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Soul mates
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What if you find that "soul mate" but yet he is taken?
It is so hard not to compare everyone else to the feelings the "one" evokes.
That is my dilemma. The one I have found will never be mine but I can't stop comparing others to him.
Quoting: NothingFancy I am in the exact place. I don't know how to cope...move on. How long have you known this soul mate? Have you let them know how you feel? Or because they are with someone, you backed away? Do you still talk to them? How the hell do you cope? Does he show he feels the same way? And if he's taken, do you assume if he stays with her, he probably doesn't feel the same way? I have known him a little over two years. He is my best friend. We talk all the time. He has been there for me for every obstacle and every problem in this time period. I do not know what I would do without him. I told him how I felt and then backed off. I didn't want the friendship to be under false pretenses. I stopped talking to him for well over a week and he contacted me because he missed our friendship. I do not know how he feels. He isn't the "emotional" type. I honestly don't ask questions that I may not like to hear the answers to. Therefore, I accept the boundaries and wish for what may be. Maybe someday. Is regret or rejection better to live with? That's the question I deal with. I posted another thread on how to move on from a soul connection, and it seems like it impossible at the moment. As someone else respond, accepting "What Is" is a VERY hard. And not being able to tell him how I feel kills me. I feel like if he rejects me, I can move on. But since he's a taken man, I feel like it's wrong to even tell him. In my case, I am able to tell how I feel, but that doesn't help... she feels the same way (she said once she felt we were like one soul) but just chooses not to do anything with those feelings. It's 18 years ago since I first met her (which was accompanied by a shock, and an immediate recognition on both sides).
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