TIPS ON DATING

lol

ok will do.

try and try again.

Seriously?

I was ranting to a lady friend, and, basically, I said I might as well go up to them and say something like, Can I lick you until you cum all over my face?... and she actually thought this approach WOULD probably garner me more interest than what happened in your examples.

I'm just saying... we get really really desperate when our low key lines (Do you have a light?) fall on uncomprehending ears.

Can I lick your pussy?

Why is that any worse than anything else? At least you won't get caught in the dreaded FRIEND ZONE!! (garlic & crucifixes) Even if she rejects you, maybe her friend will appreciate your audacity?




With where women are these days,...

nevermind, i was just going to go on ranting...

bummed

as a child my teeth were terrible, became very very self concious of it, braces the headgear hole bit.

it fix them as far as bringing them together, still have a minor overbite, but thats only because i made the orthadontist take my braces off 1 year early, my mother said no but i was very rebelious and she ended up letting them do it.

young naive and stupid...lol

if i only had some patience i, more than likely, would have gained the extreme confidence in flashing a smile at every woman that past me.....lol


a trip to the dentist is warranted though yes, been a while, so expensive though those pricks..

i usually just use that money for my son to go only.
im 40 soon so......neglect has been an issue yes.

all advice is being taken in


a serial rapist though i am not...lol

of all the things this world needs to do without rape is one of them 100%

do i really look like an evil rapist ?
wow...lol interesting

Sounds to me like you were looking for an excuse to say no, otherwise you would have been relieved to have a chance at a date pop up like that.

He didn't look / smell good enough.

OP I wouldn't take this as advice to spend time on ski slopes.

Here's my deal. What I bring to the table is just as much for me as it is for him. For one thing, I love him unconditionally and I am loyal. I stand by him in good times and in tough times. I do this just as much for me as I do for him. I have to be true to myself to exist in this world of deceit and lies. I know that no matter what, if I always try to do the right thing, I cannot fail myself, nor will I fail him. I also understand that I cannot control anyone, let alone him. He is free to do whatever he wants and he knows that I would never hold him back from anything. So we allow each other to grow and to be who we are meant to be. I would never want to lose him, but if I ever did, I would have no guilt that it was over something I did, like betrayal or something you cannot take back. I would have no disappointment in myself that I didn't try harder and most importantly, no regrets. When we've come across hard times we deal with it. Luckily, we have more good times than bad. I honor him by respecting him and always encouraging him to be who he is meant to be. Growing and change process can be difficult for anyone and it can be painful at times, but because we both understand this process, we have had great success in staying unified and together and in helping each other.

we both fall at times. we both help each other up.

I trust him. And I trust him more now than ever because of his willingness to come to me when he has fucked up. He could have chosen to not tell me certain things, but he had the character and the balls to be the man he is and confide in me when he did something wrong. I too have done the same, and in this process you are less likely to fuck the other person over again if you know you have personal accountability for your actions. Some people call it integrity. Its just simple honesty and being human enough to admit when you've been wrong. Its what ultimately bonds you together, because no relationship is perfect, we all make mistakes, but its how we live and treat each other going forward that counts.

So yeah, I bring quite a bit to the table, and if anything should ever happen to me, or I pass on before him from a disease, I have no doubt that some woman out there will be blessed to meet him and be with him, if she so chooses... at least that is my hope, that someone would care for and honor him the way I did until the end of days. That's what love does to you, you just want the absolute best for the person you love, even after you are long gone.

'Ladies' is an address teenage males use when referring to women. Perhaps it reflects respect for their mothers.

Adult men call females "women"

Don't worry about the looks, much easier to fix the smell which really matters more to females anyway.

Pheromones were recommended in a recent thread.

you missed the point entirely...

If you are engaging in activities that you like, it is a win-win situation, because, for one thing, you are doing a hobby you enjoy, like skiing, and if you happen to meet someone doing that hobby, then you already share a love/passion for that same thing.

some of you people are seriously questionable and it is no wonder you are single.

hobbies/activities you like = meeting people that share the same passions/likes = potential relationships.

its not rocket science.

No, the "basic criteria" list is bullshit. Females decide in the first few minutes, or seconds, if they're interested in fucking you. They feel one way, or the other.

All that list is full of excuses for whatever decision they (females) have already made. They probably don't just give incorrect information to you, they seem to lie to themselves too.

Hence, since it's not intentionally untrue, but unintentionally so, I don't say they lie to you.

