Wife of 23 years cheated on me, should I divorce? | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26928214 Canada 11/12/2012 03:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Jento User ID: 27314653 United States 11/12/2012 03:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She was always faithful, hard worker, great mother. I don't think I can trust her even though I feel she would never do it again. Nobody else can believe she did it neither. She had her tubes crossed at doctor request, she claims it made her crazy. Sounds lame to me, but I love her, can't stand it with or without her now. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043 Dude, I feel your pain...sort of. I've walked in a gf cheating on me. And have had a few others cheat on me. I have no bigger fear than finding out my current gf (and the love of my life) cheated on me. TBH I have no idea what I would do in your situation but you probably should divorce. And I doubt having your tubes tied will make a women crazy. Wouldn't that reduce the hormones in her system? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27175055 United States 11/12/2012 03:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just once?? I think you should be alright jack. Lest you want to spend the rest of your days slobbering on your own dingus. Its a cruel world out there i would recommend working shit out bro. Cool story tho bro. I got cheated on more times than i can count but thats only cuz I havent learned what comes after 8 yet. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 17952043 United States 11/12/2012 03:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I might add there is still a 9 yr old to raise. Always felt it important to be raised with both the mom and dad in the house. I am sort of old fashioned conservative in that way. Can't see my child ever being raised by someone whom may not share my values. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 26945271 United States 11/12/2012 03:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She was always faithful, hard worker, great mother. I don't think I can trust her even though I feel she would never do it again. Nobody else can believe she did it neither. She had her tubes crossed at doctor request, she claims it made her crazy. Sounds lame to me, but I love her, can't stand it with or without her now. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043 You love her. Shit happens. Grow up. Get over it. Move on. Choose to be happy. This is wise advice, above. Don't piss on it. |
closing eyes User ID: 24721119 United States 11/12/2012 03:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I might add there is still a 9 yr old to raise. Always felt it important to be raised with both the mom and dad in the house. I am sort of old fashioned conservative in that way. Can't see my child ever being raised by someone whom may not share my values. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043 If you do leave her, some other man will raise your child. Hard decision! If you woke up breathing, you have another chance! |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 17952043 United States 11/12/2012 04:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's 43, I am 46. I got her as a virgin, never dreamed she would cheat, especially this late in the game. I was always faithful, had plenty of opportunity to step out but I never did. Family was always what kept me in line. I would feel a sucker if I let her back in. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1342948 United States 11/12/2012 04:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I might add there is still a 9 yr old to raise. Always felt it important to be raised with both the mom and dad in the house. I am sort of old fashioned conservative in that way. Can't see my child ever being raised by someone whom may not share my values. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043 If you do leave her, some other man will raise your child. Hard decision! Not necessarily. OP, prove what she did in court and you will raise that child. Don't let her get by with this. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1516077 United States 11/12/2012 04:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3696169 United States 11/12/2012 04:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's 43, I am 46. I got her as a virgin, never dreamed she would cheat, especially this late in the game. I was always faithful, had plenty of opportunity to step out but I never did. Family was always what kept me in line. I would feel a sucker if I let her back in. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043 At 46 your not going to be a desired food item if you what I mean. If she is sorry OP? Work it out. Don't sex her right away either, give it time and it will be good again. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 4714791 United States 11/12/2012 04:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here is the real kicker, always had a past love who is quite successful and worships the ground I walk on. She has more love for me then my wife ever had, and she (wife) loves me dearly also. I am just stunned over the events the last couple months. I don't know to shit or go blind. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043 So you've been having an emotional affair your whole marriage. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 17952043 United States 11/12/2012 04:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The court of law cares not if a spouse is unfaithful. Decimation is possible in 5 states but all that gets you is money if you can prove the cheating spouse was spending money on the cheater. Like a guy providing some bimbo diamonds or something like that, which doesn't apply in my case anyways. |
Jento User ID: 27314653 United States 11/12/2012 04:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here is the real kicker, always had a past love who is quite successful and worships the ground I walk on. She has more love for me then my wife ever had, and she (wife) loves me dearly also. I am just stunned over the events the last couple months. I don't know to shit or go blind. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043 So you've been having an emotional affair your whole marriage. No, he stated that the women is still in love with him, not that he is still in love with her. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 4714791 United States 11/12/2012 04:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here is the real kicker, always had a past love who is quite successful and worships the ground I walk on. She has more love for me then my wife ever had, and she (wife) loves me dearly also. I am just stunned over the events the last couple months. I don't know to shit or go blind. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17952043 So you've been having an emotional affair your whole marriage. No, he stated that the women is still in love with him, not that he is still in love with her. How would he know that unless he kept in very close contact with her? It would have to be pretty intimate if he thinks/knows she loves him more than his wife does. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 17952043 United States 11/12/2012 04:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, everyone doesn't cheat, I never did and I had opportunities. I could be sacked up with a very successful women living the good life. My family meant more but now she has done the unthinkable to me and her own child. It's not all about me. The 9 yr old is my reason for being when it comes down to it. |
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