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Manu-Koelbren User ID: 1312616 Spain 12/08/2012 11:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And if a man had that, would you pursue him, or still expect him to do all the chasing? Sure...as much as I am able to. My life is pretty busy so relationships aren't top priority to me, but I would have no problem pursuing someone if I had the time. TBH I don't think women had to do the pursuing. I like random spontaneous things, like those encounters that are just natural and both people are cool and friendly with each other and if there is attraction I think the woman should hint a bit of it, not too much but just enough so that the man knows that if he goes further he won't be crossing any wrong lines, but when the signal is there the man should be the one leading. But for some women maybe this is just too boring and predictable, some chicks like to play hard and be all stuck up and have the man acting all pushy to demonstrate his interest and sort of seduce her and finally push her into wanting him. All granted the guy is attractive to her in the first place. Of course in these situations the lines are so blurry that some dude who is not attractive in the first place may think he actually is and then you get a shit situation. I prefer the civilized way, a bit more innocent maybe, not so "on the edge" but I think it just works better overall. Banned as usual. “It is far easier to be a weakling than to be a Real Man. Were the Earth less harsh or the circumstances of life less austere, man would destroy himself before the shrine of the languid goddess. Only Real Men can with safety destroy the tangled forests and wilderness of Earth and make from them gardens, but will those who inherit the gardens be Real Men? The law decrees that they must be, or the wilderness will reclaim its own.” |
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IndigoSerenity76 User ID: 26030910 United States 12/08/2012 11:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And if a man had that, would you pursue him, or still expect him to do all the chasing? Sure...as much as I am able to. My life is pretty busy so relationships aren't top priority to me, but I would have no problem pursuing someone if I had the time. TBH I don't think women had to do the pursuing. I like random spontaneous things, like those encounters that are just natural and both people are cool and friendly with each other and if there is attraction I think the woman should hint a bit of it, not too much but just enough so that the man knows that if he goes further he won't be crossing any wrong lines, but when the signal is there the man should be the one leading. But for some women maybe this is just too boring and predictable, some chicks like to play hard and be all stuck up and have the man acting all pushy to demonstrate his interest and sort of seduce her and finally push her into wanting him. All granted the guy is attractive to her in the first place. Of course in these situations the lines are so blurry that some dude who is not attractive in the first place may think he actually is and then you get a shit situation. I prefer the civilized way, a bit more innocent maybe, not so "on the edge" but I think it just works better overall. Yeah, I agree. I don't play games. A lot of people do. I just figure, whatever happens, happens. "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |
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Manu-Koelbren User ID: 1312616 Spain 12/08/2012 11:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Down Under Wonder 29257489 And if a man had that, would you pursue him, or still expect him to do all the chasing? Sure...as much as I am able to. My life is pretty busy so relationships aren't top priority to me, but I would have no problem pursuing someone if I had the time. TBH I don't think women had to do the pursuing. I like random spontaneous things, like those encounters that are just natural and both people are cool and friendly with each other and if there is attraction I think the woman should hint a bit of it, not too much but just enough so that the man knows that if he goes further he won't be crossing any wrong lines, but when the signal is there the man should be the one leading. But for some women maybe this is just too boring and predictable, some chicks like to play hard and be all stuck up and have the man acting all pushy to demonstrate his interest and sort of seduce her and finally push her into wanting him. All granted the guy is attractive to her in the first place. Of course in these situations the lines are so blurry that some dude who is not attractive in the first place may think he actually is and then you get a shit situation. I prefer the civilized way, a bit more innocent maybe, not so "on the edge" but I think it just works better overall. Yeah, I agree. I don't play games. A lot of people do. I just figure, whatever happens, happens. Another thing is that many chicks who are attractive and know it automatically treat every man with contempt without actually knowing if the guy is even attracted to her or not. For instance I have a very particular taste with women, you may be hot for some dudes and do nothing at all for me. Yet I get chicks at work that act all stuck up with me and Im thinking, I know why you're doing this and all but I totally don't dig you so you could just totally save it. That's why it's important to be nice to people and wait for the signs and then you can be cool about it, if there's common attraction you can try something, if not you can just make it known and if someone gets offended, well bad luck for that person but that's not your fault. Last Edited by Manu-K on 12/08/2012 11:52 PM Banned as usual. “It is far easier to be a weakling than to be a Real Man. Were the Earth less harsh or the circumstances of life less austere, man would destroy himself before the shrine of the languid goddess. Only Real Men can with safety destroy the tangled forests and wilderness of Earth and make from them gardens, but will those who inherit the gardens be Real Men? The law decrees that they must be, or the wilderness will reclaim its own.” |
