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Anonymous Coward User ID: 26311503 United States 01/03/2013 10:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26311503 Im not a father yet ..but i allready bought the leather belt and its hanging on a nail on the wall. You are horrible! Beating up a kid is not a solution. Why is there a nail on your wall? to hang the belt on estupida Don't you have a closet? ugg... its there as a symbol of authority . you in college? really ? |
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Barbara P. Strigoi (OP) User ID: 9622370 Puerto Rico 01/03/2013 10:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Barbara P. Strigoi You are horrible! Beating up a kid is not a solution. Why is there a nail on your wall? to hang the belt on estupida Don't you have a closet? ugg... its there as a symbol of authority . you in college? really ? A nail on a wall can be dangerous.... You house is a hazard zone. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26311503 United States 01/03/2013 10:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Childhood can be rough, whether it is deep down in the subconscious, or seeking its way into your daily life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6757239 I have fond memories of my father, intoxicated, and high, beating my mother, before he'd beat me and my brother. Or, when my mother would run around the neighborhood with a pistol to her head, while we waited for her to pull the trigger. Or the closet our babysitter used to throw us in, before he'd come in and satisfy his sickened perversions.. We've all got demons, girl. Some of us have grown to let them go, and I hope you get there. You can't blame you're parents for not being perfect, because you will not be a perfect parent when it is your turn. I thought I would be as well. I'm doing my best to make sure my children will never see the shit I did. That's all one can hope. Well good luck :) I know I shouldn't be complaining Hopefully I'll be a good parent. you have daddy issues.. you will be stripping for the tourists in old san juan in your near future |
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Barbara P. Strigoi (OP) User ID: 9622370 Puerto Rico 01/03/2013 10:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 801546 United States 01/03/2013 10:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I miss my boyfriend a lot… We decided to stay with our own parents during the vacations…. so he went back to cali and I had to stay here because my dad is doing a research and my mom wouldn't stay alone in our house because in my opinion she has dependency problems. Quoting: Barbara P. Strigoi Since I can remember I have always been depressed… until I met my boyfriend. He kind of made all the darkness go away. I've never felt so comfortable with someone before. I can talk to him about everything and that has really helped me a lot. During my childhood (from since I can remember to high school) I didn't really received much attention from my parents… at least not emotional attention. I mean, they would always try to please me with material things and they would always say "yes"…. but they were never really there for me. I wanted regular parents… Parents who say "no" sometimes… parents who punish their kids when they do something that's wrong… and I did a lot of bad things. My parents never had time for me. They were always with their friends laughing, gossiping and drinking pretty alcoholic drinks. … Maybe that's why I hate alcohol. They would always make an excuse to make a party. The holidays were my least favorite days. During the preparations for the parties my dad was always so angry because he is such a perfectionist. He would often say bad words and curse everything … even what is considered holy. I always thought he was a huge hypocrite because he used to talk so much about religion and criticize people for doing bad things but he was exactly the same. I hated my dad for a long time because he used to make my mom cry and I hated her for being so submissive and not doing anything. She would just cry… They were two-faced…. When we were alone my dad would just work, work, work and practically ignore me and my brother…. and my mother did the same… and when she was not working she was gossiping (there were exceptions)….. but when their friends were around they were good loving parents…. Mom was my favorite because she used to tell us stories sometimes before going to bed and she used to be with us during school awards, plays, graduations… etc…. Dad was always too busy. I'm not sure why… I mean he is a biologist but I've seen my biology professors spend time with their family and go to their school activities… I think they feel guilty now because my mom cries and apologize for "not being a great mother" …. and my dad has a weird way to express the same. I think it is kind of late… I mean I obviously forgive them but I will never be able to have a personal conversation with them. Honestly, I kind of avoid my dad. I love him but ….idk… I just don't like to be with him… it feels awkward. Anyway, I think that is all. I just needed to express myself because I've been feeling kind of bad lately. I cannot wait for the classes to start… I miss college, professors, people and my boyfriend. Look, I didn't read your post, mainly because well, I'm not THAT interested in the rant of a young girl. HOWEVER, as a father, I will tell you this: DO NOT HAVE SEX YET. Sorry, you seem young, and I just thought i'd say that. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 31440406 United States 01/03/2013 10:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Be thankful for what you have even though it doesn't meet your expectations. When you are older, married & with children, you may have a better relationship with them. Have seen it many times among friends. They dislike their parents when they are young but when they are responsible for their own household & children they begin to see parents in a different light and a new, better relationship is developed. Hope it will be the same for you. |
