Just discovered my 15 is gay?!

Let him come to you. It's tough enough being 15.

try to be a good example let him see you do wholesome things like make tea read books meditate

First, don´t snoop around in his messages! Now, if he likes boys, whatever. As long as he´s in a responsible and happy relationship with whomever he was talking with on fb, let him be. He´ll tell you about it when he´s ready. As it was already said by a poster above me, being 15 is hard enough as it is. Don´t screw up your son by being an ass about him being (maybe) gay!

WE can FIX him back!!!....trust the religion-tards!!!

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LET HIM BE!!! it is you that needs to be fixed! Accept it and embrace it!

Someone made him gay you might want to look in to that possibly the government made him gay.

let it be mate.

Everybody will be much happier in the end.

And at the present.

If the son is gay, OP wont have grandkids. I would dishonour my son.

Lol, that must really "suck".

That's happened to many young people. They commit suicide. Smart human you are. Crawl back into your single wide.

Teach him how to give the best blow job ever.

And he will thank you for ever!

dis-owned

Tell him to repent.

So what pisses you off more; the fact you think he's gay, or that he's having explicit conversations over FB that have led to meetings in the park?

Advice you asked for so here it is....

Do NOT condemn your kid for supposedly being "gay." That alone will start WWIII in the mind of a 15 yr old and could possibly make him feel unaccepted by you. We ALL know what can happen when teens feel this way!

IF you feel the need to snoop on your kid's FB conversations, you must feel he needs to be gawked upon. If this is the case, and he is untrustworthy, remove his computer after you approach him with your VALID reason for not trusting him.

If you can deal with your son's sexuality, great. Let him come to you, instead of you emotionally beating him down for it without even intending to do so. If you can't deal with it, you may lose him in many ways. One being he will hate you for your judgment instead of support. Worse would be what we all know can happen when teens feel unaccepted by their parents and peers...hint hint.

As long as he still loves and respects YOU, that's all that really matters. Everything else is trivial

Weellll, the sandy hook shooter had a girlfriend sooo, yea, probably not much to worry about if he's gay. Besides, who ever heard of a gay mass murderer? (other than gays with aids )

Love him the way he is!

Is that an honest question, or are you just stupid.

Dear OP,
I understand your concern. Ideally, it would be best if your son felt comfortable enough to bring home anyone he might be romantically interested in. You know, just bring them by the house, nothing formal. Or even just more normal dates, instead of meeting secretly in the park.

But perhaps he's still not sure and is exploring his sexuality before telling you for sure. And hopefully if he discovers he is gay, you two have a close enough relationship that he could tell you. I say this because I know the entire gay scene is somewhat challenging from talking with my gay friends, especially for males. There are a lot of predators out there: mostly at truck stops and parks. And it can be hard for them to find other good, monogomous gay males to date throughout daily life, though I hear it's gotten better.

And also, it could be nothing at all. But I might try and drop hints now and then that being gay isn't something he needs to worry about with you.

Good luck Op!

Yea that's serious asscrack, name some openly gay mass murderers

What good is it to have a son, that doesn't even have the honour to raise children himself. He is worthless, unless he comes back to being normal.

John Wayne Gacey

Who the hell said her kid will take out a school Capt Genius? When 15 yr old kids feel unaccepted, they often may hurt themselves.

Nature's way of Controlling Populations

Give him some reading material about fecal bacteria.

Dude, just let him be. There is nothing wrong with being gay. If you feel you need to do something, just have the talk with him about safe sex, without letting him know you read his messages.

If the OP was serious, he would have said that he loved his son and didn't know what to do. No mention of love = Troll.

yeah seriously, best thing is to be as accepting as you can, then you can steer him into manogamy rather than casual relationships

TROLL...PERIOD.

He is is probably Gay Himself and wants conversations with younger boys. T to the R to the O-O-L Girlfriends!