Manu-Koelbren User ID: 1312616 Spain 12/08/2012 11:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Are there women who are not either addicted to creating drama, have some child abuse issue that give them weird emotional imbalances, or are basically manipulative bitches who wish abuse you economically? Do they exist? Quoting: Manu-Koelbren We do :) Yeah nevermind my post, I know there's cool chicks out there. Not many but there's not too many cool human beings out there anymore either, it's not a gender thing, it's generalized. Last Edited by Manu-K on 12/08/2012 11:51 PM Banned as usual. “It is far easier to be a weakling than to be a Real Man. Were the Earth less harsh or the circumstances of life less austere, man would destroy himself before the shrine of the languid goddess. Only Real Men can with safety destroy the tangled forests and wilderness of Earth and make from them gardens, but will those who inherit the gardens be Real Men? The law decrees that they must be, or the wilderness will reclaim its own.” |
IndigoSerenity76 User ID: 26030910 United States 12/08/2012 11:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And if a man had that, would you pursue him, or still expect him to do all the chasing? If a woman pursued a man like that, he would not respect her. Just sayin' Then he would not be honest, or intelligent. Yep. Exactly. It depends how the woman is pursuing too. You can pursue someone without acting like a slut. "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |
IndigoSerenity76 User ID: 26030910 United States 12/08/2012 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: IndigoSerenity76 Sure...as much as I am able to. My life is pretty busy so relationships aren't top priority to me, but I would have no problem pursuing someone if I had the time. TBH I don't think women had to do the pursuing. I like random spontaneous things, like those encounters that are just natural and both people are cool and friendly with each other and if there is attraction I think the woman should hint a bit of it, not too much but just enough so that the man knows that if he goes further he won't be crossing any wrong lines, but when the signal is there the man should be the one leading. But for some women maybe this is just too boring and predictable, some chicks like to play hard and be all stuck up and have the man acting all pushy to demonstrate his interest and sort of seduce her and finally push her into wanting him. All granted the guy is attractive to her in the first place. Of course in these situations the lines are so blurry that some dude who is not attractive in the first place may think he actually is and then you get a shit situation. I prefer the civilized way, a bit more innocent maybe, not so "on the edge" but I think it just works better overall. Yeah, I agree. I don't play games. A lot of people do. I just figure, whatever happens, happens. Another thing is that many chicks who are attractive and know it automatically treat every man with contempt without actually knowing if the guy is even attracted to her or not. For instance I have a very particular taste with women, you may be hot for some dudes and do nothing at all for me. Yet I get chicks at work that act all stuck up with me and Im thinking, I know why you're doing this and all but I totally don't dig you so you could just totally save it. LOL, yep. Those are the ones playing games. "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27108958 United States 12/08/2012 11:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Are there women who are not either addicted to creating drama, have some child abuse issue that give them weird emotional imbalances, or are basically manipulative bitches who wish abuse you economically? Do they exist? Quoting: Manu-Koelbren Of course! You are just stuck in your own drama!!!!! I have my own dramas but IRL I don't burden other people with them. In here I discuss things because it opens up topics to debate and i know people come here for that, but IRL I dont like to burden anyone with my shit, but most people are all into that. I'm just saying there are many women who don't play these types of games. You asked if they exist - and I could hardly believe that question. Most women are really quite fabulous. And I know you are just trying to figure it all out. :PeaceB&W: |
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Manu-Koelbren User ID: 1312616 Spain 12/08/2012 11:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Manu-Koelbren TBH I don't think women had to do the pursuing. I like random spontaneous things, like those encounters that are just natural and both people are cool and friendly with each other and if there is attraction I think the woman should hint a bit of it, not too much but just enough so that the man knows that if he goes further he won't be crossing any wrong lines, but when the signal is there the man should be the one leading. But for some women maybe this is just too boring and predictable, some chicks like to play hard and be all stuck up and have the man acting all pushy to demonstrate his interest and sort of seduce her and finally push her into wanting him. All granted the guy is attractive to her in the first place. Of course in these situations the lines are so blurry that some dude who is not attractive in the first place may think he actually is and then you get a shit situation. I prefer the civilized way, a bit more innocent maybe, not so "on the edge" but I think it just works better overall. Yeah, I agree. I don't play games. A lot of people do. I just figure, whatever happens, happens. Another thing is that many chicks who are attractive and know it automatically treat every man with contempt without actually knowing if the guy is even attracted to her or not. For instance I have a very particular taste with women, you may be hot for some dudes and do nothing at all for me. Yet I get chicks at work that act all stuck up with me and Im thinking, I know why you're doing this and all but I totally don't dig you so you could just totally save