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Anonymous Coward User ID: 5327118 United States 12/27/2012 12:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It was raunchy including props, multiple partners and other things. I have finally calmed down I am familiar with many things this was new. I grew up in the 90's and we were experimental but weren't grotesque there was still some chivalry and respect. Is this how kids behave these days? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2354988 Yes, kids these days are so desensitized to sex that they feel the need to go a little overboard. Gay, straight, doesn't matter. This generation is a bunch of freaks. My 2 cents: - Stop snooping around behind your kids back. Its weak parenting, and not a great example for him. - Don't directly control his choices, you'll only get pushed away. Teach, suggest, relate, etc. He'll make the right choices on his own. Only interfere if he becomes a danger to himself or others. - Love your kid for what he is, no matter what that may be. If you can't handle that, maybe he can teach you something. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30054494 United States 12/27/2012 12:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Besides, who ever heard of a gay mass murderer? (other than gays with aids ) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18707392 Is that an honest question, or are you just stupid. Yea that's serious asscrack, name some openly gay mass murderers Jeffery Dahmer. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27229911 United States 12/27/2012 12:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2354988 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 16439676 United States 12/27/2012 01:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If the son is gay, OP wont have grandkids. I would dishonour my son. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29951542 That's happened to many young people. They commit suicide. Smart human you are. Crawl back into your single wide. What good is it to have a son, that doesn't even have the honour to raise children himself. He is worthless, unless he comes back to being normal. Hello, he could adopt. Or have a woman carry a baby for him. Think. |
Novalogics User ID: 29381113 United States 12/27/2012 01:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know everyone has their opinion, but here is mine. I personally believe that people are people, and really shouldn't be judged by anything, especially their sexual orientation, I think it was kind of wrong of you to go through his messages, but what is done is done. I'd suggest not bringing it up until he comes to you and is ready. At that point, maybe you can say that you knew because of reading his messages a long time ago, but he may be offended by that.. or relieved. There is nothing wrong with being gay, as long as he's happy you should be happy c: If you'd like to check out and support my music, please go subscribe to [link to www.youtube.com] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30936039 United States 12/27/2012 01:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Besides, who ever heard of a gay mass murderer? (other than gays with aids ) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18707392 Is that an honest question, or are you just stupid. Yea that's serious asscrack, name some openly gay mass murderers Jeffery Dahmer. John Wayne Gacy |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30936039 United States 12/27/2012 01:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know everyone has their opinion, but here is mine. Quoting: Novalogics I personally believe that people are people, and really shouldn't be judged by anything, especially their sexual orientation, I think it was kind of wrong of you to go through his messages, but what is done is done. I'd suggest not bringing it up until he comes to you and is ready. At that point, maybe you can say that you knew because of reading his messages a long time ago, but he may be offended by that.. or relieved. There is nothing wrong with being gay, as long as he's happy you should be happy c: |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 17687147 United States 12/27/2012 01:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It was raunchy including props, multiple partners and other things. I have finally calmed down I am familiar with many things this was new. I grew up in the 90's and we were experimental but weren't grotesque there was still some chivalry and respect. Is this how kids behave these days? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2354988 Yes, kids these days are so desensitized to sex that they feel the need to go a little overboard. Gay, straight, doesn't matter. This generation is a bunch of freaks. My 2 cents: - Stop snooping around behind your kids back. Its weak parenting, and not a great example for him. - Don't directly control his choices, you'll only get pushed away. Teach, suggest, relate, etc. He'll make the right choices on his own. Only interfere if he becomes a danger to himself or others. - Love your kid for what he is, no matter what that may be. If you can't handle that, maybe he can teach you something. going to a park to have sex is dangerous.your his parent and have the right to know.I definitely would take a screen shot of the filth they were talking and take it to the other kids parents, have him checked for stds soon. My idiot son was talking to some gay kid too on facebook while he had a girlfriend,basicly thought it was funny to lead him on,he no longer has facebook and can only get on the computer when Im there.Im not into the gay scene but I have friends who are.What those kids are doing is disrespectful and should stop.What if some phsycho decides to join in the fun and since now everyone knows the park they hang out in...well you know the dangers.Yeah talk to him,tell him you love him and lower the boom this is not exceptable behavior and get him off facebook. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27346147 United States 12/27/2012 01:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm gay & I can tell you it wasn't a choice. Quoting: sunspotkiller Your son will find his way. Love him for who he is. The park sex needs to be addressed. It's a dangerous place out there. Make sure he's armed with all the facts. Feel free to contact me through email if you have GAY questions. fucking gene wilder hates you queer |
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Dr. Lecter User ID: 24275310 United States 12/27/2012 02:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Besides, who ever heard of a gay mass murderer? (other than gays with aids ) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18707392 Is that an honest question, or are you just stupid. Yea that's serious asscrack, name some openly gay mass murderers you're kidding me, right? Gay/Homosexual/BiSexual Serial Killers Jeffrey Dahmer Andrew Cunanan Gilles de Rais Luis Alfredo Garavito Randy Steven Kraft Michael Swango Andrei Chikatilo Fritz Haarmann John Wayne Gacy Patrick Wayne Kearney David D. Hill Hans Grans Wayne Williams Dean Corll Elmer Wayne Henley David Owen Brooks Donald Harvey Juan Corona Adolfo de Jesus Constanzo Larry Eyler Huang Yong Dennis Nilsen Marcelo Costa de Andrade William Bonin Henry Lee Lucas Ottis Toole Vaughn Greenwood Richard Speck Cayetano Hernandez Eleazor Solis David Bullock Vernon Butts Paul Bateson Marc Dutroux Michael Terry Orville Lynn Majors Charles Cohen Arthur Gary Bishop Michael Lupo Peter Moore Westley Allan Dodd David P. Brown Charles Manson David Edward Maust Bruce Davis Erik Menendez "Moral of the story is I chose a half measure when I should have gone all the way. I'll never make that mistake again. ==== ESTJ-a (Executive) 93% Extroverted, 82% Observant, 83% Thinking, 82% Judging,72% Assertive ==== |
kentoni1 User ID: 30809169 United States 12/27/2012 02:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2354988 My son was 17 when I found out he was gay. I tried to fix him up with a nice girl from Denmark and was insisting he take her out. Finally he just blurted out "I don't like girls." I played it cool, but inside I was frantic. I worried about his life style, how difficult his life might be, would others accept him, etc. In the end, I had to take a hard look at myself. I had lived all my life with MY expectations of my children. I had imagined a lovely wedding, a beautiful daughter-in-law, what his career would be, etc. Basically, it was all about what I wanted him to be, not who he was. When I accepted that he is his own person, on his own path and that I had done the best I could to teach him values, morals and how to survive in life, I was able to accept his choice. He is happy today. He has a great life and I am very proud of him. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 24103190 United States 12/27/2012 02:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Pray for your son. Love your son. If you are a believer in the bible, then talk to him about it and what it says about homosexuality. That it is not what God has inteded for him. Let him know that above all, you love him and his father in heaven loves him. If it were my kids, I would do what I advise. Love your kids but don't condone being homosexual. He is past the age of reason so he will have to make his own decisions. Never stop loving him. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1507912 United States 12/27/2012 02:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why is a 15 year old allowed to just do as they please? I don't give a hang what people say about he needs space. he id not grown, you make the rules, he can do his thing when he is grown and know what lifestyle he is getting into. No one is born homosexual, that is just a wish, not a fact! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 30942373 Australia 12/27/2012 03:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If the son is gay, OP wont have grandkids. I would dishonour my son. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29951542 That's happened to many young people. They commit suicide. Smart human you are. Crawl back into your single wide. What good is it to have a son, that doesn't even have the honour to raise children himself. He is worthless, unless he comes back to being normal. YOU SHOULD WAKE UP TO YOURSELF. |
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