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Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...

 
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01/01/2013 04:56 PM
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Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
She claims that her friend invited her only. I'm going to have to stick to my guns and not talk to this girl anymore or take her phone calls.

What would you do? Keep sticking her?

She is hot though. Ugh!
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01/01/2013 04:58 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
I think you know what to do OP.
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01/01/2013 04:59 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
yea, break up with your make believe girl freind
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01/01/2013 04:59 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
Omg, a girl with a life, dump her, dump her nowwwwww. She'll never just sit on your sofa forever posting on GLP like me. You know you want me OP.

1rof1
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01/01/2013 05:06 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
I'm not sure whether to keep her for some action on the side. She thinks we are together but how can that be when she dissed me and went out with her friends?
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01/01/2013 05:10 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
THE EXACT SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME.

She came back and got gang banged by a bunch of dudes.
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01/01/2013 05:11 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
plenty of fish. enough said.
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01/01/2013 05:12 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
she keeps calling me. This is the forth time now. Maybe just one more time and then send her on her way?
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01/01/2013 05:13 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
I'm not sure whether to keep her for some action on the side. She thinks we are together but how can that be when she dissed me and went out with her friends?
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Just be honest with her. Ask her if she wants an exclusive relationship or is this just a standby till she decides what she really wants.
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01/01/2013 05:16 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
She claims that her friend invited her only. I'm going to have to stick to my guns and not talk to this girl anymore or take her phone calls.

What would you do? Keep sticking her?

She is hot though. Ugh!
 Quoting: OP 1546972


dump her ass. I had an ex-gf yrs ago who pulled this shit on me. Dumped her ass immediately and never regretted it. If you tolerate it, she will walk all over you - truth is, if she is already doing this, she's just not that into you so cut your losses and get a girl that appreciates you and wants to spend time with you
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01/01/2013 05:19 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
Omg, a girl with a life, dump her, dump her nowwwwww. She'll never just sit on your sofa forever posting on GLP like me. You know you want me OP.

1rof1
 Quoting: Anti Vortex


you don't get it. Imagine if you have a bf who lives out of town and you rarely see him. He visits town and instead of wanting to spend the short time you have together with you he instead goes out with his buddies and doesn't invite you. Would you tolerate that? Bullshit
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01/01/2013 05:20 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
I doubt most people are sorry for their actions, people don't like to loose in a relationship, I took one girl back that I dumped because she was acting sketchy and she immediately cheated on me too smite me.
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01/01/2013 05:21 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
Omg, a girl with a life, dump her, dump her nowwwwww. She'll never just sit on your sofa forever posting on GLP like me. You know you want me OP.

1rof1
 Quoting: Anti Vortex


you don't get it. Imagine if you have a bf who lives out of town and you rarely see him. He visits town and instead of wanting to spend the short time you have together with you he instead goes out with his buddies and doesn't invite you. Would you tolerate that? Bullshit
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Actually, yeah I would. Because then I would know if he ever came to live with me that he would have a life outside of the house. I.e. he would be well adjusted and I wouldn't have to constantly take care of him.
I've been in long distance relationships and I know how they cross over into living together.

But if you're the co-dependent type, dump her for both of your sakes.
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01/01/2013 05:21 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
By "long-distance girlfriend" do you mean "somebody who I spoke to one time on line who i could tell really liked me deep down inside, and who is my real girlfriend even though she doesn't know it yet, and whose restraining order against me is just her way of playing hard to get?"
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01/01/2013 05:22 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
Omg, a girl with a life, dump her, dump her nowwwwww. She'll never just sit on your sofa forever posting on GLP like me. You know you want me OP.