it. LOL, yep. Those are the ones playing games. It's true too however that some guys will fuck anything, and women tend to think we're all like that. I am very selective with chicks, dunno why but I like a very specific type of girl, petite, curvy body , I don't like convex noses in women, at all. I always have this discussion with a buddy who does and he doesn't get me, but I can't be attracted to a girl with a convex aquiline nose. Also I like full lips and a very particular personality. I've found many Brazilian and American/Canadian girls have this personality, sort of very cool and relaxed, just friendly and receptive. I like women who like to talk because I am more of a good listener than anything. Banned as usual. “It is far easier to be a weakling than to be a Real Man. Were the Earth less harsh or the circumstances of life less austere, man would destroy himself before the shrine of the languid goddess. Only Real Men can with safety destroy the tangled forests and wilderness of Earth and make from them gardens, but will those who inherit the gardens be Real Men? The law decrees that they must be, or the wilderness will reclaim its own.” |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 29210797 United States 12/08/2012 11:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And if a man had that, would you pursue him, or still expect him to do all the chasing? If a woman pursued a man like that, he would not respect her. Just sayin' Then he would not be honest, or intelligent. Maybe different down under, but here...naw, man would not be interested. |
Manu-Koelbren User ID: 1312616 Spain 12/08/2012 11:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Are there women who are not either addicted to creating drama, have some child abuse issue that give them weird emotional imbalances, or are basically manipulative bitches who wish abuse you economically? Do they exist? Quoting: Manu-Koelbren Of course! You are just stuck in your own drama!!!!! I have my own dramas but IRL I don't burden other people with them. In here I discuss things because it opens up topics to debate and i know people come here for that, but IRL I dont like to burden anyone with my shit, but most people are all into that. I'm just saying there are many women who don't play these types of games. You asked if they exist - and I could hardly believe that question. Most women are really quite fabulous. And I know you are just trying to figure it all out. :PeaceB&W: Honestly I don't care that much anymore, it's fun talking and unraveling these issues to attain clarity but if I weren't with my gf right now I wouldn't look for a relationship at all. Banned as usual. “It is far easier to be a weakling than to be a Real Man. Were the Earth less harsh or the circumstances of life less austere, man would destroy himself before the shrine of the languid goddess. Only Real Men can with safety destroy the tangled forests and wilderness of Earth and make from them gardens, but will those who inherit the gardens be Real Men? The law decrees that they must be, or the wilderness will reclaim its own.” |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21829908 United States 12/08/2012 11:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women have sub conscious pheremone detectors. They can literally smell the following Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22788475 -lack of confidence -lack of "alpha-ness" Many women don't even know this themselves. If you are truly confident in yourself, and don't care what they think or about persuing them, you immediately become much more attractive. On the other hand, the male that reeks of desperation and neediness usually finds themselves alone. They sure seem to be excellent at sniffing out pirates, scoundrels, low-lifes, criminals, and other assorted "bad boy" scum. |
IndigoSerenity76 User ID: 26030910 United States 12/08/2012 11:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: IndigoSerenity76 Yeah, I agree. I don't play games. A lot of people do. I just figure, whatever happens, happens. Another thing is that many chicks who are attractive and know it automatically treat every man with contempt without actually knowing if the guy is even attracted to her or not. For instance I have a very particular taste with women, you may be hot for some dudes and do nothing at all for me. Yet I get chicks at work that act all stuck up with me and Im thinking, I know why you're doing this and all but I totally don't dig you so you could just totally save it. LOL, yep. Those are the ones playing games. It's true too however that some guys will fuck anything, and women tend to think we're all like that. I am very selective with chicks, dunno why but I like a very specific type of girl, petite, curvy body , I don't like convex noses in women, at all. I always have this discussion with a buddy who does and he doesn't get me, but I can't be attracted to a girl with a convex aquiline nose. Also I like full lips and a very particular personality. I've found many Brazilian and American/Canadian girls have this personality, sort of very cool and relaxed, just friendly and receptive. I like women who like to talk because I am more of a good listener than anything. Yep, a whole lot of guys will...but most women don't want guys like that. Eh...we all have our preferences. "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |
miffed User ID: 28293701 Australia 12/09/2012 12:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Are there women who are not either addicted to creating drama, have some child abuse issue that give them weird emotional imbalances, or are basically manipulative bitches who wish abuse you economically? Do they exist? Quoting: Manu-Koelbren We do :) Yeah nevermind my post, I know there's cool chicks out there. Not many but there's not too many cool human beings out there anymore either, it's not a gender thing, it's generalized. It's all good, I think it's really disheartening when men get f*cked around by stupid, immature, self centred women because it puts a bad name on the rest of us. I have seen men lose their house, car & kids because of heartless selfish bitches & can see where men get frustrated & lose hope that there ARE still some good ones out there!! |
