after thinking on it, i have to add -

there are those of us who become the crutch for our families, other wise known as enablers.

sometimes the best we can do for them is walk away...

No man or woman deserves a life of slavery...

they got use to you being the responsible one so they could be free to be irresponsible.

the greatest gift you could give them might just be to walk away and force them to do for themselves...

(in a situation myself, so i'm speaking to myself as well)

xo