Any ways to avoid thinking of sex? | |
mikejd72 User ID: 23449005 United Kingdom 12/23/2012 07:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 29698498 United States 12/23/2012 07:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I feel you.... I have had my kundilini activated 6 mo. ago, and never thought of sex, until this was activated. My husband doesn't complain at all, but I still think of it. Since he is always thinking on money, and even I think on money because it would relieve some of my problems, could also be the indicator why I might be thinking on it all the time. But since my husband does not join me spiritual, he is benefitting I am working with him to not be so quick to release his stuff. But I do and have and constantly have this desire to merge, when I think of it I might think of someone spiritual evolved, and when I catch myself, I try to take the face of the person away and try to view my soul mate without a head.... I am trying too. But I have not come up with answers. when I do it I catch myself and just offer it to God.... My idea is the more you make yourself feel bad about it the worse it gets, if its there work with it and just offer it to God, he knows your working with it. |
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NICARICANKING User ID: 29207088 United States 12/23/2012 07:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I find it disturbing and wish my mind would think of other things. I have a boyfriend and I sometimes think of sex with other people or think of others having sex. Why is sex so dam important in life, I wish it would be erased from my brain. Someone help! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20672383 id say either masturbate or have sex with your significant other. How often do you see him? and is he satisfying you is the question. If not work it out and if it can't be worked out then your not being stimulated sexually enough. |
sssss User ID: 30737738 Australia 12/23/2012 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I find it disturbing and wish my mind would think of other things. I have a boyfriend and I sometimes think of sex with other people or think of others having sex. Why is sex so dam important in life, I wish it would be erased from my brain. Someone help! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20672383 A change in diet would help... fats in meat, oils, deep frying, etc. increase your libido... Switch to mainly fruits and vegetable, you will see a decrease in your libido... This. And.... Learn how to change focus on what chakra your using. Most people like you are constantly (unknowingly) sending all your energy to your lowest chakra which is basicly sex & lust. Almost useless.... i disagree. first the lowest chakra is not on a location/point of the physical body, second - the chakra your speaking of (muladhara), has little to do with sex & lust, and is not 'low' at all :) Proving me wrong! :P I meant the lower chakras in general. Sex, money, power, prestige, respectability, name, fame — they all belong to those three chakras. "In the west, the majority lives through those three chakras. And the centre of all those chakras is sex. People seek money in order to seek sex. People seek fame and power and prestige in order to seek sex. Sex remains the centre of the lower three chakras. Sex remains the centre of the extrovert personality. His whole mind revolves around sex." THE CHANGE IS COMING! Spiritual Guidance, Spirit Guide communication, Shamanism & Kundalini. |
Why_Would_You_Want_To User ID: 25978003 United States 12/23/2012 08:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9401665 Switzerland 12/24/2012 08:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25784525 A change in diet would help... fats in meat, oils, deep frying, etc. increase your libido... Switch to mainly fruits and vegetable, you will see a decrease in your libido... This. And.... Learn how to change focus on what chakra your using. Most people like you are constantly (unknowingly) sending all your energy to your lowest chakra which is basicly sex & lust. Almost useless.... i disagree. first the lowest chakra is not on a location/point of the physical body, second - the chakra your speaking of (muladhara), has little to do with sex & lust, and is not 'low' at all :) Proving me wrong! :P I meant the lower chakras in general. Sex, money, power, prestige, respectability, name, fame — they all belong to those three chakras. "In the west, the majority lives through those three chakras. And the centre of all those chakras is sex. People seek money in order to seek sex. People seek fame and power and prestige in order to seek sex. Sex remains the centre of the lower three chakras. Sex remains the centre of the extrovert personality. His whole mind revolves around sex." well, it may be a technicality .... but then .... it's important :) yes, many people do revolve around the 'lower' chakras. they are being kept there especially by msm etc. which means awareness for the 'higher' chakras is being cut, therefore the 'lower' chakras cannot 'work' correctly. 'Father, please forgive them for they do not know what they do' |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30142415 Spain 12/24/2012 08:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I find it disturbing and wish my mind would think of other things. I have a boyfriend and I sometimes think of sex with other people or think of others having sex. Why is sex so dam important in life, I wish it would be erased from my brain. Someone help! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20672383 This is what I have been screaming to Heavens for some time now. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 29698498 United States 12/24/2012 08:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I agree with you Swiss, I seem to be moving up and it really is a Godsend, but I know what the lower chakras can do. It is no picknick either..... But what helps me or has was, knowing the detriment of the lower chakra's but also desiring to move up, so I feel I am coming out and being set free from the lower parts... but the mind plays a major and is the deciding factor by overcoming the lower chakra's... Just my thought |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 2169888 United States 12/24/2012 08:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For real! Don't feel guilty about your natural biological inclinations. It's hardwired in us to breed while we're young and healthy. Trust me - you'll eventually reach the age where you don't care about it anymore. Either way, enjoy what you have but respect your body. Choose wisely and the best sex you'll ever have is with someone you're in love with. |
ItsMaKa2 User ID: 1151446 United States 12/24/2012 08:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sex is the key to the law of attraction! What I mean is, when you start having these thoughts catch yourself then change the thoughts to something you want to bring into your life. Be it money, a new car, whatever the case may be. Just try it, see if anything happens. Last Edited by ItsMaKa2 on 12/24/2012 08:35 AM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 3134219 United States 12/24/2012 08:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They're REAL good at not thinking about sex. *cough* Ted hagard *cough*, catholic priests*cough* There's no "solution" to not thinking about sex, nor should be. I'm surprised that nobody has commented on the real danger of your post in that your post wasn't a fear of "thinking about sex", it's about thinking about sex with "other people", when you are in a relationship. Firstly this isn't ask aunt sue for relationship advice, it's a *conspiracy* forum. Haha. The real issue is that you're likely to act on these thoughts and fantasies.. And there's no 'cure' for it.. what you should do is look for the reason that you're so obsessed with sleeping with people other than who you're with. It is either completely natural, or completely unnatural. The meaning behind it though, is up to. If you trust yourself enough to not act on your thoughts, and think you can remain faithful, then remain in hour relationship, and talk about it with your significant other. Otherwise, you need to remove yourself from the relationship in order to spare your boyfriend from what, at this point, is inevitable. By the looks of it, you are likely to cheat and become unfaithful, so I suggest you either come to terms with who you are as a person and what you're capable of, and make a decision now. Coming from someone who's been cheated on, yet never cheated, There is nothing worse - than knowing the person you care about most in the world thinks you aren't enough, or feels you are inadequate. You have an obligation to your boyfriend to make a decision whether to remain in a relationship, or become the whore you envision in your daydreams. Of may reflect on a dead spark between you, or it may be that you've been interacting with new males, or sexual interests in your life, figure it out, and spare your boyfriend the pain of realising his girlfriend couldn't spare him the hurt, and indignity of watching the person he holds the highest, rip his heart out. Don't play with people. Hurry up and make a decision. To be honest your casualness about the situation scares me, and the fact you are worried you might cheat befriended confronting the situation sickens me. Yours truly, Novel. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 3134219 United States 12/24/2012 08:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
ninnie User ID: 29004990 South Africa 12/24/2012 08:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you could believe that there are only two powers, Satan and Jesus, you could begin to understand where those thoughts are coming from. Jesus created sex and Satan twisted it, like everything else, what was created the evil one found ways to redesign it. All thoughts coming into your mind that are not normal in terms of Jesus' creation of you, then you know it comes from the underworld, resist it and it will flee, keep your closet clean, this would stop the evil one to come in and you will eventually find peace. With peace there comes a clear mind and your life can be built-up in a more secure way. With the sex act there comes a massive responsibility, don't use it outside that responsibility as it will break many hearts you do not know of and it will damage you without realising it causing relationships to a pretence, boring and dead just what Satan wants so he can break you down further and your future life. Jesus is God as revealed in the book of Revelations, He works in three mighty Offices to save the world and the human race. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 7242673 United Kingdom 12/24/2012 08:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Life and Love User ID: 26735250 United States 12/24/2012 08:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm amazed at how fast the Christians jumped at this.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3134219 They're REAL good at not thinking about sex. *cough* Ted hagard *cough*, catholic priests*cough* There's no "solution" to not thinking about sex, nor should be. [...] Are you sure you're posting to the right thread? I haven't seen any overtly "christian" remarks, yet you're amazed. We become like that to which we are devoted. - Choose wisely. |