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Manu-Koelbren User ID: 1312616 Spain 12/09/2012 12:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Manu-Koelbren Another thing is that many chicks who are attractive and know it automatically treat every man with contempt without actually knowing if the guy is even attracted to her or not. For instance I have a very particular taste with women, you may be hot for some dudes and do nothing at all for me. Yet I get chicks at work that act all stuck up with me and Im thinking, I know why you're doing this and all but I totally don't dig you so you could just totally save it. LOL, yep. Those are the ones playing games. It's true too however that some guys will fuck anything, and women tend to think we're all like that. I am very selective with chicks, dunno why but I like a very specific type of girl, petite, curvy body , I don't like convex noses in women, at all. I always have this discussion with a buddy who does and he doesn't get me, but I can't be attracted to a girl with a convex aquiline nose. Also I like full lips and a very particular personality. I've found many Brazilian and American/Canadian girls have this personality, sort of very cool and relaxed, just friendly and receptive. I like women who like to talk because I am more of a good listener than anything. Yep, a whole lot of guys will...but most women don't want guys like that. Eh...we all have our preferences. ... Quoting: Manu-Koelbren Another thing is that many chicks who are attractive and know it automatically treat every man with contempt without actually knowing if the guy is even attracted to her or not. For instance I have a very particular taste with women, you may be hot for some dudes and do nothing at all for me. Yet I get chicks at work that act all stuck up with me and Im thinking, I know why you're doing this and all but I totally don't dig you so you could just totally save it. LOL, yep. Those are the ones playing games. It's true too however that some guys will fuck anything, and women tend to think we're all like that. I am very selective with chicks, dunno why but I like a very specific type of girl, petite, curvy body , I don't like convex noses in women, at all. I always have this discussion with a buddy who does and he doesn't get me, but I can't be attracted to a girl with a convex aquiline nose. Also I like full lips and a very particular personality. I've found many Brazilian and American/Canadian girls have this personality, sort of very cool and relaxed, just friendly and receptive. I like women who like to talk because I am more of a good listener than anything. Yep, a whole lot of guys will...but most women don't want guys like that. Eh...we all have our preferences. Some people don't discriminate much, for instance some women like buff guys, regardless of race or features, as long as they're strong and have a big cock they will be all for that. Yet some girls I've been with say they totally can't get turned on with buff guys. So yeah it's sort of mysterious why but we all have things that click with us in the opposite sex, might be a small trait that just calls your attention. It's unclear why this is. Banned as usual. “It is far easier to be a weakling than to be a Real Man. Were the Earth less harsh or the circumstances of life less austere, man would destroy himself before the shrine of the languid goddess. Only Real Men can with safety destroy the tangled forests and wilderness of Earth and make from them gardens, but will those who inherit the gardens be Real Men? The law decrees that they must be, or the wilderness will reclaim its own.” |
Manu-Koelbren User ID: 1312616 Spain 12/09/2012 12:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what is a convex aquiline nose"? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 is that like a small snub nose? or more like a larger Roman nose? The Roman nose Banned as usual. “It is far easier to be a weakling than to be a Real Man. Were the Earth less harsh or the circumstances of life less austere, man would destroy himself before the shrine of the languid goddess. Only Real Men can with safety destroy the tangled forests and wilderness of Earth and make from them gardens, but will those who inherit the gardens be Real Men? The law decrees that they must be, or the wilderness will reclaim its own.” |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 18522391 Australia 12/09/2012 12:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | to be protected Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 to be looked after in a caring way to communicate openly and honestly about feelings to feel valued and loved to have full belly laughter every now and again to feel like they are in a partnership to know her man is doing his part, and is not lazy to be with someone who has goals and ambitions to be with someone who knows himself to be with someone who has confidence in himself and others to support her man in his vision of his life and to be supported by her man in their vision of her life to be inspired to be a better person, just because of the way that her man lives his life and who he is as a person Let me translate....what this list REALLY means..as told by a poor bastard who has lived it out... to be protected Meaning kept from harm so they can be as nasty and vicious as they want to any man they choose including their own man without fear of retribution. to be looked after in a caring way Meaning they get what they want when they want it or they withold all affection/sex/romance and use these three tools of their evil trade to batter a man to death emotionally spiritually should he fall short in some tiny area..like he forgot to read her mind again and know what she wants.. to communicate openly and honestly about feelings Meaning THIER feelings..FUCK the mans feeling THEY are not even worth mentioning..men are not supposed to HAVE feelings..and a man who does try to show em is soon killed emotionally and mentally by her for DARING to talk