Mothers . . . potentially one of the most dangerous entities in America - STOP enabling

Great expressive post. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, OP, I appreciate it!

No one knows all the details of the Connecticut shooting yet and I'm not making assumptions - many of you believe it is a psyop, beyond any doubt . . . but if it's actually the story it appears to be on the surface as reported thus far, who here wants to bet that this person had a long history of some form of uncontrollable violent, or potentially violent, behaviors and that the mother in some way, like millions of mothers of criminal males, covered for him, pampered him, babied him, protected him, cowered down, and/or failed to take a strong stand and either force him to get help, failed to press charges or have him committed, failed to STOP ENABLING the bad behaviors.

It is a known fact that mothers of boys too often protect them. They believe, mistakenly, that being a good mother means not letting their son go to jail or be committed to a mental health facility, they falsely believe that they alone can make them be a better person, or often, they are just outright afraid of them and therefore, let them get away with anything.

Fathers tend to be more stern, less patient, less enabling, but are generally emotionally overpowered by mothers who demand that their baby not be treated like a criminal.

Consider how many crimes, non-violent and violent, committed by males over the past 4 decades could have been averted altogether if mothers had done a better job of mothering, if they had been more sensible and less emotional, if they had been a real parent instead of trying to be a buddy or allow free reign so they wouldn't be considered too strict.

Consider how different the criminal pattern in this country might be if mothers spent more time at home, more time being involved in their son's lives, made more effort to actually know what they are doing.

What kind of parent doesn't know their kid is building bombs in his room, or doing drugs, or running with some pack of thugs?

What kind of parents don't know where their kids are all the time?

What kind of mother KNOWS her underage son is smoking pot, is mentally disturbed, and/or has clearly violent tendencies and does NOTHING to stop it, and actually ENCOURAGES it by the mere fact that she does nothing?

It's all about enabling - an epidemic factor in America, the degree of which is appalling, disgusting, disturbing.

Being a good parent means you NEVER enable.

Being a good mother means that when you KNOW there's a problem with your child, you have a moral and lawful obligation to take appropriate steps to force them to get help or prosecute them for their actions - and you do no one any good when you fail to do and choose instead to protect and harbor.

Parenting is perhaps THE most important career . . . and the level of failure is too high in America.

Geez what a bullshit-filled post.

THe kid was mentally ill, his mother was probably medicated herself.

She was a nut with too many firearms in her house, and too stupid to keep them locked away.

Wondering OP if you are male or female?

Lots of single parent mothers out there, having been deserted by the fathers of their children.

How tough that must be, to raise your children alone and having to work full time to support them.

I haven't walked in their shoes and I'm guessing you haven't either.

:ZenRocks: I am so sick of hearing how hard mothers have it how about the father's want to be in their kids lives with mothers decide to take off to other state or not keep in contact the father's disappear or shack up with some other guy in the father has no decision or no rights to that kid after that happens case in point that happened to me my girlfriend who is pregnant decided to disappear on me and lived on the streets for 6 years after me and my family spend 10,000 dollars trying to get custody this kid every fucking judge told me that a drug addict can make a good parent and that I had no right to my son except pay my monthly child support which I'll be goddamned if I ever get her a penny. every time she went to prison I would take custody of my son and having for 4,5 months and then she would get out of prison and take him back from me so are you single mothers I know there a man walk with their families but you have to agree the majority of them don't wanna get fucked by the court system




















me. how in the hell are you supposed to raise a kid that you see 3 or 4 days a month. answer your not that's why this is been set up this way babe wanted to destroy the family dynamic for the last 50 years and they have fucking succeeded



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No one knows all the details of the Connecticut shooting yet and I'm not making assumptions - many of you believe it is a psyop, beyond any doubt . . . but if it's actually the story it appears to be on the surface as reported thus far, who here wants to bet that this person had a long history of some form of uncontrollable violent, or potentially violent, behaviors and that the mother in some way, like millions of mothers of criminal males, covered for him, pampered him, babied him, protected him, cowered down, and/or failed to take a strong stand and either force him to get help, failed to press charges or have him committed, failed to STOP ENABLING the bad behaviors.

It is a known fact that mothers of boys too often protect them. They believe, mistakenly, that being a good mother means not letting their son go to jail or be committed to a mental health facility, they falsely believe that they alone can make them be a better person, or often, they are just outright afraid of them and therefore, let them get away with anything.

Fathers tend to be more stern, less patient, less enabling, but are generally emotionally overpowered by mothers who demand that their baby not be treated like a criminal.

Consider how many crimes, non-violent and violent, committed by males over the past 4 decades could have been averted altogether if mothers had done a better job of mothering, if they had been more sensible and less emotional, if they had been a real parent instead of trying to be a buddy or allow free reign so they wouldn't be considered too strict.

Consider how different the criminal pattern in this country might be if mothers spent more time at home, more time being involved in their son's lives, made more effort to actually know what they are doing.

What kind of parent doesn't know their kid is building bombs in his room, or doing drugs, or running with some pack of thugs?

What kind of parents don't know where their kids are all the time?

What kind of mother KNOWS her underage son is smoking pot, is mentally disturbed, and/or has clearly violent tendencies and does NOTHING to stop it, and actually ENCOURAGES it by the mere fact that she does nothing?

It's all about enabling - an epidemic factor in America, the degree of which is appalling, disgusting, disturbing.

Being a good parent means you NEVER enable.

Being a good mother means that when you KNOW there's a problem with your child, you have a moral and lawful obligation to take appropriate steps to force them to get help or prosecute them for their actions - and you do no one any good when you fail to do and choose instead to protect and harbor.

Parenting is perhaps THE most important career . . . and the level of failure is too high in America.