bullying by a control freak, they get off on mind games
and will think up ways to upset you and dominate you. Dont get angry and
answer back its what they want, a fight verbally, just smile and walk away
that disarms them more than anything. They just want to feel important
cos I think they are unloved individuals wanting attention.

It was all a huge ego trip, the person controlling and bullying is full of fear
and must have control. To belittle someone else to make themselves feel
big is really a coward behind it all that has no self respect for himself or
others. They have the problem not you.

Do the dignified thing and dont sink to their level, just quietly walk out
and leave, dont retaliate they just get off on it even more because they
have had the power to upset you and get to you.

Dont work for miserable bastards its just not worth it - they will not and
cannot change their behaviour, they will point the finger at you not
realising that the fault lies within themselves and will blame everyone else
but themselves.

What goes around comes around - karma no-one gets away with anything.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5568504


I had to quit my church music ministry for very similar circumstances. Yes, I was a volunteer in a Christian organization and suffered this nonsense! I stayed as long as I could out of passion for the music and my well-intentioned goal of fixing the problem for others. In the end, TPTB viciously shot the messenger (me), which seemed easier for them, I guess. Karma, however, has been swift. They have lost a number of committed people who offered so many talents, time, and money throughout the organization (which also describes me). The bully in question has ruffled the feathers of the wife of one of TPTB (oh the drama!). And TPTB have suffered an ego-busting set-back recently in their biggest endeavor to date.

Insecure bullies and petty tyrants exist in every type of organization. I guess it's human nature.

OP, get out and give yourself some time to heal. You don't have to put up with that junk. Sorry to say, it may take longer than you think to detox your psyche. Take care of yourself!
 
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