about his own feelings. to feel valued and loved Meaning..the man has to bow and scrape and say "Yes" to everything she says and wants..he must not under any circumstances ever say no or ask..that MAYBE..he can be loved and cared for in return. to have full belly laughter every now and again Meaning..when the man finally cracks up and goes to bits because he is an emotional and spiritual WRECK..she gets a bloody good laugh about it..usually on the way to the bank to clean the poor cunt out. to feel like they are in a partnership Meaning..the partnership between themselves and the mans wallet and cock..NOTHING el;se matters. to know her man is doing his part, and is not lazy Meaning he has to take whatever is dished up to him..even to the point of death...sacrifice his all for her..and NOT expect a thankyou..or any grattitude in any way. Her part does not matter..HER part is "Lowering" herself enough to actually HAVE a man to start with. to be with someone who has goals and ambitions Meaning..they have to be HER goals FOLLOWED to the LETTER..he is NOT allowed to have his own...and if he does they MUST line up 100% with HER goals or ELSE.. to be with someone who knows himself Meaning..they want Mr Universe...Mr RIGHT..the perfect man..so they can marry him and turn him into a pussy whipped wreck if he does not wise up and fuck off while he still has some balls left. to be with someone who has confidence in himself and others As above to support her man in his vision of his life and to be supported by her man in their vision of her life to be inspired to be a better person, just because of the way that her man lives his life and who he is as a person Meaning..so long as its HER vision that SHE has blackmailed him into seeing..THEN once he accepts this vision of what SHE wants him to be..she will use all of the above to make him into her image..and end up destroying the man 100% if he does not wise up and fuck her and her bullshit OFF while he still has some balls left. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26372742 Canada 12/09/2012 12:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | to be protected Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 to be looked after in a caring way to communicate openly and honestly about feelings to feel valued and loved to have full belly laughter every now and again to feel like they are in a partnership to know her man is doing his part, and is not lazy to be with someone who has goals and ambitions to be with someone who knows himself to be with someone who has confidence in himself and others to support her man in his vision of his life and to be supported by her man in their vision of her life to be inspired to be a better person, just because of the way that her man lives his life and who he is as a person Let me translate....what this list REALLY means..as told by a poor bastard who has lived it out... to be protected Meaning kept from harm so they can be as nasty and vicious as they want to any man they choose including their own man without fear of retribution. to be looked after in a caring way Meaning they get what they want when they want it or they withold all affection/sex/romance and use these three tools of their evil trade to batter a man to death emotionally spiritually should he fall short in some tiny area..like he forgot to read her mind again and know what she wants.. to communicate openly and honestly about feelings Meaning THIER feelings..FUCK the mans feeling THEY are not even worth mentioning..men are not supposed to HAVE feelings..and a man who does try to show em is soon killed emotionally and mentally by her for DARING to talk about his own feelings. to feel valued and loved Meaning..the man has to bow and scrape and say "Yes" to everything she says and wants..he must not under any circumstances ever say no or ask..that MAYBE..he can be loved and cared for in return. to have full belly laughter every now and again Meaning..when the man finally cracks up and goes to bits because he is an emotional and spiritual WRECK..she gets a bloody good laugh about it..usually on the way to the bank to clean the poor cunt out. to feel like they are in a partnership Meaning..the partnership between themselves and the mans wallet and cock..NOTHING el;se matters. to know her man is doing his part, and is not lazy Meaning he has to take whatever is dished up to him..even to the point of death...sacrifice his all for her..and NOT expect a thankyou..or any grattitude in any way. Her part does not matter..HER part is "Lowering" herself enough to actually HAVE a man to start with. to be with someone who has goals and ambitions Meaning..they have to be HER goals FOLLOWED to the LETTER..he is NOT allowed to have his own...and if he does they MUST line up 100% with HER goals or ELSE.. to be with someone who knows himself Meaning..they want Mr Universe...Mr RIGHT..the perfect man..so they can marry him and turn him into a pussy whipped wreck if he does not wise up and fuck off while he still has some balls left. to be with someone who has confidence in himself and others As above to support her man in his vision of his life and to be supported by her man in their vision of her life to be inspired to be a better person, just because of the way that her man lives his life and who he is as a person Meaning..so long as its HER vision that SHE has blackmailed him into seeing..THEN once he accepts this vision of what SHE wants him to be..she will use all of the above to make him into her image..and end up destroying the man 100% if he does not wise up and fuck her and her bullshit OFF while he still has some balls left. no you have misinterpreted it. you are projecting. perhaps you are feeling unloved by women at this moment in time, and you are projecting that onto a very simple, and clearly communicated list. there was no innuendo. you twisted everything and made it into something ugly because of the pain you are feeling right now. but you won't always feel like that. and just like not all men are assholes, not all women are bitches. you need to heal yourself first, before you will be able to be with someone else successfully. |
