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Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 29374820  Puerto Rico12/13/2012 07:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him. Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ... When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry.. But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before... Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me. I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him. You clearly caused this and didn't learn the first time from your mistake. Once lost...trust is near impossible to recover. DUMB DUMB DUMB moves.  well...they were not dumb moves.... they were just misunderstood I'm not the jealous type at all....and even I would have had a problem with this after the second incident. It shows a pattern....and then one begins to wonder how much is NOT being seen. You caused this....and YES....it was VERY dumb. Again....trust once lost is near impossible to regain. He doesn't have a solid reason |
| EJ25LVR User ID: 514219  United States12/13/2012 07:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | she admits it... OP is the source of her own problems. Wherever you go,there you are. John Doe: Wanting people to listen, you can't just tap them on the shoulder anymore. You have to hit them with a sledgehammer, and then you'll notice you've got their strict attention. I have half a mind to head down to Washington and shit on the White House lawn. Brick Top: Do you know what "nemesis" means? A righteous infliction of retribution manifested by an appropriate agent. Personified in this case by an 'orrible cunt... me. |
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| Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 29374820 Puerto Rico12/13/2012 07:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him. Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ... When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry.. But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before... Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me. I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him. its either one of two things.... he is cheating on you and his cheating makes him think of how easily you could do the same. or he honestly feels disrespected by your touchy feely actions. if i were him and had to find out that you had kissed another guy no matter whether it was on his cheek or on his ass i would have cut you loose right then and there. im one of those type people that doesn't give second chances and defiantly don't believe in the three strikes and your out rule. you must have him pussy whipped or something, but there isn't pussy good enough on this planet that's worth putting up with the drama and games women will play these days. I don't think he needs to do that... I don't think it was wrong to kiss a GAY guy ... and well yes the second one was probably wrong but I seriously didn't mean to disrespect him. |
| Burt Gummer User ID: 29696048 United States12/13/2012 07:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24011342 Are you the picture in the avatar...if so, then I understand the jealousy. If you are not, then no, I don't understand the jealousy. No, I'm this one >>> [link to i50.tinypic.com] I think I see the bigger problem. PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO RANT AND RAVE ABOUT THIS POST BEING WRONG...AND THEN TAKE THE TIME TO REALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SAYING. Your problem is...YOU! You do not accept who you really are...so, you go off and live in a fantasy world. Part of your fantasy world is that you have to make other people jealous. By "other people" I especially mean your boyfriend or anybody who would get close to you. IIRC, I have seen your posts before...seeing your picture reminded me of the previous posts. I KNOW you want to claim that you see yourself as pretty...but, in reality you do not see yourself as pretty. The reality shows when you compare yourself to others..IIRC, you see a lot of other people as ugly. This "why are guys so jealous" is really saying, "I am pretty...don't believe me...I can make my boyfriend jealous!" Here is the what I can tell you: You are relatively pretty. You are not the blond haired blue eyed woman in your avatar, but, then again...only the woman in that pic is her! Find a guy with a good heart...you haven't done that yet. The reason you haven't found a guy with a good heart is....YOU! If you do not accept yourself for who you are, then nobody else EVER will be able to accept you for who you are...no matter how pretty you are. Strong words, I know. If I was being a jerk to you...I would just move on to another post. I mean and hope the best for you! Honestly, I just made this post because I wanted to read bad stuff and I wanted to have more bad karma .... the same happens with all of my other posts... but I guess you can be right .. I used to be fat till 9th grade... I lost like 50 pounds... and i've been losing more weight since then... I guess I can be insecure sometimes because i know that i should stop losing weight but I am terrified of being fat again...etc.. That poster above may have hit upon something. You are trying to deal with your own self esteem issues and in the process of doing so you are TESTING your boyfriend to see if you can make him jealous. The only reason you do it is to see if you are attractive to other guys.....but in the meantime....your little flirty behavior to other guys is driving a wedge between someone who really cares about you. The other poster is right....the problem is YOU and your need to feel wanted by other men for whatever insecure reasons you have in your head. Obviously I was right too.....this is a pattern. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 9401665  Switzerland12/13/2012 07:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24011342 Are you the picture in the avatar...if so, then I understand the jealousy. If you are not, then no, I don't understand the jealousy. No, I'm this one >>> [link to i50.tinypic.com] I think I see the bigger problem. PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO RANT AND RAVE ABOUT THIS POST BEING WRONG...AND THEN TAKE THE TIME TO REALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SAYING. Your problem is...YOU! You do not accept who you really are...so, you go off and live in a fantasy world. Part of your fantasy world is that you have to make other people jealous. By "other people" I especially mean your boyfriend or anybody who would get close to you. IIRC, I have seen your posts before...seeing your picture reminded me of the previous posts. I KNOW you want to claim that you see yourself as pretty...but, in reality you do not see yourself as pretty. The reality shows when you compare yourself to others..IIRC, you see a lot of other people as ugly. This "why are guys so jealous" is really saying, "I am pretty...don't believe me...I can make my boyfriend jealous!" Here is the what I can tell you: You are relatively pretty. You are not the blond haired blue eyed woman in your avatar, but, then again...only the woman in that pic is her! Find a guy with a good heart...you haven't done that yet. The reason you haven't found a guy with a good heart is....YOU! If you do not accept yourself for who you are, then nobody else EVER will be able to accept you for who you are...no matter how pretty you are. Strong words, I know. If I was being a jerk to you...I would just move on to another post. I mean and hope the best for you! Honestly, I just made this post because I wanted to read bad stuff and I wanted to have more bad karma .... the same happens with all of my other posts... but I guess you can be right .. I used to be fat till 9th grade... I lost like 50 pounds... and i've been losing more weight since then... I guess I can be insecure sometimes because i know that i should stop losing weight but I am terrified of being fat again...etc.. ...what exactly is it that terrifies you? do you know what it is? being fat is an external 'expression', what is this heaviness which imo. you think you can't 'handle'? |
| HI.Lander User ID: 28896397 United States12/13/2012 07:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Honestly, I just made this post because I wanted to read bad stuff and I wanted to have more bad karma .... the same happens with all of my other posts... but I guess you can be right .. I used to be fat till 9th grade... I lost like 50 pounds... and i've been losing more weight since then... I guess I can be insecure sometimes because i know that i should stop losing weight but I am terrified of being fat again...etc.. Quoting: Barbie Chaos  I was just reading all your red karma posts... holy cow! LOL... you're very well liked here it seems. I'm finally going to stop drinking for good... I'll now only drink for evil. Today I broke my personal record for most consecutive days lived. |
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| Albanian User ID: 12582427  Canada12/13/2012 07:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He got upset because these so-called friends of yours would fuck you faster than an F-16 if you gave them the opportunity. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9788321 Your boyfriend, being a man, knows what these other men really want when you dangle your goods in front them like a piece of meat. "Socialization" with the opposite sex is a euphemism for flirting. Allowing these other men to shower you with their subconscious sexual affections makes your boyfriend feel as though he's not satisfying you. It makes your boyfriend feel like less of a man if you are constantly seeking the company of other men to keep yourself "happy". If you want to be a socialite for pleasure, stay single. Hahahahahahahahaha that's true bro , women however don't understand this and there only a few real men out there who keep their women on lock down when it comes to shit like this. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 11333543 United States12/13/2012 07:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him. Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ... When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry.. But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before... Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me. I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him. you already led him to believe your cheating on him, you no longer have his full trust so at this point if you wanna save him you better suck that dick each morning like its your last and start showing him more attention over n out |
| Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 29374820 Puerto Rico12/13/2012 07:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Keep your kisses for your bf, it is not jealousy, it is anger because you f'd up. And it seems like you are okay with what you do so his anger in YOU will never end. May as well just break it up now and you can go around "talking" and kissing all the guys you want! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11591025 NOOO! I will be more cautious ... I don't want him to be really angry with me and i dont want to break up... I never meant to make him jealous or anything ... I just didn't think that kissing the gay guy was wrong... i know the hand one was prbably wrong... ummm but those were just 2 incidents that happened and they were misunderstood but they won't happen again. |
| Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 29374820 Puerto Rico12/13/2012 07:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think I see the bigger problem. PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO RANT AND RAVE ABOUT THIS POST BEING WRONG...AND THEN TAKE THE TIME TO REALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SAYING. Your problem is...YOU! You do not accept who you really are...so, you go off and live in a fantasy world. Part of your fantasy world is that you have to make other people jealous. By "other people" I especially mean your boyfriend or anybody who would get close to you. IIRC, I have seen your posts before...seeing your picture reminded me of the previous posts. I KNOW you want to claim that you see yourself as pretty...but, in reality you do not see yourself as pretty. The reality shows when you compare yourself to others..IIRC, you see a lot of other people as ugly. This "why are guys so jealous" is really saying, "I am pretty...don't believe me...I can make my boyfriend jealous!" Here is the what I can tell you: You are relatively pretty. You are not the blond haired blue eyed woman in your avatar, but, then again...only the woman in that pic is her! Find a guy with a good heart...you haven't done that yet. The reason you haven't found a guy with a good heart is....YOU! If you do not accept yourself for who you are, then nobody else EVER will be able to accept you for who you are...no matter how pretty you are. Strong words, I know. If I was being a jerk to you...I would just move on to another post. I mean and hope the best for you! Honestly, I just made this post because I wanted to read bad stuff and I wanted to have more bad karma .... the same happens with all of my other posts... but I guess you can be right .. I used to be fat till 9th grade... I lost like 50 pounds... and i've been losing more weight since then... I guess I can be insecure sometimes because i know that i should stop losing weight but I am terrified of being fat again...etc.. That poster above may have hit upon something. You are trying to deal with your own self esteem issues and in the process of doing so you are TESTING your boyfriend to see if you can make him jealous. The only reason you do it is to see if you are attractive to other guys.....but in the meantime....your little flirty behavior to other guys is driving a wedge between someone who really cares about you. The other poster is right....the problem is YOU and your need to feel wanted by other men for whatever insecure reasons you have in your head. Obviously I was right too.....this is a pattern. Like i said before...those two incidents just happened once, they were misunderstood and they will not happen again.. i never meant to make my bf jealous.....and i care about him too... i've never loved someone so much. |
| EJ25LVR User ID: 514219 United States12/13/2012 07:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quoting: Barbie Chaos accidentally told the truth huh Wherever you go,there you are. John Doe: Wanting people to listen, you can't just tap them on the shoulder anymore. You have to hit them with a sledgehammer, and then you'll notice you've got their strict attention. I have half a mind to head down to Washington and shit on the White House lawn. Brick Top: Do you know what "nemesis" means? A righteous infliction of retribution manifested by an appropriate agent. Personified in this case by an 'orrible cunt... me. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 24336774 United States12/13/2012 07:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If my wife talked to a guy in a bar all night then kissed him goodbye I would divorce her on principle. It's about respect for the relationship and respect for your partner. Nothing else. It has nothing to do with insecurity or any pop Psychology bullshit. Not only does your boyfriend have every right to be jealous, he should dump your slutty ass on the curb and find a quality woman. |
| Burt Gummer User ID: 29696048 United States12/13/2012 07:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Keep your kisses for your bf, it is not jealousy, it is anger because you f'd up. And it seems like you are okay with what you do so his anger in YOU will never end. May as well just break it up now and you can go around "talking" and kissing all the guys you want! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11591025 NOOO! I will be more cautious ... I don't want him to be really angry with me and i dont want to break up... I never meant to make him jealous or anything ... I just didn't think that kissing the gay guy was wrong... i know the hand one was prbably wrong... ummm but those were just 2 incidents that happened and they were misunderstood but they won't happen again. So...rather than say you will not do it anymore.....you just say you will "be more cautious"???  You have some SERIOUS mental and self esteem issues.  ...and if I were him I'd start looking for a new LOYAL girlfriend too. Last Edited by Useless Cookie Eater on 12/13/2012 07:31 PM |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 11333543 United States12/13/2012 07:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Keep your kisses for your bf, it is not jealousy, it is anger because you f'd up. And it seems like you are okay with what you do so his anger in YOU will never end. May as well just break it up now and you can go around "talking" and kissing all the guys you want! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11591025 NOOO! I will be more cautious ... I don't want him to be really angry with me and i dont want to break up... I never meant to make him jealous or anything ... I just didn't think that kissing the gay guy was wrong... i know the hand one was prbably wrong... ummm but those were just 2 incidents that happened and they were misunderstood but they won't happen again. So...rather than say you will not do it anymore.....you just say you will "be more cautious"??? :wtfdoc: You have some SERIOUS mental and self esteem issues. ...and if I were him I'd start looking for a new LOYAL girlfriend too. very good point though op, you really have to be clear are you gonna do it or are you not? or are you gonna do it and play the innocent girl role again |
| Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 29374820 Puerto Rico12/13/2012 07:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think I see the bigger problem. PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO RANT AND RAVE ABOUT THIS POST BEING WRONG...AND THEN TAKE THE TIME TO REALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SAYING. Your problem is...YOU! You do not accept who you really are...so, you go off and live in a fantasy world. Part of your fantasy world is that you have to make other people jealous. By "other people" I especially mean your boyfriend or anybody who would get close to you. IIRC, I have seen your posts before...seeing your picture reminded me of the previous posts. I KNOW you want to claim that you see yourself as pretty...but, in reality you do not see yourself as pretty. The reality shows when you compare yourself to others..IIRC, you see a lot of other people as ugly. This "why are guys so jealous" is really saying, "I am pretty...don't believe me...I can make my boyfriend jealous!" Here is the what I can tell you: You are relatively pretty. You are not the blond haired blue eyed woman in your avatar, but, then again...only the woman in that pic is her! Find a guy with a good heart...you haven't done that yet. The reason you haven't found a guy with a good heart is....YOU! If you do not accept yourself for who you are, then nobody else EVER will be able to accept you for who you are...no matter how pretty you are. Strong words, I know. If I was being a jerk to you...I would just move on to another post. I mean and hope the best for you! Honestly, I just made this post because I wanted to read bad stuff and I wanted to have more bad karma .... the same happens with all of my other posts... but I guess you can be right .. I used to be fat till 9th grade... I lost like 50 pounds... and i've been losing more weight since then... I guess I can be insecure sometimes because i know that i should stop losing weight but I am terrified of being fat again...etc.. ...what exactly is it that terrifies you? do you know what it is? being fat is an external 'expression', what is this heaviness which imo. you think you can't 'handle'? When i was fat I was kind of bullied .... and my family would tell me things... not my parents but my uncles and aunts and grandparents... and when I lost the weight I started to receive a lot of good attention and everyone was so happy around me... in school i started to make more friends and i didn't have any friends when i was fat..... some very wrong things happened in high school after i lost weight though... very wrong... but I kind of accepted them because those things made me feel attractive... but i don't want to talk about those things.... etc... |
| Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 29374820 Puerto Rico12/13/2012 07:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Honestly, I just made this post because I wanted to read bad stuff and I wanted to have more bad karma .... the same happens with all of my other posts... but I guess you can be right .. I used to be fat till 9th grade... I lost like 50 pounds... and i've been losing more weight since then... I guess I can be insecure sometimes because i know that i should stop losing weight but I am terrified of being fat again...etc.. Quoting: Barbie Chaos I was just reading all your red karma posts... holy cow! LOL... you're very well liked here it seems. lol |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 11333543 United States12/13/2012 07:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Keep your kisses for your bf, it is not jealousy, it is anger because you f'd up. And it seems like you are okay with what you do so his anger in YOU will never end. May as well just break it up now and you can go around "talking" and kissing all the guys you want! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11591025 NOOO! I will be more cautious ... I don't want him to be really angry with me and i dont want to break up... I never meant to make him jealous or anything ... I just didn't think that kissing the gay guy was wrong... i know the hand one was prbably wrong... ummm but those were just 2 incidents that happened and they were misunderstood but they won't happen again. "I just didn't think that kissing the gay guy was wrong" kissing any guy when your in a relationship is wrong |
| Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 29374820 Puerto Rico12/13/2012 07:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him. Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ... When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry.. But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before... Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me. I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him. you already led him to believe your cheating on him, you no longer have his full trust so at this point if you wanna save him you better suck that dick each morning like its your last and start showing him more attention over n out I show him attention everyday ... |
| EJ25LVR User ID: 514219 United States12/13/2012 07:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation |  Wherever you go,there you are. John Doe: Wanting people to listen, you can't just tap them on the shoulder anymore. You have to hit them with a sledgehammer, and then you'll notice you've got their strict attention. I have half a mind to head down to Washington and shit on the White House lawn. Brick Top: Do you know what "nemesis" means? A righteous infliction of retribution manifested by an appropriate agent. Personified in this case by an 'orrible cunt... me. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 11333543 United States12/13/2012 07:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him. Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ... When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry.. But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before... Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me. I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him. you already led him to believe your cheating on him, you no longer have his full trust so at this point if you wanna save him you better suck that dick each morning like its your last and start showing him more attention over n out I show him attention everyday ... yea but you still dont suck his dick every morning ..do that and youll have him for life! |
| Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 29374820 Puerto Rico12/13/2012 07:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If my wife talked to a guy in a bar all night then kissed him goodbye I would divorce her on principle. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24336774 It's about respect for the relationship and respect for your partner. Nothing else. It has nothing to do with insecurity or any pop Psychology bullshit. Not only does your boyfriend have every right to be jealous, he should dump your slutty ass on the curb and find a quality woman. OMG haven't you read my posts? i didn't mean to make him jealous ... i kissed a gay guy.... and we just talked for like 10 minutes with my friend who is a girl ... I don't see how that can be disrespectful .. I love my boyfriend with all of my heart |
| Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 29374820 Puerto Rico12/13/2012 07:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Keep your kisses for your bf, it is not jealousy, it is anger because you f'd up. And it seems like you are okay with what you do so his anger in YOU will never end. May as well just break it up now and you can go around "talking" and kissing all the guys you want! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11591025 NOOO! I will be more cautious ... I don't want him to be really angry with me and i dont want to break up... I never meant to make him jealous or anything ... I just didn't think that kissing the gay guy was wrong... i know the hand one was prbably wrong... ummm but those were just 2 incidents that happened and they were misunderstood but they won't happen again. So...rather than say you will not do it anymore.....you just say you will "be more cautious"??? You have some SERIOUS mental and self esteem issues. ...and if I were him I'd start looking for a new LOYAL girlfriend too. What I meant was that I am going to be more cautious because I didn't do those things on purpose ... So i will be more cautious because i don't want to give people reasons to think that i am cheating on my bf or something like that... I didn't say I wil not do it anymore because those things were not intentional they were jsut misunderstood... |
| Burt Gummer User ID: 29696048 United States12/13/2012 07:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If my wife talked to a guy in a bar all night then kissed him goodbye I would divorce her on principle. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24336774 It's about respect for the relationship and respect for your partner. Nothing else. It has nothing to do with insecurity or any pop Psychology bullshit. Not only does your boyfriend have every right to be jealous, he should dump your slutty ass on the curb and find a quality woman. OMG haven't you read my posts? i didn't mean to make him jealous ... i kissed a gay guy.... and we just talked for like 10 minutes with my friend who is a girl ... I don't see how that can be disrespectful .. I love my boyfriend with all of my heart No you don't  .... or you wouldn't have said...... "I will be more cautious".  The guy above is right on the principle. Last Edited by Useless Cookie Eater on 12/13/2012 07:49 PM |
| Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 29374820 Puerto Rico12/13/2012 07:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Keep your kisses for your bf, it is not jealousy, it is anger because you f'd up. And it seems like you are okay with what you do so his anger in YOU will never end. May as well just break it up now and you can go around "talking" and kissing all the guys you want! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11591025 NOOO! I will be more cautious ... I don't want him to be really angry with me and i dont want to break up... I never meant to make him jealous or anything ... I just didn't think that kissing the gay guy was wrong... i know the hand one was prbably wrong... ummm but those were just 2 incidents that happened and they were misunderstood but they won't happen again. "I just didn't think that kissing the gay guy was wrong" kissing any guy when your in a relationship is wrong It was just a kiss on the cheek ... it didn't mean anything . |
| Burt Gummer User ID: 29696048 United States12/13/2012 07:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Keep your kisses for your bf, it is not jealousy, it is anger because you f'd up. And it seems like you are okay with what you do so his anger in YOU will never end. May as well just break it up now and you can go around "talking" and kissing all the guys you want! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11591025 NOOO! I will be more cautious ... I don't want him to be really angry with me and i dont want to break up... I never meant to make him jealous or anything ... I just didn't think that kissing the gay guy was wrong... i know the hand one was prbably wrong... ummm but those were just 2 incidents that happened and they were misunderstood but they won't happen again. "I just didn't think that kissing the gay guy was wrong" kissing any guy when your in a relationship is wrong It was just a kiss on the cheek ... it didn't mean anything . You are in denial of reality.  |
| Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 29374820 Puerto Rico12/13/2012 07:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him. Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ... When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry.. But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before... Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me. I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him. you already led him to believe your cheating on him, you no longer have his full trust so at this point if you wanna save him you better suck that dick each morning like its your last and start showing him more attention over n out I show him attention everyday ... yea but you still dont suck his dick every morning ..do that and youll have him for life! I can't do that because he doesn't live in my house ... boys are not allowed here... so yeah... i could stay in his apartment but there are too many guys there... we do our things during the weekends most of the times ...and this week because it's the finals week... I'm sure he is very stressed with the finals... luckily i have more time because I don't need to study so much and some of the professors gave take-home exams............. |
| Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 29374820 Puerto Rico12/13/2012 07:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If my wife talked to a guy in a bar all night then kissed him goodbye I would divorce her on principle. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24336774 It's about respect for the relationship and respect for your partner. Nothing else. It has nothing to do with insecurity or any pop Psychology bullshit. Not only does your boyfriend have every right to be jealous, he should dump your slutty ass on the curb and find a quality woman. OMG haven't you read my posts? i didn't mean to make him jealous ... i kissed a gay guy.... and we just talked for like 10 minutes with my friend who is a girl ... I don't see how that can be disrespectful .. I love my boyfriend with all of my heart No you don't .... or you wouldn't have said...... "I will be more cautious". The guy above is right on the principle. no....read my explanation of why i said "cautious" |
| Burt Gummer User ID: 29696048 United States12/13/2012 07:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If my wife talked to a guy in a bar all night then kissed him goodbye I would divorce her on principle. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24336774 It's about respect for the relationship and respect for your partner. Nothing else. It has nothing to do with insecurity or any pop Psychology bullshit. Not only does your boyfriend have every right to be jealous, he should dump your slutty ass on the curb and find a quality woman. OMG haven't you read my posts? i didn't mean to make him jealous ... i kissed a gay guy.... and we just talked for like 10 minutes with my friend who is a girl ... I don't see how that can be disrespectful .. I love my boyfriend with all of my heart No you don't .... or you wouldn't have said...... "I will be more cautious". The guy above is right on the principle. no....read my explanation of why i said "cautious" I read it....and it doesn't make any difference. Your choice of words there told everyone where your mind REALLY is. If you really do love him.....you will STOP all this flirtatious bullsh*t you do behind his back....and in front of him.....PERIOD. |