I've been married 15 years, still going strong, if I'm questionable I'm nevertheless successful. Actually I don't care if you think I am questionable.

As for the advice to spend time on a hobby you enjoy, as long as it happens to be outdoorsy or whatever skiing is that appeals, OP probably is satisfied with his current hobbies and is looking for something that works for the specific purpose, not to do a personality change.

OP, your picture looks fine. And your teeth look fine. Like I said, just make sure from this day forward to always brush (especially after smoking, lol) and to do the best you can to take care of you. Remember, when you look like you got your sh*t togther, the world (and women) will also thing that.

My idea of the perfect looking man (aside from my hubby) is Mark Ruffalo. I don't know what it is about him, but he has a sexy quietness and his looks are almost messy in some ways. He exudes a warm and friendly demeanor. Of course I do not know him personally, but he just carries himself in a way that he seems very down to earth.

Most women like men that are a little unshaven at times, we like it when men have little flaws and imperfections.

You have no need to feel insecure. Be genuine and kind, that is what counts.

I can agree with all that from my experience. Nice guys can be successful, it doesn't hurt. May also not help, but there's no need to pretend to be a badass (or anything else requiring so much effort or thought) when you're not.

not sure what you are going on about, I was just giving OP advice and examples.

I did not say my way was the only way. But I've always had great success in meeting people throughout my life and never used online dating crap. Real people, doing real things.

If you don't like what I posted for OP, just skip by my posts, they were not intended for you anyway.

yes, seriously !

it is nothing i am proud of, i call myself stupid for letting another chance of maybe meeting mr right go by !
but it is as it is..
i am single for nearly 5 years now and i do not want to be. but maybe i lately realized why i am: because i do not notice when someone tries to make contact the nice way!

i remember being asked some years ago at a club " wanna fu**?" by a stranger - this was so direct and in-your-face, i had to smile and say no (was there with my former boyfriend) but appreciated that this guy asked straight away what he was looking for. he spared both of us much time with being direct. good move!

on the other hand, i met so many "nice" guys who made contact the nice way with all the talking and going out and so on, but in the end just were pickup artists just wanting me to become part of their harem.

maybe that´s why i am deaf&blind for anything/anyone now ...

not going to argue with that. we know right away if the guy is getting into our bedrooms.... the list is just to weed out the troublemakers... some are worth the effort, some are not. it is what it is.

..and to the OP, when you have a date coming up:

just be well groomed, shiny teeth, short nails, smell good and be a gentleman.
don´t try to be someone you are not, don´t overact, don´t try to impress (lend porsche or something stupid like this).

real women fall for a man who is truly interested in them and cares about them. not for some shiny fancy wannabe something, unless you want to attract gold diggers.

maybe you should be happy you got home in
one piece, he could have been a serial killer or
someother kind of weirdo.
I'm glad you're ok.

I don't think I could ever date someone online.

either this or he couldn´t just get some spare time from his wife.

if someone wants you, he wants to see you. and will make it happen (why not going for dinner instead of lunch? know what i mean?).

this man is not free- he already has a relationship and just wants some fun with you -or maybe you and some others.

maybe thats why he is "occupied", because on his list you are just number 3 or 5 or whatever. been there.

many people, both men and women, seek out relationships with multiple people at the same time until they find one that they like. In this day and age of online activities its hard to know how many people someone is pursuing. HEck facebook is online dating for married people... so many people on there that are already involved or married and are putting out the 'signals' that they are 'available'

I'd hate to be looking for love these days. Its sounds depressing from what most people write/complain about.

lol really

well now i know why my ex always wanted me clean shaven.

ever thought of moving to canada? lol

Hi, it's me again.

Since the real decision criteria are things that can be assessed "right away" on meeting someone, let me ask what they are.

I propose that it is: looks (including estimate of wealth, and height -- taller man desired though maybe not vastly taller) and smell.

If the guy says something in a nice relaxed way, that can be "sense of humor" or something, but that's all that could possibly be known right away, I'd think.

yes, but don´t have enough money or job over there ! so quite difficult in moving..

Just curious as to what the women should be in all this? I see you have the man you are looking for all planned out.

Do you have a list of your qualifications handy?

lol

maybe we can work things out ?

lol


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Ask questions OP? Lot's, feel out what she likes and go from there. When you find out you both have something in common and you're happy about it, things will probably take off from there. Worked on me as a women.

So cute! Online love connections.... Good luck, OP and Phoenixe