Manu-Koelbren User ID: 1312616 Spain 12/09/2012 12:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I find that there's two things that are the most complicated for people to find a relationship. First, breaking the ice. It's hard to approach a stranger just because you liked them physically and start a convo. The person could prove to be just not at all your type personality wise. The second is that, if indeed you talk with the person and there's chemistry, knowing if there's actually attraction or just friendliness. But what makes it all more confusing is the factor that some women like to play hard, so then maybe the woman digs the man but the man feels she doesn't so he gives up. This happens a lot and it's a test from women to find the fittest male, the problem is that the fittest many times end up being the psychopaths and so this little test we inherited from primates is quite flawed IMO, both the man and the woman end up losing too often. Banned as usual. “It is far easier to be a weakling than to be a Real Man. Were the Earth less harsh or the circumstances of life less austere, man would destroy himself before the shrine of the languid goddess. Only Real Men can with safety destroy the tangled forests and wilderness of Earth and make from them gardens, but will those who inherit the gardens be Real Men? The law decrees that they must be, or the wilderness will reclaim its own.” |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 18522391 Australia 12/09/2012 12:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | to be protected Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 to be looked after in a caring way to communicate openly and honestly about feelings to feel valued and loved to have full belly laughter every now and again to feel like they are in a partnership to know her man is doing his part, and is not lazy to be with someone who has goals and ambitions to be with someone who knows himself to be with someone who has confidence in himself and others to support her man in his vision of his life and to be supported by her man in their vision of her life to be inspired to be a better person, just because of the way that her man lives his life and who he is as a person Let me translate....what this list REALLY means..as told by a poor bastard who has lived it out... to be protected Meaning kept from harm so they can be as nasty and vicious as they want to any man they choose including their own man without fear of retribution. to be looked after in a caring way Meaning they get what they want when they want it or they withold all affection/sex/romance and use these three tools of their evil trade to batter a man to death emotionally spiritually should he fall short in some tiny area..like he forgot to read her mind again and know what she wants.. to communicate openly and honestly about feelings Meaning THIER feelings..FUCK the mans feeling THEY are not even worth mentioning..men are not supposed to HAVE feelings..and a man who does try to show em is soon killed emotionally and mentally by her for DARING to talk about his own feelings. to feel valued and loved Meaning..the man has to bow and scrape and say "Yes" to everything she says and wants..he must not under any circumstances ever say no or ask..that MAYBE..he can be loved and cared for in return. to have full belly laughter every now and again Meaning..when the man finally cracks up and goes to bits because he is an emotional and spiritual WRECK..she gets a bloody good laugh about it..usually on the way to the bank to clean the poor cunt out. to feel like they are in a partnership Meaning..the partnership between themselves and the mans wallet and cock..NOTHING el;se matters. to know her man is doing his part, and is not lazy Meaning he has to take whatever is dished up to him..even to the point of death...sacrifice his all for her..and NOT expect a thankyou..or any grattitude in any way. Her part does not matter..HER part is "Lowering" herself enough to actually HAVE a man to start with. to be with someone who has goals and ambitions Meaning..they have to be HER goals FOLLOWED to the LETTER..he is NOT allowed to have his own...and if he does they MUST line up 100% with HER goals or ELSE.. to be with someone who knows himself Meaning..they want Mr Universe...Mr RIGHT..the perfect man..so they can marry him and turn him into a pussy whipped wreck if he does not wise up and fuck off while he still has some balls left. to be with someone who has confidence in himself and others As above to support her man in his vision of his life and to be supported by her man in their vision of her life to be inspired to be a better person, just because of the way that her man lives his life and who he is as a person Meaning..so long as its HER vision that SHE has blackmailed him into seeing..THEN once he accepts this vision of what SHE wants him to be..she will use all of the above to make him into her image..and end up destroying the man 100% if he does not wise up and fuck her and her bullshit OFF while he still has some balls left. no you have misinterpreted it. you are projecting. perhaps you are feeling unloved by women at this moment in time, and you are projecting that onto a very simple, and clearly communicated list. there was no innuendo. you twisted everything and made it into something ugly because of the pain you are feeling right now. but you won't always feel like that. and just like not all men are assholes, not all women are bitches. you need to heal yourself first, before you will be able to be with someone else successfully. Im almost 44...in all my years ive never yet met a woman who did not live up to whats in that list in some way. Some a worse than others..true..but they ALL do it...in one form or another. Ive a lot of friends who have been through hell because of women as well..they all agree. Women are just basically SELFISH..ONLY out for what THEY can get. They could not give a flying fuck about men or their feelings..all thay want is what THEY want..FUCK what the man feels or wants or has to suffer for her. And when he commits the unpardonable sin of not being a mind reader..BAM..she fucks off with another man..takes all his cash and tears his heart out and ruins his life..and she does not care one bit..because she has fresh meat to bite on. