I am a Sex Surrogate, you have questions?

Older cultures would laugh at our strict definitions of sexual orientation. I suspect future cultures will as well. Well, they already are starting to...

Whatever takes you and your partner into sexual ecstasy, should be explored. I am just the tool to open new horizons of passion.

LOL..omg..This is painful to watch...

There you go again...

So you like read a book?

for any degree everybody has to take a psych course at minimum level here in the US

meaning that it means nothing.

Alright.

A Blow by Blow.

Names are of course changed to protect clients.


Lets take couple Jakob and Carla, from Berlin. Jakob is 24 and Carla is 21. Jakob is a typical young German male who went to Gymnasium and University and now works in the Berlin's financial sector. He has had quite a few relationships in school but these have been done under peer pressure. He doesn't look he just likes to close his eyes and push in, a quick method of sex he learned by way of doing it under the nose of his peers in swimming pools and the like.

To complicate matters, Jakob is dealing with a pornography addiction at the same time he is seeing Carla. He knows the female vagina intimately from what he has seen on scene, but he is scared of it in real life: the smell, the feel of it, etc... His pornography has taught him to idolize and feat the vagina. He doesn't need to physically touch it to be aroused by it. And he doesn't want to now. He just wants to close his eyes and push in.

This is not good enough for Carla, who desires more intimacy. Although, she too has her issues. I find that because the males are not intimate, the females are afraid to be and do not push them like they should.

But Carla wants Jacob to feel the parts of her Vagina. She wants him to press apart the vaginal opening and rub his fingers confidently over sensitive clitoral hood and down onto the clitoris. She wants a great deal of stimulation as he works his way down, around and inside.

Jacob would not do this and so I showed him how. Carla was placed on the demonstration sofa her clothes and panties removed while I proceeded to work on her vagina while Jacob watched.

Jacob needed to see how turned on Carla become by my actions. This is what the partners need to see.

That's the spirit.

Is Dr. Joseph in? (Background: *Moaning*) I'm sorry he's with a patient.

Oh, Ok. Will he be available this afternoon? (Background: You can do it honey! *Moan* I can see the clitorious swelling)

I`ll have to look at his schedule, one moment please. (Background: *Moan* Now see her facial expressions as I move my fingers in this direction, Mr. Jones? *Moan*)

Yes, good news, he'll be available at four. (Background: *Moan*)

Ok, thanks I`ll be back at 3:45!

You have the basic jist of it, although there are often times serious psychological undertones that we have to deal with, that you are brushing off.

But I will instruct throughout the session for the benefit of the couple. And there is a certain method that must be followed so that A) the partners will be willing to engage in the techniques I show them when I am not around and B) they do it without enough pleasure that they continue to do it throughout their relationship.

It takes a couple that is willing to learn and who both realize that sexual exploration is a critical component to a healthy and long-lasting relationship.