1rof1
 Quoting: Anti Vortex


you don't get it. Imagine if you have a bf who lives out of town and you rarely see him. He visits town and instead of wanting to spend the short time you have together with you he instead goes out with his buddies and doesn't invite you. Would you tolerate that? Bullshit
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burn her house down quick before she gets insurance
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01/01/2013 05:22 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
By "long-distance girlfriend" do you mean "somebody who I spoke to one time on line who i could tell really liked me deep down inside, and who is my real girlfriend even though she doesn't know it yet, and whose restraining order against me is just her way of playing hard to get?"
drevil
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Replace restraining order with daddys shotgun.

Welcome to Amerika!
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01/01/2013 05:24 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
Kick her to the curb.

But you already knew that.
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01/01/2013 05:28 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
At some point or another preppy girls see how much they can torture a man and get away with it.

I think its a phase but it still happens.
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01/01/2013 05:31 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
Why not pretend like its no big deal and keep banging her?

While doing that start looking for a decent girl.

I mean if she's hot and a good lay why cut her off completely, just cut her off emotionally.
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01/01/2013 05:33 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
Why not pretend like its no big deal and keep banging her?

While doing that start looking for a decent girl.

I mean if she's hot and a good lay why cut her off completely, just cut her off emotionally.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14907108


THIS.
Ralph--a house dog

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01/01/2013 05:33 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
If she doesn't live near you, then find someone or several someones in your city to date without any discussion with her..

Continue to see the long distance one when she comes to town, but don't sit around pining away for her when she isn't with you.

And don't tell her anything about what you are doing. Just let her wonder.

In other words, GET A LIFE.

Last Edited by Ralph--a house dog on 01/01/2013 05:35 PM
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01/01/2013 05:38 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
Why not pretend like its no big deal and keep banging her?

While doing that start looking for a decent girl.

I mean if she's hot and a good lay why cut her off completely, just cut her off emotionally.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14907108


THIS.
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Start wearing a condom and now you can degrade her in ways you promised yourself you wouldn't ever do.
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01/01/2013 05:41 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
you must have a gun ..... after all you are American
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01/01/2013 05:45 PM
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01/01/2013 05:47 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
so many whiny men on glp.
op, why don't you talk to your girlfriend? actually explain to her that you were hurt by her actions. tell her that you want to be exclusive.
clear communication is based on knowing what you want.
if you want her, tell her. don't whine to glp.
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01/01/2013 05:49 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
walk away, dont look back and be happy about it.

dont let it turn into a sitation where you feel bitter about the relationship afterwards..
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01/01/2013 05:50 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
Why not pretend like its no big deal and keep banging her?

While doing that start looking for a decent girl.

I mean if she's hot and a good lay why cut her off completely, just cut her off emotionally.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14907108


THIS.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1546972


Start wearing a condom and now you can degrade her in ways you promised yourself you wouldn't ever do.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14423482


actually damn good point.
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01/01/2013 05:51 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
so many whiny men on glp.
op, why don't you talk to your girlfriend? actually explain to her that you were hurt by her actions. tell her that you want to be exclusive.
clear communication is based on knowing what you want.
if you want her, tell her. don't whine to glp.
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lol u want to turn him into a doormat - that shit don't work.
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01/01/2013 06:11 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
so many whiny men on glp.
op, why don't you talk to your girlfriend? actually explain to her that you were hurt by her actions. tell her that you want to be exclusive.
clear communication is based on knowing what you want.
if you want her, tell her. don't whine to glp.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742


lol u want to turn him into a doormat - that shit don't work.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18713240


no, that is how it works with women. you have to be clear in your communication with them. women are masters at communication. men are not. women will pick up on body language, over analyze things, and then one thing into something completely different.....if there is no clear communication from the man. a man admitting vulnerability does not make him weak in a women's eyes. it is being clear in his communication---with himself, and with her.
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01/01/2013 06:50 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
bump
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01/01/2013 06:53 PM
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Re: Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me...
When your married you fuckin wish your wife doesn't drag you out to a lame ass party while your in the middle of watching some college football.

"Your not in invited". How I'd love to hear those words for a change





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