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26372742 Canada 12/09/2012 12:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | to be protected Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 to be looked after in a caring way to communicate openly and honestly about feelings to feel valued and loved to have full belly laughter every now and again to feel like they are in a partnership to know her man is doing his part, and is not lazy to be with someone who has goals and ambitions to be with someone who knows himself to be with someone who has confidence in himself and others to support her man in his vision of his life and to be supported by her man in their vision of her life to be inspired to be a better person, just because of the way that her man lives his life and who he is as a person Let me translate....what this list REALLY means..as told by a poor bastard who has lived it out... to be protected Meaning kept from harm so they can be as nasty and vicious as they want to any man they choose including their own man without fear of retribution. to be looked after in a caring way Meaning they get what they want when they want it or they withold all affection/sex/romance and use these three tools of their evil trade to batter a man to death emotionally spiritually should he fall short in some tiny area..like he forgot to read her mind again and know what she wants.. to communicate openly and honestly about feelings Meaning THIER feelings..FUCK the mans feeling THEY are not even worth mentioning..men are not supposed to HAVE feelings..and a man who does try to show em is soon killed emotionally and mentally by her for DARING to talk about his own feelings. to feel valued and loved Meaning..the man has to bow and scrape and say "Yes" to everything she says and wants..he must not under any circumstances ever say no or ask..that MAYBE..he can be loved and cared for in return. to have full belly laughter every now and again Meaning..when the man finally cracks up and goes to bits because he is an emotional and spiritual WRECK..she gets a bloody good laugh about it..usually on the way to the bank to clean the poor cunt out. to feel like they are in a partnership Meaning..the partnership between themselves and the mans wallet and cock..NOTHING el;se matters. to know her man is doing his part, and is not lazy Meaning he has to take whatever is dished up to him..even to the point of death...sacrifice his all for her..and NOT expect a thankyou..or any grattitude in any way. Her part does not matter..HER part is "Lowering" herself enough to actually HAVE a man to start with. to be with someone who has goals and ambitions Meaning..they have to be HER goals FOLLOWED to the LETTER..he is NOT allowed to have his own...and if he does they MUST line up 100% with HER goals or ELSE.. to be with someone who knows himself Meaning..they want Mr Universe...Mr RIGHT..the perfect man..so they can marry him and turn him into a pussy whipped wreck if he does not wise up and fuck off while he still has some balls left. to be with someone who has confidence in himself and others As above to support her man in his vision of his life and to be supported by her man in their vision of her life to be inspired to be a better person, just because of the way that her man lives his life and who he is as a person Meaning..so long as its HER vision that SHE has blackmailed him into seeing..THEN once he accepts this vision of what SHE wants him to be..she will use all of the above to make him into her image..and end up destroying the man 100% if he does not wise up and fuck her and her bullshit OFF while he still has some balls left. no you have misinterpreted it. you are projecting. perhaps you are feeling unloved by women at this moment in time, and you are projecting that onto a very simple, and clearly communicated list. there was no innuendo. you twisted everything and made it into something ugly because of the pain you are feeling right now. but you won't always feel like that. and just like not all men are assholes, not all women are bitches. you need to heal yourself first, before you will be able to be with someone else successfully. Im almost 44...in all my years ive never yet met a woman who did not live up to whats in that list in some way. Some a worse than others..true..but they ALL do it...in one form or another. Ive a lot of friends who have been through hell because of women as well..they all agree. Women are just basically SELFISH..ONLY out for what THEY can get. They could not give a flying fuck about men or their feelings..all thay want is what THEY want..FUCK what the man feels or wants or has to suffer for her. And when he commits the unpardonable sin of not being a mind reader..BAM..she fucks off with another man..takes all his cash and tears his heart out and ruins his life..and she does not care one bit..because she has fresh meat to bite on. Well I am 44 and a half....and I am nothing like what you listed. The people (both men and women) you are describing obviously don't know themselves very well. We surround ourselves with people similar to ourselves. I am sure what you say is valid for your experience....but it is not the only reality that exists. There are just as many men who are basically selfish and out for what they can get etc. But once you start knowing yourself very well, and start trusting your intuition, you stop having experiences like the ones you listed above. Once you start loving and respecting yourself, you stop putting up with people who don't love and respect you. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25867801 United States 12/09/2012 12:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In general, money, dick and more money. However, they will settle for money, money and money though. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27317240 Some will argue and say they want more noble things and that women aren't materialistic, but if that were true, 50 Shades Of Gray wouldn't be so popular. to be protected Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 to be looked after in a caring way to communicate openly and honestly about feelings to feel valued and loved to have full belly laughter every now and again to feel like they are in a partnership to know her man is doing his part, and is not lazy to be with someone who has goals and ambitions to be with someone who knows himself to be with someone who has confidence in himself and others to support her man in his vision of his life and to be supported by her man in their vision of her life to be inspired to be a better person, just because of the way that her man lives his life and who he is as a person Let me translate....what this list REALLY means..as told by a poor bastard who has lived it out... to be protected Meaning kept from harm so they can be as nasty and vicious as they want to any man they choose including their own man without fear of retribution. to be looked after in a caring way Meaning they get what they want when they want it or they withold all affection/sex/romance and use these three tools of their evil trade to batter a man to death emotionally spiritually should he fall short in some tiny area..like he forgot to read her mind again and know what she wants.. to communicate openly and honestly about feelings Meaning THIER feelings..FUCK the mans feeling THEY are not even worth mentioning..men are not supposed to HAVE feelings..and a man who does try to show em is soon killed emotionally and mentally by her for DARING to talk about his own feelings. to feel valued and loved Meaning..the man has to bow and scrape and say "Yes" to everything she says and wants..he must not under any circumstances ever say no or ask..that MAYBE..he can be loved and cared for in return. to have full belly laughter every now and again Meaning..when the man finally cracks up and goes to bits because he is an emotional and spiritual WRECK..she gets a bloody good laugh about it..usually on the way to the bank to clean the poor cunt out. to feel like they are in a partnership Meaning..the partnership between themselves and the mans wallet and cock..NOTHING el;se matters. to know her man is doing his part, and is not lazy Meaning he has to take whatever is dished up to him..even to the point of death...sacrifice his all for her..and NOT expect a thankyou..or any grattitude in any way. Her part does not matter..HER part is "Lowering" herself enough to actually HAVE a man to start with. to be with someone who has goals and ambitions Meaning..they have to be HER goals FOLLOWED to the LETTER..he is NOT allowed to have his own...and if he does they MUST line up 100% with HER goals or ELSE.. to be with someone who knows himself Meaning..they want Mr Universe...Mr RIGHT..the perfect man..so they can marry him and turn him into a pussy whipped wreck if he does not wise up and fuck off while he still has some balls left. to be with someone who has confidence in himself and others As above to support her man in his vision of his life and to be supported by her man in their vision of her life to be inspired to be a better person, just because of the way that her man lives his life and who he is as a person Meaning..so long as its HER vision that SHE has blackmailed him into seeing..THEN once he accepts this vision of what SHE wants him to be..she will use all of the above to make him into her image..and end up destroying the man 100% if he does not wise up and fuck her and her bullshit OFF while he still has some balls left. no you have misinterpreted it. you are projecting. perhaps you are feeling unloved by women at this moment in time, and you are projecting that onto a very simple, and clearly communicated list. there was no innuendo. you twisted everything and made it into something ugly because of the pain you are feeling right now. but you won't always feel like that. and just like not all men are assholes, not all women are bitches. you need to heal yourself first, before you will be able to be with someone else successfully. Im almost 44...in all my years ive never yet met a woman who did not live up to whats in that list in some way. Some a worse than others..true..but they ALL do it...in one form or another. Ive a lot of friends who have been through hell because of women as well..they all agree. Women are just basically SELFISH..ONLY out for what THEY can get. They could not give a flying fuck about men or their feelings..all thay want is what THEY want..FUCK what the man feels or wants or has to suffer for her. And when he commits the unpardonable sin of not being a mind reader..BAM..she fucks off with another man..takes all his cash and tears his heart out and ruins his life..and she does not care one bit..because she has fresh meat to bite on. |
Alexander User ID: 15635858 United States 12/09/2012 01:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What women want is very simple. Quoting: mikebo2 A man who: 1. Has money 2. Is smart 3. Is funny 4. Is passionate (for her only) 5. Is strong 6. Is vulnerable 7. Is in touch with his feminine side (some days) 8. Is Macho (some days) 9. Loves children 10. Loves to cook 11. Loves to clean 12. Understands that he is an idiot 13. YET TO BE DETERMINED You forgot the footrubs and making tea. The money part not so important as the ability to provide for the family is. Meaning money is coming in on a regular basis from work. The most important element is just hanging out and enjoying each others company along with working together as a team and playing together. This is my third marriage which is going on 30 years - the first two were disasters. Finding someone who is compatible is key. There needs to be mutual trust and respect and lots of communication. And it really helps actually liking each other. Last Edited by Proud American Supporter on 12/09/2012 01:07 AM The truth is incontrovertible. Malice may attack it, ignorance may deride it, but in the end, there it is. Winston Churchill Daily Updates Thread: ASS IS IN THE WRINGER - Rolling Updates from 11/16/20 to present (Page 235) |
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