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Barbara P. Strigoi (OP) User ID: 9622370 Puerto Rico 01/03/2013 10:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I miss my boyfriend a lot… We decided to stay with our own parents during the vacations…. so he went back to cali and I had to stay here because my dad is doing a research and my mom wouldn't stay alone in our house because in my opinion she has dependency problems. Quoting: Barbara P. Strigoi Since I can remember I have always been depressed… until I met my boyfriend. He kind of made all the darkness go away. I've never felt so comfortable with someone before. I can talk to him about everything and that has really helped me a lot. During my childhood (from since I can remember to high school) I didn't really received much attention from my parents… at least not emotional attention. I mean, they would always try to please me with material things and they would always say "yes"…. but they were never really there for me. I wanted regular parents… Parents who say "no" sometimes… parents who punish their kids when they do something that's wrong… and I did a lot of bad things. My parents never had time for me. They were always with their friends laughing, gossiping and drinking pretty alcoholic drinks. … Maybe that's why I hate alcohol. They would always make an excuse to make a party. The holidays were my least favorite days. During the preparations for the parties my dad was always so angry because he is such a perfectionist. He would often say bad words and curse everything … even what is considered holy. I always thought he was a huge hypocrite because he used to talk so much about religion and criticize people for doing bad things but he was exactly the same. I hated my dad for a long time because he used to make my mom cry and I hated her for being so submissive and not doing anything. She would just cry… They were two-faced…. When we were alone my dad would just work, work, work and practically ignore me and my brother…. and my mother did the same… and when she was not working she was gossiping (there were exceptions)….. but when their friends were around they were good loving parents…. Mom was my favorite because she used to tell us stories sometimes before going to bed and she used to be with us during school awards, plays, graduations… etc…. Dad was always too busy. I'm not sure why… I mean he is a biologist but I've seen my biology professors spend time with their family and go to their school activities… I think they feel guilty now because my mom cries and apologize for "not being a great mother" …. and my dad has a weird way to express the same. I think it is kind of late… I mean I obviously forgive them but I will never be able to have a personal conversation with them. Honestly, I kind of avoid my dad. I love him but ….idk… I just don't like to be with him… it feels awkward. Anyway, I think that is all. I just needed to express myself because I've been feeling kind of bad lately. I cannot wait for the classes to start… I miss college, professors, people and my boyfriend. Look, I didn't read your post, mainly because well, I'm not THAT interested in the rant of a young girl. HOWEVER, as a father, I will tell you this: DO NOT HAVE SEX YET. Sorry, you seem young, and I just thought i'd say that. OK. :) |
Barbara P. Strigoi (OP) User ID: 9622370 Puerto Rico 01/03/2013 10:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if youre 20yo how come youre still thinking you have to be where they are? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31433876 Shes 20? Perhaps I should have read the post.....was it even about sex? LOL Sorry, thought you were around 17.... If your 20 , go ahead, have sex, BUT USE PROTECTION! I know lol |
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Barbara P. Strigoi (OP) User ID: 9622370 Puerto Rico 01/03/2013 10:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Mmmmm Barbie I am going to call it right now. Only an AI Program would have taken my comment literal. A girl like yourself should have seen the innuendos. I don't know what u r talking about lol |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 6596609 United States 01/03/2013 10:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is pretty much the time's we now live in OP. Everyone is unhappy and sad, Some people are upset because their parents didn't love them enough and others are upset because their parents loved them to much. every one is upset and sad over something now days. it is just the way of life. The cold hard fact is it doesn't matter how much pain you can take, or how hard you can hit back, all that matters is how much you can take and still keep moving forward. Everything changes with time, enjoy today because tomorrow is a new one and you will never get yesterday back again. |
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Barbara P. Strigoi (OP) User ID: 9622370 Puerto Rico 01/03/2013 10:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, try to keep in mind that you are lucky to not have been born to parents who are physically abusive. I read so many horrible news articles of disgusting things parents do to their own children including killing them. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31440406 Be thankful for what you have even though it doesn't meet your expectations. When you are older, married & with children, you may have a better relationship with them. Have seen it many times among friends. They dislike their parents when they are young but when they are responsible for their own household & children they begin to see parents in a different light and a new, better relationship is developed. Hope it will be the same for you. Yes, i know... i don't know why I decided to complain a bout my parents... I feel kind of dumb... |
Barbara P. Strigoi (OP) User ID: 9622370 Puerto Rico 01/03/2013 10:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Skype then? You may have a boyfriend, but I'm sure he's not the jealous type. Lolz. Perhaps I should upload an avatar, I don't want to make all the dudes here feel like they need to hit a gym... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6757239 Well... do you use oovoo? My oovoo is barbarahallow I do have a boyfriend... and I love him a lot. |
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Desert Fox User ID: 8786935 United States 01/03/2013 10:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quoting: Desert Fox What button ? Were you can delete comments and ban people from posting in your thread. :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
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Barbara P. Strigoi (OP) User ID: 9622370 Puerto Rico 01/03/2013 10:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is pretty much the time's we now live in OP. Everyone is unhappy and sad, Some people are upset because their parents didn't love them enough and others are upset because their parents loved them to much. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6596609 every one is upset and sad over something now days. it is just the way of life. The cold hard fact is it doesn't matter how much pain you can take, or how hard you can hit back, all that matters is how much you can take and still keep moving forward. Everything changes with time, enjoy today because tomorrow is a new one and you will never get yesterday back again. Yah...it's a dark world. |
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